Am I wrong here?

[Rashashea]

Ok,
Dh and I have enjoyed a FFM threesome together and now I would like to enjoy a little MMF enjoyment. DH says NO WAY, he says he can not stand the thought of me with another man and I am like WHat the hell was the first one for then? Don't get me wrong I love him and the FFM one has not affected our relationship but I seem to be lusting alot after other men now.
HELP

 

[SexyChele]

I would ask if you had negotiated the possibility of an MMF before you agreed to the FFM.

Are you wrong? It depends. If you and he mutually agreed to a FFM threesome, and there was nothing said of the possibility of a MMF, then I would say that you are not necessarily "wrong" but it is unfair to think he would engage in this now. If he had agreed to an MMF, then he needs to see if he can hold up his end of the bargain.

Where do you go from here? Hard to say. But if hubby won't change his mind, then I would think the idea of a MMF will remain a fantasy of yours. (Unless you should decide to go outside the marriage, which I wouldn't say do at all!)

 

[ReadyOne]

Need to change the focus from him to you. The basis of a MFM is for the F to get twice the attention.

Try the approach were the two of them will be working on you at the same time, as opposed to you have one while the other watches.

Some guys have remarked how wonderful they felt when they were holding their girl's head, kissing and touching and looking into their girl's eyes as she came from the other guy.

Tell him that you want 4 hands, 2 mouths all together, not alternating cocks.

And reassure him that any "accidental" touching won't make him gay!

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Oh honey, boy do I know this situation.

My current sweetie has agreed to FFM threesomes if ever we meet a woman that we're interested in inviting into the bedroom. I am allowed to play one on one with women in RL. But if I EVER want to play with another man (with or without him there) he just won't agree to it. Now, he understands that I am bisexual. He understands that I have fallen for both men and women, but he's only worried about losing me to another man. He's got the largest cock I've ever experienced, so the feeling of being overshadowed in the penish area is almost a non-issue... he just feels that it is more likely that he'll lose me to another man. And that's really frustrating...

I just suggest that you ask him his reasons why. And I promise, he'll start off witha bunch of surface reasons.. silly ones... and then you say 'no. what is your REAL reason'. Maybe you'll get the truth.

 

[James G 5]

Oh honey, boy do I know this situation.

My current sweetie has agreed to FFM threesomes if ever we meet a woman that we're interested in inviting into the bedroom. I am allowed to play one on one with women in RL. But if I EVER want to play with another man (with or without him there) he just won't agree to it. Now, he understands that I am bisexual. He understands that I have fallen for both men and women, but he's only worried about losing me to another man. He's got the largest cock I've ever experienced, so the feeling of being overshadowed in the penish area is almost a non-issue... he just feels that it is more likely that he'll lose me to another man. And that's really frustrating...

I just suggest that you ask him his reasons why. And I promise, he'll start off witha bunch of surface reasons.. silly ones... and then you say 'no. what is your REAL reason'. Maybe you'll get the truth.

So if I get a sex change would I have a shot?

 

[funwdi]

Hmm...

That's a tough one. I agree with SexyChele, in that it should have been part of the discussion from the beginning. It also depends on: did he get to interact with the other woman?
Well, it just comes down to good communication, I guess.
I am the jealous type, so I do see both sides, and have discussed this with my partner. In all fairness to both sides, we agreed NOT to do any threesomes!
I hope that you can get it to a point of good compromise for the two of you. Good luck!

 

[Lust Engine]

Healthy relationships have always been built on compromises. Seems as though you should've negotiated for a stronger deal to begin with and that man of yours renegged on what is to be assumed YOUR half of the deal.