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Should I continue to date my PYT?

  • Yes. Have fun with it while you can.

    Votes: 7 100.0%
  • No. Where do you see this going?

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    7
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I am 41. Recently separated.

And holy hell, I want to know where they got this strapping fella who mowed my lawn today. And why was he not here the last time?
 
I am 41. Recently separated.

And holy hell, I want to know where they got this strapping fella who mowed my lawn today. And why was he not here the last time?

ask him , you have nothing to lose by striking up a conversation.
 
He's probably half my age!

But those back muscles were something else. I bet he'd be a handful in the sack. Not that I would know, since I've been with only one guy.

Maaaybe if he shows up again I can get his attention by showing off I have a pretty well kept body by going for a quick swim (Ha! That seems so forward to me).
 
He's probably half my age!

But those back muscles were something else. I bet he'd be a handful in the sack. Not that I would know, since I've been with only one guy.

Maaaybe if he shows up again I can get his attention by showing off I have a pretty well kept body by going for a quick swim (Ha! That seems so forward to me).

Just try flirting with him and see how it goes :D
 
He's probably half my age!
Welcome to posting, gal!

A guy turned twenty interested in a fit woman 41 who has a pool on her property? You bet he is! :cool:

You are making an assumption about the user's gender that I question. Nothing the user said (or appears in the profile) indicated gender. Contrarily, "ACockInTheHand" insinuates a male user to me. Just my opinion.
 
Fair point, but I'm a female.

That settles that. I won't ask about your thought process on choosing a name.
He's probably half my age!

But those back muscles were something else. I bet he'd be a handful in the sack. Not that I would know, since I've been with only one guy.

Maaaybe if he shows up again I can get his attention by showing off I have a pretty well kept body by going for a quick swim (Ha! That seems so forward to me).

You will have to get over your shyness if you want to get laid. Aggressive women have lovers, shy women have toys.

Here's a suggestion, assuming he gets sweaty mowing your grass. Offer him the use of your shower to clean up. Make sure there aren't any towels in the bathroom so you have to bring him one. It worked for me.
 
Ideally it doesn't.

It really just originates from inserting "cock" into the phrase "A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush."
 
Well technically, it's saying one is as good as the other.

And being a now single mother who isn't able to get out that much, I'll take sex in all forms.
 
So since the last of my writing I've been set up on a couple of blind dates with a couple of guys close to my age (one through a co-worker, another through a friend). In my younger years I was the type to wait until I met someone special before having sex with them. But with the impending failure of my marriage, I decided I would do something different so both dates ended with sex. It was a fun experience both times, so I have no regrets there.

Soon after the lawn boy also made a second appearance. I guess after having sex with two guys I didn't know that well, I had this newfound confidence and I kind of wanted to see if I could seduce a guy who appeared to be much younger than me. I decided to go out and sunbathe by the pool in my bikini. A couple of times we made eye contact (though I was wearing sunglasses) and I would smile in response. At one point he walked over and started chatting with me. I smiled and played with my hair as I admired his shirtless body through my sunglasses. Then he asked me if he could get a glass of ice water.

When I got up to go inside, I noticed that he started to follow me. I was suddenly overwhelmed with excitement thinking that he was asking for more than just water. I guess he was able to take the hint that I was interested in him, because as I handed him his water, he just sat it down on the counter and leaned in to kiss me. I eagerly started to reciprocate the kiss and within seconds he threw me down on my bed and we began fucking.

And WOW was he good. I honestly had no idea sex could be that amazing. I don't know exactly what it was that made it so different than all the other times. It didn't hurt that he was bigger (and that really was one seriously hard cock, truly stiff as a pole), but it was more than that. He just made it way more natural and pleasurable.

Afterwards we exchanged numbers and he went back outside (his co-workers were still working outside). Since then, we have just been fucking whenever we get the chance, and it's been truly amazing. I've even been putting off a second date with my friend's friend in lieu of having another sex session.

So anyways, my PYT (he's 19 btw) texted me last weekend asking if I want to go out on a date this weekend. It sounded fun to me so I agreed to it, but now I'm wondering if I'm doing something wrong here. A part of me is saying if there's no future there's no point in dating him. But another part of me says if I can just be having fun sexually why can't I just have some fun romantically as well? We can just break things off when they naturally happen, and I bet he'd be fun.

What do y'all think?
 
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So since the last of my writing I've been set up on a couple of blind dates with a couple of guys close to my age (one through a co-worker, another through a friend). In my younger years I was the type to wait until I met someone special before having sex with them. But with the impending failure of my marriage, I decided I would do something different so both dates ended with sex. It was a fun experience both times, so I have no regrets there.

Soon after the lawn boy also made a second appearance. I guess after having sex with two guys I didn't know that well, I had this newfound confidence and I kind of wanted to see if I could seduce a guy who appeared to be much younger than me. I decided to go out and sunbathe by the pool in my bikini. A couple of times we made eye contact (though I was wearing sunglasses) and I would smile in response. At one point he walked over and started chatting with me. I smiled and played with my hair as I admired his shirtless body through my sunglasses. Then he asked me if he could get a glass of ice water.

When I got up to go inside, I noticed that he started to follow me. I was suddenly overwhelmed with excitement thinking that he was asking for more than just water. I guess he was able to take the hint that I was interested in him, because as I handed him his water, he just sat it down on the counter and leaned in to kiss me. I eagerly started to reciprocate the kiss and within seconds he threw me down on my bed and we began fucking.

And WOW was he good. I honestly had no idea sex could be that amazing. I don't know exactly what it was that made it so different than all the other times. It didn't hurt that he was bigger (and that really was one seriously hard cock, truly stiff as a pole), but it was more than that. He just made it way more natural and pleasurable.

Afterwards we exchanged numbers and he went back outside (his co-workers were still working outside). Since then, we have just been fucking whenever we get the chance, and it's been truly amazing. I've even been putting off a second date with my friend's friend in lieu of having another sex session.

So anyways, my PYT (he's 19 btw) texted me this weekend asking if I want to go out on a date this weekend. It sounded fun to me so I agreed to it, but now I'm wondering if I'm doing something wrong here. A part of me is saying if there's no future there's no point in dating him. But another part of me says if I can just be having fun sexually why can't I just have some fun romantically as well? We can just break things off when they naturally happen, and I bet he'd be fun.

What do y'all think?

Sounds like you are both enjoying it so I don't see any reason for you to stop...enjoy yourself.
 
In my humble opinion enjoy it as it plays out either way. Life is too short to pass up opportunities and that leads to regrets.

As far as the bird in the hand thing, I always thought a push in the bush is better than two with the hand.
 
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