An identification thread Please

[landcruisergal]

Gender: bi female (girls are fun, but I prefer men )

BDSM Play/lifestyle: part time sub/domme, but dedicated within each role to each PYL and pyl.
Dont play publicly but attend workshops on occassion.
Painslut, sadomasochist, power exchange, B&D, love mind games but not humilation.

Avaialbility for educating through PM : um sure, but theres far more experienced folk here than me.

Years involved: 3 1/2 as a sub, 11 months as a domme/switch.

Any changes of style: seduced into domming and its been a steep learning curve, but I enjoy it more than I ever anticipated.
My PYL moved interstate and I have been sub-let to another dom who is more into corporal punishment/flagellation and discipline..
My master was more into bondage ( made it easier to stay still ), deprivation and small sharp bitey things. But i am not complaining.

Age: 38

 

[serijules]

Gender: lesbian female

BDSM Play/lifestyle: owned slave...I would consider myself moreso a heavy player

Avaialbility for educating through PM : always

Years involved: 6 "skin to skin", about 7 since I discovered my kink

Any changes of style: I went from spanko to submissive to slave. From playing with others to being exclusively Dawnies.

Age: 27

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Gender: Male (Sexual orientation: straight. Equal Opportunity Sadist)

BDSM Play/lifestyle: Sadist, Owner of janey, PYL Did I mention SADIST? I like inflicting pain. But I'll play from light and sensual to screaming hard with blood flowing. Let's talk!

Availability for educating through PM : Ask nice

Years involved: Depends on how you look at it. Oriented this way since I was old enough to know what the difference was between boys and girls, and what that difference was for. First "kinky" relation was in my early 20's in college, but the term "BDSM" never came up. Found the OL BDSM community in 1997, screwed up my courage for realtime BDSM community involvement in the spring of 1998

Any changes of style: Not really, I'm a sadist/Top/Dom, always have been. I will occasionally bottom in a scene as part of my educational experience learning new toys/techniques because I like to know what things do to my slave or play partners before I inflict it on them. Obviously some things I will never be able to experience before doing it (vaginal fisting jumps to mind) but pretty much everything else I will do or have done to me first. How can I expect them to follow if I am not willing to lead?

Age: 44 (as of the time of this posting)

 

[alice_underneath]

Gender: heterosexual female

BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: {B, D, S or M, soft, medium or hard} To tell you the truth, it's hard to say. In real life, I have no idea. In Fantasyland, my answers would be:

Bondage: Definitely. In Fantasyland, I am always restrained.

Domination: Sine qua non of an erotic fantasy, from my perspective. An extremely erotic concept, involving a specific type of guy as PYL and me as pyl.

Sadism: I was going to say that I never fantasize about hurting other people, but that isn't exactly true. I have had many fantasies in which I physically harm another human being. But it was just one person, and he's dead (in real life) now. Further, there was nothing erotic about those fantasies. So my response on the sadism question is a definite no.

Masochism: Aside from the occasional over-the-knee kind of stuff, no. Masochism is not part of my fantasy life.

Avaialbility for educating through PM, if the need comes up from one of your posts: Ask me respectfully, and I'll be happy to respond.

Years involved: {actuall skin to skin} I was 14 when a boy first held my hand. That was 31 years ago, but I can still recall the jolt that rushed through my body.

Any changes of style: {started as a sub are now a dom, started hard, now are soft, etc.} Real life - no. Fantasyland - a shift from your basic taken-against-her-will series of incidents to a more refined D/s style scenario.

Age: 45

Alice

 

[Kajira Callista]

Availability for educating through PM : Ask nice

bats lashes and in a soft lusty voice says: "Please".

 

[lena]

Gender: Female

BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: Sub, light-medium?

Avaialbility for educating through PM, if the need comes up from one of your posts: Educating me? Yes. Me educating you? No .. since I don't have much experience.

Years involved: Nil in one-on-one. In my mind, a while.

Age: 27

 

[chris9]

Gender: Female

BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: sub, masochist, so far I think light to medium

Avaialbility for educating through PM, if the need comes up from one of your posts: Not sure I can educate someone, though I'm always happy to clarify myself either through PM or on the forum. And I'm always happy to get PMs

Years involved: In fantasy world forever, in real life we have been including some elements, especially pain and a bit of bondage into our sex for a year now.

Any changes of style: The setting of my fantasy world tends to change every now and then. And I think the amount of pain I can take is increasing.

Age: 24

 

[deathbystencil]

Gender: female

BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: still a bdsm virgin. love the idea of bondage, submissive, most definately soft (maybe between soft-medium), i least i figure for now until i'd get used to it.

Years involved: with bsdm? just been a fantasy for yeaaars now, i remeber when i was 12 and thinking about sex, in my imagination i'd usually be tied up. with just regular sex though, only like 7 months.

Age: 18

 

[bridger jack]

Gender: Straight male, slightly curious

Age: 34

Experience: My wife and I have been working down this road since last April.

BDSM Play/Lifestyle: Soft to medium bondage, some neat pain. Her wish to be submissive was the key to starting for us. I have adapted to the top and really grown to like it. We are in the closet about it still.

Availability: Sure, but I'm pretty new and will leave just about everything on the board that I have experienced.

Changes: All the time. We are still exploring.

 

[Iliyana]

28 y/o bi-female - I am still learning about the BDSM lifestyle although I have been interested in it for quite some time. I think I most closely identify with being a submissive - although in one dating relationship my partner and I played a bit where I was dominant over him - he enjoyed it but I felt silly ordering him around.. much more enjoyed him being dominant.

There are a lot of things that I enjoy about the things that I have read about in terms of the BDSM lifestyle but have unfortunately not met anyone that I felt comfortable enough to submit to in a truely meaningful way. At this point I have done some soft play - but would like to find someone that I feel comfortable enough to experience more intense play over time.

 

[marieR19]

Gender: Female, lesbian but open to male doms

BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: Submissive, light stuff so far, just spanking/whipping mainly, but definately want much more.

Avaialbility for educating through PM, if the need comes up from one of your posts: Sure, why not?

Years involved: For real? *thinks* I can't really count my ex ex (read: the ex before this recent ex), so I guess about 1 1/2 years. But my fantasies have been going strong for eight years now.

Age: 18


Heather

 

[Technodivinitas]

Gender: Female (but I have forced gender-training fantasies...*S*)


BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: B, D, S or M: All of the above. Submissive(24/7 slave) with the barest elegant marbling of non-Domme Top. I was surprised to learn that most people would call what I enjoy pretty scary-hard.

Availabilitym's are fine, though I might not respond immediately.

Years involved: {actuall skin to skin} something like 20, though we didn't know it had a name, and a whole cultural underground back then.

Any changes of style: Nope- I'm a dyed in the wool submissive.

Age: 37

 

[catalina_francisco]

Bump?

 

[kiten69]

Gender: {this is where I screwed up most about some of you my bad }

BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: {B, D, S or M, soft, medium or hard}

Avaialbility for educating through PM, if the need comes up from one of your posts: {i.e, Frouwa_Aph uses a foriegn word is she willing to explaim in PM if neccessary}

Years involved: {actuall skin to skin}

Any changes of style: {started as a sub are now a dom, started hard, now are soft, etc.}

Age: {optional, just a reference point for me.}

Gender: ~female~

BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: ~submissive...medium i guess don't fit into the soft and dont fit into the hard so middle is ME!!!~

Avaialbility for educating through PM: ~hehehe i am still learning myself...~

Years involved: ~1yr. 7 mo. but hey who's counting right??~

Any changes of style: ~nope!!! 100% subbie, it's carved in stone ~

Age: ~28 yrs. young~

 

[BiBunny]

Gender: Bisexual female

BDSM lifestyle/play type: Slave, medium, maybe leaning a bit toward the hard end of the spectrum

Availability for educating through PM: Sure, but I doubt I'm the person you want to ask about anything.

Years involved: About two.

Changes of style: From bottom, to submissive, to slave. (I've been a sub to B. for awhile. He was the first person I've ever really submitted to; up until that point, I was strictly a bottom. I became his collared slave about two weeks ago.) There is a part of me that would like to explore the somewhat sadistic streak I have, but since I have no experience Topping, I can't call myself a Switch, by any stretch of the imagination.

Age: 22.

 

[Esclava]

Gender: Bi-female

BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: BD&S - medium (I think)

Availability for educating: If you have questions and I don't have answers, I try to know who might have the answers you seek. PM at will.

Years involved: 2

Change in style: Came back to BDSM after a really bad 2 yr relationship ended 10 yrs ago. I've flirted with Switching; but don't have enough experience to call it a change - yet. Currently, I am a submissive whose "type" has moved from soft to medium.

Age: 43
Incredible how many 40 somethings are on these boards...

Esclava

Updates:

Gender: Bi-female

BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: BD&S - medium (I think)

Availability for educating: If you have questions and I don't have answers, I try to know who might have the answers you seek. PM at will.

Years involved: 4

Change in style: Came back to BDSM after a really bad 2 yr relationship ended 10 yrs ago. I've flirted with Switching; but don't have enough experience to call it a change - yet. Currently, I am a submissive whose "type" has moved from soft to medium.

This is the only real change. I have spent the last year in the service of a Dom/me couple who allow me to Switch with the subs we play with and it has been a blast!

Age: 45
Incredible how many 40 somethings are STILL on these boards...

Esclava

 

[1HF]

Hi there

Gender: Female

BDSM Play/Lifestyle: New to this but sub and probably medium

years involved: none yet still inexperienced

age: 19

 

[O'Mac]

Gender: Herterosexual Male (okay, okay. I have bisexual thoughts from time to time)

BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: Medium Dominant

Availability for educating through PM, if the need comes up from one of your posts: Just drop a PM, I don't mind answering questions

Years involved: Almost 2 years in the BDSM lifestyle

Any changes of style: Started out as a switch, though I have been developing as a Dom for most of the time.

Age: 26

 

[Private_Label]

Gender: Female (hetero)

BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: D, soft with some humiliation (probably sub/switch)

Avaialbility for educating through PM, if the need comes up from one of your posts: sure, just ask away.

Years involved: skin to skin- 0, my experience to date has been phone, chat and e-mail. Definitely interested in taking it to skin to skin with someone, if I can get comfortable enough with them.

Any changes of style: still investigating on if I am sub or switch.

Age: 41 (turn 42 in September)

 

[catalina_francisco]

Periodic bump for fun and our update though not much has changed except a few more wrinkles (and he now has some)...and some more grey.....(and he now has some of that too!!)

Gender: (Francisco) Male
(Catalina) Female

BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: 24/7 TPE Master/slave (Sadist and masochist) - also married....medium to hard

Avaialbility for educating through PM, if the need comes up from one of your posts: We are always happy to answer any questions in PM or threads to the best of our ability.

Years involved: Our relationship - 4 1/3 years
Francisco - around 14 years
Catalina - a bit over 7 years of serious devotion to achieving such a relationship.

Changes of style: We began hard and have maintained that except for those times when my health has prevented it for one reason or another at which time if possible we try to exchange some of the physically hard for more concentration on mental hardness. I am still 100% slave though I continue to strive to improve as such. He has demanded I top male subs and we have periodically continued to explore this to his wishes and will likely move to female subs at some future date. He says I have sadistic qualities he wants explored, developed amd utilised!!

Age: Francisco - 39
Catalina - 48


Catalina

 

[MasterPhoenix]

first time I have been asked for ID on a message board.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Gender: Male

BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: Definatly S M working on the D S part slowly now. Meduim to hard player

Avaialbility for educating through PM, I'm willing to share what I know

Years involved: about 8 months

Changes of style: Started out frantic to play because of the newness of it all, but since have mellowed out so if I don't play that week its still all good. Looking for more then just a play partner now too. I think I need a relationship with whom I play with to help now to push me further along.

Age: 31

 

[i_love_myself76]

gender: female

experience: over 10 years and very dominate

age 30

 

[BeachGurl2]

Gender: Female

BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: B, D, M - masochistic submissive. Medium to hard, although no cutting or needles.

Availability for educating through PM, if the need comes up from one of your posts: I'll answer whatever I can, feel free to PM

Years involved: {actual skin to skin} Not a straightforward answer, but the best I have. Have been submissive since the beginning of time. Had what would be considered D/s style sexual relationships as far back as late teens/early 20s with lots of kink but not much pain. Didn't have terminology or understand lifestyle until the last year or so.

Any changes of style: As I've become more comfortable in testing myself and trusting a partner, I've become much harder than I thought I would. My level of pain enjoyment is much higher than I thought it would be.

Age: 41

 

[LadyAria]

Gender: Female

BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: D/s (Sadomasochist)

Years involved: 11 years (4.5 years with my alpha)

Changes of style: Many...

Age: 29