anal orgasm?

wgmo1013

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Hi everyone, I'm new here and trying to find an answer to something that recently happened to me. Can't really find any discussion on this topic so I thought I try a post. Hope I'm doing this right!

When I recently remarried, I knew my new wife had more sex drive and less inhibitions than I had put up with with my first marriage. Actually I proposed to her after the first time she let me to do her in the ass! It's gotten to the point now that every time she has a few drinks, I know there's going to be butt play involved.

Last weekend we had polished off a box of wine and both of us were feeling fine. When I got to bed, she was already playing with her favorite vibrator, a long thin purple one with an egg shaped head. Somehow or another, it eventually ended up at my ass and she asked if I was ready. She had been fantisizing about doing me for a while, so I figured why not.

WOW! It felt incredible! She was sitting between my legs working the vibe on my prostate while going down on me. The feelings got so intenses that I took my cock out of her mouth and started pounding it hard with my fist, trying to cum. Then the most bizarre thing occured. The harder she fucked me and the harder I pounded my cock, I started going soft. But - the feelings in my ass (prostrate?) continued to build as if my dick was out of the picture. I can't say suddenly because it was more like a gradual wave, but I felt my body start to get rigid like an approaching orgasm. Then something happened that I can't even describe. Intead of a gut wrenching, screaming orgasm like I usually have, it kind of seemed like I floated up on this wave of pleasure until it peaked and gently let me slide back down the other side. Even though a lot of "precum" had leaked out of my cock, I never actually squirted anything out at orgasm. I slowed and eventully stopped jerking on my flacid penis and my wife looked at me in amazement. "Is that it???" she asked. All I could say is "Wow, something happened but I have no idea what!"

OK, what happened and is this common? My first experience with anal sex and I didn't know what to expect, but I didn't expect this! (although I didn't mind it in the least!)
 
What you experienced is commonly refered to as "milking". It happens when the prostrate is stimulated until cum is released although usually without orgasm. It means you're gay. :p
 
Check out this thread, wgmo. I'd feel lucky if I were you; a lot of people have to try for a long time to get milking down. Now that you've done it, you shouldn't have a problem building on it and having some amazing experiences together!

Off topic question: Was that a 5 liter box (like a Franzia-size box) of wine you and your wife polished off in one night? :eek: I'm not judging; I just can't fathom it because I'm a cheap date and wine can give such a terrible hangover. :eek:

Back on topic: Be careful combining a lot of alcohol or drugs with anal activities. Same goes for numbing products like Anal-eze. Our bodies need to be able to feel any kind of pain, as that lets us know we're doing something that could be causing damage, and you do NOT want to injure that area. When done correctly (tons of good lube, warm-up, not going too hard or fast, etc.), anal play doesn't hurt at all. A couple of drinks or whatever is usually just fine, but anything that really impairs sensation or your judgement is a very bad idea.
 
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Revenge

1ST I'll second (huh?) what Sweet said. Anal stuff should be done sober and it should be fun which of course you found out it was however if you'd been too inebriated you wouldn't have known until the next day if it hadn't been fun or that you needed surgery.

With THAT out of the way I wouldn't take what she DID to you lying down. I'd fight back. Have you read THIS thread?

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

Revenge can be sweet!!


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wgmo1013 said:
Hi everyone, I'm new here and trying to find an answer to something that recently happened to me. Can't really find any discussion on this topic so I thought I try a post. Hope I'm doing this right!

When I recently remarried, I knew my new wife had more sex drive and less inhibitions than I had put up with with my first marriage. Actually I proposed to her after the first time she let me to do her in the ass! It's gotten to the point now that every time she has a few drinks, I know there's going to be butt play involved.

Last weekend we had polished off a box of wine and both of us were feeling fine. When I got to bed, she was already playing with her favorite vibrator, a long thin purple one with an egg shaped head. Somehow or another, it eventually ended up at my ass and she asked if I was ready. She had been fantisizing about doing me for a while, so I figured why not.

WOW! It felt incredible! She was sitting between my legs working the vibe on my prostate while going down on me. The feelings got so intenses that I took my cock out of her mouth and started pounding it hard with my fist, trying to cum. Then the most bizarre thing occured. The harder she fucked me and the harder I pounded my cock, I started going soft. But - the feelings in my ass (prostrate?) continued to build as if my dick was out of the picture. I can't say suddenly because it was more like a gradual wave, but I felt my body start to get rigid like an approaching orgasm. Then something happened that I can't even describe. Intead of a gut wrenching, screaming orgasm like I usually have, it kind of seemed like I floated up on this wave of pleasure until it peaked and gently let me slide back down the other side. Even though a lot of "precum" had leaked out of my cock, I never actually squirted anything out at orgasm. I slowed and eventully stopped jerking on my flacid penis and my wife looked at me in amazement. "Is that it???" she asked. All I could say is "Wow, something happened but I have no idea what!"

OK, what happened and is this common? My first experience with anal sex and I didn't know what to expect, but I didn't expect this! (although I didn't mind it in the least!)

Good for you!!! Yes...you had an anal orgasm( prostate orgasm I call it when I get it) and it is a very wonderfull feeling :) Deep and like a wave after wave of pleasure completely different than a regular orgasm.
I'm able to give myself what you just had from an Aneros I bought about 2 months ago and have been using. Its a wonderfull sensation when your spasming with no control...
I'd much prefer having my woman/lover giving me this pleasure but I'm currently loverless :(
 
lol, I just thought that comment was so funny, infact I know men can experience enormous pleasures from analplay, but personally I can too, sans the prostate. I think women might be able to have one of these anal orgasms too...
 
That's interesting. I have never totally lost my hardness with deep anal/prostate play, but I have experienced a huge amount of precum and deep waves of orgasmic pleasure during the same. I have to say that the best orgasms I have had have been when there is both stimulation to the penis and the ass.

And, um, I don't think it says anything about your sexual orientation.
 
S.Siren said

"I think women might be able to have one of these anal orgasms too..."

No "might" about it. On my TRY THIS thread there is numerous refs to "A Spot" stimulation. Women who orgasm when having anal sex generally are having their ASpot poked from behind and experience a deep and often repeating series of excellent orgasms through this method. Considering how "bad" anal sex is considered in most cultures this leaves many conflicted about it. Even the ones who enjoy the sensation are often surprised and feel a little guilty that they can actually cum this way.

The MILKING thread is an excellent guide to anal orgasm but please ladies read both and remember there is a BIG difference between manipulation of the prostate gland and poking the Gor A Spots in women. The two areas may be anatomically similar but the spot being rubbed / poked is VERY different between men and women.

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wgmo1013 said:
Hi everyone, I'm new here and trying to find an answer to something that recently happened to me. Can't really find any discussion on this topic so I thought I try a post. Hope I'm doing this right!

When I recently remarried, I knew my new wife had more sex drive and less inhibitions than I had put up with with my first marriage. Actually I proposed to her after the first time she let me to do her in the ass! It's gotten to the point now that every time she has a few drinks, I know there's going to be butt play involved.

Last weekend we had polished off a box of wine and both of us were feeling fine. When I got to bed, she was already playing with her favorite vibrator, a long thin purple one with an egg shaped head. Somehow or another, it eventually ended up at my ass and she asked if I was ready. She had been fantisizing about doing me for a while, so I figured why not.

WOW! It felt incredible! She was sitting between my legs working the vibe on my prostate while going down on me. The feelings got so intenses that I took my cock out of her mouth and started pounding it hard with my fist, trying to cum. Then the most bizarre thing occured. The harder she fucked me and the harder I pounded my cock, I started going soft. But - the feelings in my ass (prostrate?) continued to build as if my dick was out of the picture. I can't say suddenly because it was more like a gradual wave, but I felt my body start to get rigid like an approaching orgasm. Then something happened that I can't even describe. Intead of a gut wrenching, screaming orgasm like I usually have, it kind of seemed like I floated up on this wave of pleasure until it peaked and gently let me slide back down the other side. Even though a lot of "precum" had leaked out of my cock, I never actually squirted anything out at orgasm. I slowed and eventully stopped jerking on my flacid penis and my wife looked at me in amazement. "Is that it???" she asked. All I could say is "Wow, something happened but I have no idea what!"

OK, what happened and is this common? My first experience with anal sex and I didn't know what to expect, but I didn't expect this! (although I didn't mind it in the least!)
Its already been said, you got milked !

First time it happened to me, I thought I was going to go into orbit... I had all sorts of hangups about having a finger/vibrator pushed inside of me, standard male homophobia i guess, but I put it to one side because of the wonderful sensations I was having...

Good luck to you mate... it sounds like you have discovered something about yourself which many men dont have the courage to experiment with... I tip me hat in salute !
 
I never understood why so many people have to get drunk to have sex. It feels so good and is so relaxing in itself, why plastered? Plus some guys don't get as good preformance when they drink alot of liquor.... well depending on how hard the liquor is I guess. :rolleyes:
 
rydia57 said:
I never understood why so many people have to get drunk to have sex. It feels so good and is so relaxing in itself, why plastered? Plus some guys don't get as good preformance when they drink alot of liquor.... well depending on how hard the liquor is I guess. :rolleyes:

Never understood that one meself ! Sure, sharing a glass or two of wine can be romantic etc... but getting screaming drunk before bonking isnt my idea of fun....

One thought that does spring to mind though, do some people use it as a blame shifter ? eg: I wouldnt have done that if I hadnt been drunk ! If so, then who are they pretending to, themselves I guess !
 
Male Squirter

Hi, I've been into anal play for a long time ,over 20 years now and it has taken that long to understand, learn and listen to my body and it reactions to things I do with it. With the help of my g/f or just on my own I have come to a point where I now use a 9in dildo as big as my wrist [and use the whole thing] to have the most mind blowing orgasms you could imagine. From what I have read so far in forums and threads over the months, guys ejaculate or expel more fluid than there use to in a normal orgasm and it can last for a long time, thats fantastic and it is very real for those who don't believe. My experience goes a little further, what I call extreme milking, during anal intercourse with the toy I gush and squirt large amounts of fluid over and over until me and the shower towel I'm on are completely soaked. The fluid is not urine, it is whitish in color and like water, and after each orgasm the desire and intensity grows, thus I can do this for hours with no lack of fluid until I run out of steam. Maybe 20 orgasms or so, then I have discovered I can have a normal ejaculating orgasm hands free with the dildo inside.It's WILD!!!!!!! :D
 
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