Gender: Female, primarily heterosexual but I have some interest in women too
BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: Well, given my lack of experience, I'd have to refer to this as what I believe is my interest, rather than my lifestlye type. B and D/s hold a lot of interest for me. I *might* be a little bit of a masochist, but I think it would be on the soft side. Regarding pain - though I can enjoy a little of it, there's no strong draw for me there - it's not something I need or really desire on my own. But submitting to some of it if my partner really wanted it... that does hold some appeal for me.
Availability for educating through PM, if the need comes up from one of your posts: I would probably be the last person anyone would want to go to for knowledgeable answers, but sure.
Years involved: {actual skin to skin} Very minimal experience. I've played a little with bondage with past partners. I had a short-term RL relationship with a man who was a fledgling Dom and sadist, and we played a little bit with that, but it wasn't too involved. Some pain play with another previous partner, though we didn't describe it as such at the time. All of these experiences were much more about sex than they were about the BDSM aspects.
Any changes of style: Um, not really. I've always been a "pleaser", both in the bedroom and out, but really only recently learned that what I felt might be described as having submissive tendancies.
Age: 28
BDSM Play/lifestyle Type: Well, given my lack of experience, I'd have to refer to this as what I believe is my interest, rather than my lifestlye type. B and D/s hold a lot of interest for me. I *might* be a little bit of a masochist, but I think it would be on the soft side. Regarding pain - though I can enjoy a little of it, there's no strong draw for me there - it's not something I need or really desire on my own. But submitting to some of it if my partner really wanted it... that does hold some appeal for me.
Availability for educating through PM, if the need comes up from one of your posts: I would probably be the last person anyone would want to go to for knowledgeable answers, but sure.
Years involved: {actual skin to skin} Very minimal experience. I've played a little with bondage with past partners. I had a short-term RL relationship with a man who was a fledgling Dom and sadist, and we played a little bit with that, but it wasn't too involved. Some pain play with another previous partner, though we didn't describe it as such at the time. All of these experiences were much more about sex than they were about the BDSM aspects.
Any changes of style: Um, not really. I've always been a "pleaser", both in the bedroom and out, but really only recently learned that what I felt might be described as having submissive tendancies.
Age: 28
