anal sex...........

[DuckLover]

Thanks for the tip!

It looks like a pretty cool site.

I haven't had a chance to suggest anal to my current partner; we JUST hooked up this past week. From what I know of her though, it seems like a strong possibility.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Re: Thanks for the tip!

It looks like a pretty cool site.

I haven't had a chance to suggest anal to my current partner; we JUST hooked up this past week. From what I know of her though, it seems like a strong possibility.

You are very welcome! Anything I can do to enhance someone's sex life........... ! I suggest holding off on asking her about anal. Not something you want to do if you just hooked up with her

 

[Bandit58]

What is the best position for someone like me, who is just learning to do this....my man and I did it once, laying on our sides, but I'd like to try other ways too

 

[DuckLover]

Re: Re: Thanks for the tip!

You are very welcome! Anything I can do to enhance someone's sex life........... ! I suggest holding off on asking her about anal. Not something you want to do if you just hooked up with her

I fully agree. We're having a LOT of fun exploring each other in a pretty vanilla format. Have already found a couple new, fun tricks too!

We've already discovered that both of us like having our asses played with (just some light finger pressure so far), but I expect that adding a female friend of hers to the picture will come before any serious anal play.

Originally posted by Bandit58


What is the best position for someone like me, who is just learning to do this....my man and I did it once, laying on our sides, but I'd like to try other ways too

Doggy-style is the classic method. It is usually the easiest method, particularly for the guy. A bit less intimate (no face to face) and it's harder for her to control things. As the guy, be ABSOLUTELY certain to use tons of lube and communicate with her. Also, GO SLOW! Once your head is in, pause, and let her get used to the feeling before _slowly_ going deeper. This position also provides for maximum depth, but don't try that until well into your session.

 

[Ass_tronaut_T]

Re: Re: Re: Thanks for the tip!

Doggy-style is the classic method. It is usually the easiest method, particularly for the guy. A bit less intimate (no face to face) and it's harder for her to control things. As the guy, be ABSOLUTELY certain to use tons of lube and communicate with her. Also, GO SLOW! Once your head is in, pause, and let her get used to the feeling before _slowly_ going deeper. This position also provides for maximum depth, but don't try that until well into your session.

A little variation from that is also a good and easy to do way. Put a big cushion or anything like that under her hip/belly while she is lying on her stomach. this way she has her ass up and relaxed as there is no 'balancing' on all fours. Just relaxed lying around. Lube, lube and lube, some fingerplay, then get behind her, kneeling, moving your cock up and down her crack until she is really relaxed and slowly (!) enter... We found this works quite well.

T.

 

[dizichik1968]

I have never had anal sex....but I am "seeing" this guy who knows just about everything there is on sex positions, how to make me have multiple orgasims...etc. He hasnt done the anal sex either (as of yet) I definatly want to try it out with him. He is so awesome!

 

[Ass_tronaut_T]

I have never had anal sex....but I am "seeing" this guy who knows just about everything there is on sex positions, how to make me have multiple orgasims...etc. He hasnt done the anal sex either (as of yet) I definatly want to try it out with him. He is so awesome!

Go for it, Dizi! You will like it I'm sure. Just remember: Lube³(!) and go slow.. Try some some fingerplay before you go for the 'real thing'.. And: You are not in a hurry! If it doesn't work right away -who cares! Don't put any pressure on you -otherwise you won't be relaxed and it will hurt.. Just do something else and try again later...
Good luck!

T.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

I have never had anal sex....but I am "seeing" this guy who knows just about everything there is on sex positions, how to make me have multiple orgasims...etc. He hasnt done the anal sex either (as of yet) I definatly want to try it out with him. He is so awesome!

Welcome to Lit Dizi!!! I have a suggestion for you. Why don't you try playing with a toy so you can get more comfortable with the idea. It's obviously not the same thing, but it may help.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

But whatever you do, always remember:

LUBE LUBE LUBE LUBE LUBE LUBE LUBE LUBE

 

[BigFatCock]

Re: Anal sex

As far as this girl is concerned.
I like it .....
With the right lover it can be a sensation you will never forget.
Whether you give it or receive it !!!!
But as everyone has stated ..LUBE LUBE LUBE !!!!!

I fuck my wife up the ass at least 3 times per week. The only lube she requires is her pussy to be dripping wet and I smear it around her asshole. It also helps if you give it a good tongue lashing before you poke it. She enjoys nothing more than having her ass rimmed prior to my BigFatCock being slid into her tight ass. I guess it's to each his own, but she thouroughly enjoys the cock in the ass while she frigs her clit.........My 2 cents

 

[moonshado]

OK

i will admit i have never had anal sex, but I am dating a very special guy.. and if he wanted to.. after a few of my own orgasms I would agree.. but what about the stimulation to the bowels too.. is there like a mess or farting.. this would soo embarrass me..I mean i dont dread the pain and am happy to give him all the pleasure he wants,, but this area is all new to me....i know here on LIT no question is ever without a good or many good answers.. and i hear the LUBE LUBE LUBE part.. well .. just want to know about the consequences.. of it all...

 

[nomad262]

ive had anal sex with a couple different girlfriends. the first one was in high school. the girl was a bit of a nympho. she would ask for it and would orgasm from it. we used lotion as a lube, but i dont recommend it.

most recently, i used to with my current gf. we gave it up in favor of vaginal intercourse. she wasn't as into it as i was...go figure. i agree, too much lube is almost enough. and i also agree, before trying with someone else, test the waters on your own. that way you'll know the most painless way to go. starting with your tongue and/or a toy is a good start. i think girls should adopt the rule 'lick it before you stick it'.

finally, anal sex does loosen up the sphincter a bit and can be messy and can produce gas. it can be embarrassing, but face the facts. everyone knows what comes out of there.

thats my story.

 

[Hairgrip]

Preperation

i've gleaned plenty of information about the actual act, but what about the before bit? er, you know 'freshening up'?
i kinda fancy the idea, my partner kinda fancies the idea... and since we've been together for a while (coming up to a year!! !! !! !! !! !! !!) i feel 100% comfortable with him and would like to celebrate his forthcoming birthday/our anniversary...
any response, by message board or pm gratefully received.
xx

 

[steffy]

Gotta have anal. Gotta gotta gotta
S

 

[Shadowann2]

I'm not a big anal person. I'll do it everyonce in a while as a special treat for him. I always use Anal Ease to numb things up because I hate the feeling of having to push when he has been in for a while. We use TONS of lube (Eros is our favorite!), and then we take it really slowly. It takes him about 5+ minuites to get all the way in. He is a big boy and that adds to the discomfort in the begining, but after a while my body adjusts.
Moonshado...If you are really woried you can do a home enema an hour or so b4 you begin your play. It helps me feel less worried about things ending up shitty!