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MissVictoria

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I'm tired of anal sex. I'm so sick of it that just thinking about it make my entire body mind and soul feel hollow. It was fine on occasion, but when it became the entirety of all of my sexual activity, it got old and started to feel perverse to me.

Gone is foreplay, gone is kissing, gone is any tenderness at all. I feel like fucking meat. But if I wasn't doing this, my husband would hardly be having sex with me at all.

Thats my bitch for the night.

Finis.
 
Anal would get old pretty quickly...tell him he's boring you.
 
get a strap on and see how he likes being an anal fuck whore.

that usually leads to some changes (not saying they're always good, mind you)
 
MissVictoria said:
I'm tired of anal sex. I'm so sick of it that just thinking about it make my entire body mind and soul feel hollow. It was fine on occasion, but when it became the entirety of all of my sexual activity, it got old and started to feel perverse to me.

Gone is foreplay, gone is kissing, gone is any tenderness at all. I feel like fucking meat. But if I wasn't doing this, my husband would hardly be having sex with me at all.

Thats my bitch for the night.

Finis.

That really pisses me off. Not your reaction...your husband. It is just so contrary to what I do and enjoy.

You have every right to bitch. I hope you figure out a way to get across to him. Tying him down for education might really be a good idea.
 
scylis said:
get a strap on and see how he likes being an anal fuck whore.

that usually leads to some changes (not saying they're always good, mind you)


He speaks the truth.
 
I enjoy it but not every time I would think.....

Tell him if he wants it again you have to do him first.... see what he thinks of that idea!!!!

:rose:
 
MissVictoria said:

Gone is foreplay, gone is kissing, gone is any tenderness at all. I feel like fucking meat. But if I wasn't doing this, my husband would hardly be having sex with me at all.

Finis.

No foreplay?!? No tenderness or kisses? But that's what sex is all about, especially anal. Without the foreplay, etc, anal just isn't enticing. You should not be meat Missy, you should be in control. Throw a firecracker under his ass (figuratively) and rekindle some lovin.
 
MissVictoria said:

Gone is foreplay, gone is kissing, gone is any tenderness at all. I feel like fucking meat. But if I wasn't doing this, my husband would hardly be having sex with me at all.


Well that just sucks! I'm sorry that you have to deal with this. This is just my opinion, but I'd stop having anal sex with him and if it meant no more sex from him, then so be it. You're needs aren't being met at all anyway, so what are you really missing if you take a pass on the ass fuckings?
 
scylis said:
get a strap on and see how he likes being an anal fuck whore.

that usually leads to some changes (not saying they're always good, mind you)

And no foreplay!!:D
 
*buys a strap-on* If only my mother could see me now! :p

Honestly though, I suppose I've other issues to deal with. I'm trying to think of reasons to stay with my husband currently, and he is not helping.
 
One would think that he would be more interested in foreplay before anal... if nothing else, to make sure you enjoyed it as well. Otherwise, what's the point?

I'm sorry you're in such a sad situation. Hope things work out... and that your husband comes to his senses.

:rose:
 
Dear MissVictoria

your hubby should not be neglecting you just for his pleasure.
at least that is how it sounds.
Love making is not about one person getting off. it is about showing love and tenderness and care for your partner. Foreplay is also a part of the process before, during and after.
Cuddling up together in each others arms afterwards and saying "I love you" to each other is all part of the Love Making idea.

you really need to talk to him about how it makes you feel. let him know you miss the touching, the foreplay etc etc. tell him you want the romance back, the tenderness of it all and that you do in fact feel like a piece of meat instead of someone who is loved and wanted and needed.

he should be understanding. if not................then i would say there are serious things to consider.

Good Luck Hon!:rose:
 
From the sound of it, the relationship is already rocky, and the anal sex/no foreplay is only a symptom of it. Being treated as a cum depository, especially by a spouse, has got to feel bad, even without the fact that you aren't sexually satisfied. I think you should maybe consider marriage councelling?
 
Oh my god Victoria. I had no idea it had come to that.

Sorry for tuning in late.

Much love,

- O
 
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