Anal Nerves

[NYCgirl26]

I want to start anal training of my pet because for me I feel it is an esential part of his training. The goal is to one day work up to a strap-on. he has consented to it but he is a bit trepidatious (sp) about the experience.

Are there any men hear who felt this type of reluctance to anal play when they started but now enjoy anal play? What made you enjoy the experience of anal training? What were the parts that you did not enjoy (were they necessary though still unenjoyable)?

NYCgirl

 

[s'lara]

i think a good idea would be to learn as much as possible about the muscles, nerve endings and tissue that make up the anus. Beginning there will give you a better idea of how the plumbing works.

Here's a link from the sexuality.org that gives some brief information on anal sex, but i would do more research to familiarize yourself with that particular region. Lots of discission with your sub would be good too, particularly during some anal play.

Good luck and have fun.

lara

http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/analrule.html