An ass is an ass. Or not?

[BillyWalrus]

I think mine is more eager than some...

For the right trans girl, mine is eager as well.

 

[liqueur]

For the right trans girl, mine is eager as well.

 

[Britva415]

Can you tell the difference between a male and female ass?

Of course.

But it has a lot less to do with the ass and everything to do with the whole person.

Anyone who is having sex with "just a hole" is... Well, not anybody I'd ever want to get anywhere near, sexually.

 

[AnnieLit]

Of course.

But it has a lot less to do with the ass and everything to do with the whole person.

Anyone who is having sex with "just a hole" is... Well, not anybody I'd ever want to get anywhere near, sexually.

This is a 6 y.o. thread! I know I had an idea for a story where this came into play, but I didn't write it and don't remember any details.

 

[liqueur]

This is a 6 y.o. thread! I know I had an idea for a story where this came into play, but I didn't write it and don't remember any details.

I knew it was an old thread. I was trying to revive it because I thought it was an intriguing question, and I wished it had gotten more airplay.

And now, of course, I'm doubly intrigued as to what the story might have been. Sad to hear you didn't write and don't remember.

 

[AnnieLit]

I knew it was an old thread. I was trying to revive it because I thought it was an intriguing question, and I wished it had gotten more airplay.

And now, of course, I'm doubly intrigued as to what the story might have been. Sad to hear you didn't write and don't remember.

All I have is a very vague image in my head of that specific scene, but I have no idea how the people involved in it came to that point.

There were some comments here (or maybe they were PMed to me at the time?) that it is not a good idea to write about a man pretending in this way to be a woman as this feeds the homophobic attitudes, but I am pretty much sure in my story it was the other way around - a female for whatever reason needed to pretend to be a male.

 

[URBottom66]

The one time I rode a dildo for 20 minutes, pumping most of the time, was the happiest time in my asses lovely little life. So yes when I finally do get fucked irl by a living cock. I'll be doing my share of pumping into him, to let him know just how badly I need him to fuck me. And just how badly I want him to come back to ride me again and again.

What was the question?

 

[liqueur]

There were some comments ... that it is not a good idea to write about a man pretending in this way to be a woman as this feeds the homophobic attitudes

I'm skeptical of that. I hope that wasn't the reason you abandoned the idea. Anything— story or real life— that fucks with gender roles is both erotic and socially valuable, in my mind.

 

[Belong2Her]

i am not a top, but for what it's worth, when i am being pegged by my Wife/Mistress, or one of Her Bulls, my ass becomes a pussy.

 

[Britva415]

There were some comments here (or maybe they were PMed to me at the time?) that it is not a good idea to write about a man pretending in this way to be a woman as this feeds the homophobic attitudes

As long as it's not a story with a homophobic agenda, and there isn't any real non consensual content in the story, fuck'em.

 

[AnnieLit]

What was the question?

When I just re-read the original post, it felt exactly this way - by the time I finished writing it, my head was too much into the scene to even write the specific questions I had. I must have had thinking about the (possible) differences, but never listed them.
Like:
- do balls matter? As in, can the male top feel them on the bottom? Swinging, hitting his own ball sack?
- does the prostate matter? As in, can the male top feel it?
- the pumping motion probably is the same, there are only so many ways a human body can move, but do the contractions of a p-orgasm and of a female orgasm feel the same? I know they look the same from the outside, but how they feel on a cock I have no way of knowing. For example, even if prostate is not felt during the process, is it usually felt when everything tightens up on contractions?

These are the questions that should have been there, but the scene took over

 

[AnnieLit]

I'm skeptical of that. I hope that wasn't the reason you abandoned the idea.

Yes, that was the reason. I didn't want to get into something that might be viewed this way. If I was getting this just from asking the question, there would have been even bigger backlash on the stories side of Lit as the audience there is much bigger.

 

[CD_Bree]

Of course.

But it has a lot less to do with the ass and everything to do with the whole person.

Anyone who is having sex with "just a hole" is... Well, not anybody I'd ever want to get anywhere near, sexually.

Exactly right! You have to know and trust them! Not just a slut in either gender.