Am I in the right place

[alwayslonely]

Hi... I have come to the conclusion that being submissive to a man really turns me on. I like a little bit of force, and nipple play/torture, as well as some spanking. I like being told what to do. I'm not into extreme pain or violence..... I'm not exactly sure where I should be posting.... Thanks!

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Hi & welcome

We don't have some kind of kink test or benchmark here, you're welcome to post/ask about the things you enjoy & if you use the BDSM Library & the search function, you'll find lots of info & anecdotal chat about the things you've mentioned. Also keep in mind that it's possible to be maso without being sub, & vice-versa. Good luck on your journey of discovery.

 

[alwayslonely]

thank you Velvet

Hi & welcome

We don't have some kind of kink test or benchmark here, you're welcome to post/ask about the things you enjoy & if you use the BDSM Library & the search function, you'll find lots of info & anecdotal chat about the things you've mentioned. Also keep in mind that it's possible to be maso without being sub, & vice-versa. Good luck on your journey of discovery.

 

[Sayyid]

It's perfectly all right. A lot of activities fall under the umbrella of BDSM, and you're not any less welcome because they aren't as "extreme" as those of some other people. This is a forum for anyone who's interested in the BDSM lifestyle.

 

[SimonBrooke]

Hi... I have come to the conclusion that being submissive to a man really turns me on. I like a little bit of force, and nipple play/torture, as well as some spanking. I like being told what to do. I'm not into extreme pain or violence..... I'm not exactly sure where I should be posting.... Thanks!

Hi & welcome

We don't have some kind of kink test or benchmark here, you're welcome to post/ask about the things you enjoy & if you use the BDSM Library & the search function, you'll find lots of info & anecdotal chat about the things you've mentioned. Also keep in mind that it's possible to be maso without being sub, & vice-versa. Good luck on your journey of discovery.

I'm not even sure whether 'more kinked' or 'less kinked' are phrases which make sense any more. We're all differently kinked, it isn't a single continuum. I'm certainly more comfortable since I said to myself, OK, I'm kinked, I will not have another relationship except with someone who is also (and compatibly) kinked.

Welcome. We are a self selected odd bunch, but we're surprisingly friendly when you get to know us. Only a few of us are axe-murderers.

 

[Tawny_Temptress]

Hi... I have come to the conclusion that being submissive to a man really turns me on. I like a little bit of force, and nipple play/torture, as well as some spanking. I like being told what to do. I'm not into extreme pain or violence..... I'm not exactly sure where I should be posting.... Thanks!

I'm not either!

Welcome!

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Welcome. We are a self selected odd bunch, but we're surprisingly friendly when you get to know us. Only a few of us are axe-murderers.

Yeah, and even the axe murderers only mutilate/behead consenting extreme masos/suicidals so it's all perfectly ok.

Seriously though, sex is about doing what you both like and to hell with the critics. We're not about to get all kinkier-than-thou on you alwayslonely. Kink is a buffet of activities/proclivities. You take a little of everything you like and ignore the rest. If you and your partner are having fun, more power to both of you.

 

[bruisedangel]

Hi... I have come to the conclusion that being submissive to a man really turns me on. I like a little bit of force, and nipple play/torture, as well as some spanking. I like being told what to do. I'm not into extreme pain or violence..... I'm not exactly sure where I should be posting.... Thanks!

You know, I think that you're posting in exactly the right place. Take some time to read all of the threads. You'll find that these guys and gals really are a great bunch. I'm fairly certain I haven't seen this much compassion and inteligence when it comes to answering questions anywhere else. :-D

 

[mistressmaxine]

You know, I think that you're posting in exactly the right place. Take some time to read all of the threads. You'll find that these guys and gals really are a great bunch. I'm fairly certain I haven't seen this much compassion and inteligence when it comes to answering questions anywhere else. :-D

I'd like to just add my agreement about the people on here. I was around for ages before I posted and yet I have begun to chat to some really interesting people and they are always very encouraging when you need someone to be!!!