Am I just being a jerk?

[juttjaw]

Am I just being a jerk or do some of the women on LIT really shouldnt be posting.. I know I know everyone is beautiful to someone... but I'm just being honest for christ sake.... I know im not some cut stallion, but at least try and not make yourselves look as dumpy as possible! take some pride in your posts and pictures. And guys..... stop giving bad pictures false feedback.. cause I know there are some of you just being nice. I'm all about being supportive and will say so when I find someone beautiful or attractive or have some sort of attribute that is appealing. but really.. some people should not be taking photographs of themselves nude. sorry... but it had to be said.

 

[Powertone]

^ agreed

 

[juttjaw]

thank you!

 

[smallerthanavg]

I find it odd that on the internet, of all places, we can't adopt a live and let live - disclaimer: within the bounds of morality, of course - attitude. Especially about this kind of stuff.

That's all.

 

[juttjaw]

what kinda stuff? telling normal people who post nude pics to kinda clean up? i mean really? how many have you seen where the room they are in looks like its being taken in a run down abandon trailer house? shit everywhere, dirty walls and sheets and clothes.. greasy hair and more zits in their follicals then hair.. i mean really.. take some pride in your appearance. we all have to look at it.... if only just once.

 

[juttjaw]

and i should also say, this goes for men too! i thoughtlessly excluded them in the first post!

 

[Sensualdreamer]

I'm actually going to tread lightly on this one...

I get where you're coming from in aspect of pictures that have cluttered backgrounds...no denying that it can detract from an otherwise good picture.

Regarding comments that are made on a picture thread...I can somewhat see your point but think about it this way, if you make a comment on a pic that others may not see eye to eye w/ you on...does that make your comment any less genuine/honest/truthful?

Referencing who should post pics and who shouldn't - well I'm not saying anything you don't know when I say that you have no control over what pics another Litster posts (unless you can prove that the pics are fake then the thread should be reported) .

Have I seen pictures that have made me cringe? I have, but those are also threads that I'm not going to comment on. Just b/c I may not find someone's thread visually appealing doesn't mean that I'm gonna start hating on them for having a thread.

Lastly it's posts such as yours that cause some of the most amazing Litsters that I've had the chance to get to know to NOT host an AmPic thread - people that I find attractive would shy away from posting - not b/c they're hideous, but b/c posts like yours are odious

 

[mackkjackk]

Editing until finished...

Agreed with what you are about to post miss.

Dude dont come in here and throw your weight around -
different people arouse different folk.

I have my likes and i have my dislikes - but each to their own so dont let your opinion bring other people down who get past a fear and post themselves on here.

so for your question - yes you are.

 

[Dream59]

Yes you are being a jerk. I do not find every woman that posts on here attractive or desireable, and you are not required to either. You are also not required to look at them or comment to them. You are not required to be here at all. If you want perfection in all aspects, then I suggest you go to a pay site and look at all the cookie cutter, plastic inject women there. You are not perfect but I am sure your mother told you that you were. In case you have not figured it out yet, she was a lying bitch.

 

[juttjaw]

i have no weight to throw around.. just an opinion as is yours. I understand the getting over a fear and doing it for a boost of self esteem and confidence they, the individual, may have lacked before and found that great new way to express themselves... awesome! thats why we are all here right? either to post or view the posts and watch that transformation. I suppose there are people who find trashy dumpy pics attractive. never thought of it that way... and im not being sarcastic or an ass. that never came to my mind. huh.. i'll be damned

 

[juttjaw]

never said i was perfect... maybe actually read the post before responding.. thanks

 

[mackkjackk]

wow i actually didnt expect you to come around

meh its like people who like feet vrs people who like cleavage vrs people who like bondage etc etc etc...

 

[juttjaw]

wow i actually didnt expect you to come around

meh its like people who like feet vrs people who like cleavage vrs people who like bondage etc etc etc...

lol, yeah, kinda surprised myself with that one too...

 

[Dream59]

never said i was perfect... maybe actually read the post before responding.. thanks

I did read your post. It sounded like a petulant child that is trying not to show everyone that he thinks he is superior to everyone, because when he does he gets sand kicked in his face. There is no need to bring people down. People like you run off the people that post, and then bitch like a child that the boards are slow because no one is posting. Go find a better place.

 

[IsabellaKing]

I'm not a regular ampics viewer but I say: Live and let live. If you don't like you don't have to look.

PS: Please don't clean your rooms up - looking at what you've left lying around is half the enjoyment for me.

 

[juttjaw]

just on another thought... and to kinda retouch on a post up there ^ ... i find the imperfections in a woman sometimes the most attractive. well, i suppose what some people call imperfections i guess. but sometimes those little quirks are what do me in. Like my girlfriend for instance (a redhead) has a fucking star map of freckles on her body and they all come to a perfect little point right were her underwear line is... she says its from sunburns as a kid and wearing a swimsuit.. whatever the fuck.. its adorable!

 

[juttjaw]

I'm not a regular ampics viewer but I say: Live and let live. If you don't like you don't have to look.

PS: Please don't clean your rooms up - looking at what you've left lying around is half the enjoyment for me.

another counter point to my post! wow. nice.

 

[juttjaw]

I did read your post. It sounded like a petulant child that is trying not to show everyone that he thinks he is superior to everyone, because when he does he gets sand kicked in his face. There is no need to bring people down. People like you run off the people that post, and then bitch like a child that the boards are slow because no one is posting. Go find a better place.

nope, im no better then anyone. just my taste and have the right to say it right? just as you have the right to come and read my thread and call me names. Im not telling you to stop.. in fact the exact other side of the coin. thats why i posted my thread as a question... not because the treads were slow, but because I had a thought and decided to express it.

 

[bernett69]

I'm certainly not going to tell people they can't post or that they aren't good looking but I am in 100% agreement that if you DO decide to take nude pics or pics in general.. please pick up the damn room before you do. nothing is more distracting then dirty laundry or garbage all over the floor.

with that said anybody who has the "balls" to post keep on doing so, we sure do appreciate them. good rule of thumb.... keep your dirty pictures dirty and you room clean.

life is great keep on enjoying

 

[geronimo_appleby]

I'm not a regular ampics viewer but I say: Live and let live. If you don't like you don't have to look.

PS: Please don't clean your rooms up - looking at what you've left lying around is half the enjoyment for me.

i can spot the premier inn swingers' pics a mile off, bella.

 

[EXed_Angel]

Let me start by saying, you have a right to speak your mind & I believe you question is legit in some ways. However, this type of statement, I believe, makes most women who are not 36-24-36 wonder if you may be speaking of them. I have seen some pictures of people I wish I hadn't seen, and I wonder if the people posting positive feedback are being honest about their thoughts. Which then makes me wonder if people are honest with their feedback on my thread. I enjoy posting pics, but if I got no feedback I would stop. So how is a person suppose to know when someone is being honest or just nice?
I'm not sure any of that came out exactly as I had wanted it to, but I guess the point is... If you have nothing nice to say, just don't say anything at all.
Maybe another thought would be the people who post on pics you don't find attractive, are people you also wouldn't find attractive? In other words, maybe those people make a match for each other.
On that note, you should let me know how you feel about my pic thread... LOL

 

[TheLM]

OP, if I were to encounter you on the beach the odds are good that I'd be considerably more attractive than you. Does that give me the right to call you out in public and tell you to get your ass in the gym?

People in our everyday lives will always present with a broad spectrum of styles, physical attributes and mental attitudes. To talk down to a group of people for one of these reasons is judgmental and is not the place of a stranger.

>_>
I swear, I'm 21 and sometimes I feel like I'm one of the mature ones... When did this shit happen?!

 

[Kitty_Schrödinger]

I'm not a regular ampics viewer but I say: Live and let live. If you don't like you don't have to look.

PS: Please don't clean your rooms up - looking at what you've left lying around is half the enjoyment for me.

This.

 

[mighty_young]

Yeah, you're kind of being a jerk... since you did ask.

I agree that in general it's a god idea for people to try to take pride in their pictures, it can definitely make a huge difference to a picture and to a thread but I have to disagree when you say that some people have no business posting up pictures. If not here, then where are people supposed to feel free to express themselves and feel safe displaying themselves. I understand what you're trying to say, but I also feel like you're just being insensitive. If you don't like a picture or a thread, by all means, feel free to say nothing.

 

[koalabear]

this is am pics, post pics.....