am I bi if I want my girlfriend to perform anal sex on me

[zeeker]

Good evening all, I have a serious question to ask, if I want my g/f to perform anal sex on me does this mean I'm leaning more towards guys, or is this a normal thing to want to experiment with?

 

[emap]

I don't know how normal it is, it's not exactly something you can really talk about with most people, or ask them about. But in answer to your question, I don't know, depends on what you want to be seeing while your getting done, if you want to see a guy between your legs pumping away at you, your gay, if you want to see a woman or a guy between your legs pumping away, your bi, if all you want is your girlfriend between your legs pumping away, your madly in love and want to try it.

My guy is telling me there are many perfectly straight guys who buy strap ons for their wife or girlfriend to use on them. Guys butts having the male version of a clit in it, I don't really blame them I could never do that to him, but that's just my own personal aversion to it speaking, well he says he doesn't want me to also.

 

[John Doe]

What she said.

 

[Harrowborg]

Good evening all, I have a serious question to ask, if I want my g/f to perform anal sex on me does this mean I'm leaning more towards guys, or is this a normal thing to want to experiment with?

its just a normal thing to experiment with. my previous gf didn't mind doing that on me mainly because it wasn't wanting a guy to be fucking me but just the general feeling of being fucked. the only way for that to happen to a guy is to have his ass filled. hope that helps, dont worry bout it.
its a nice feeling anyway...mmm...lol

 

[fenderman68]

Why is there so much time wasted in worrying about normalcy in regards to sexual behavior. If it feels good, then do it. As far as I am concerned, when it comes to a healthy sexual relationship, honesty and experimentation is the key. My wife and I love to try new things....including anal play. It keeps everything fresh and exciting in the bedroom. Too many guy limit themselves because they're worried about turning "gay". Once you've tried it you'll wonder why you waited so long.

 

[erectorset4U]

After having done my ex-wife anally, and seeing how much she enjoyed it, I admit I was curious. It was her suggestion that I experience what she had. So...I let her penetrate me, starting with her fingers, and moving up from there to dildoes and vibrators and "various plugs" made for anal insertion. It felt great, and even now I occasionally use anal penetration while masturbating. However, and this is to the point of your question, Zeeker, I don't fantasize about having a man thrusting in and out of my ass, thereore, it isn't a "gay" thing for me. (Not that there is anything wrong with that!) I love the feeling, but, for me at least, I want it from a woman so we can experience the same feelings. As for normal - what is that except as it is decided by the individuals involved? To each his/her own as long as they are consenting adults. Hope this helps.

 

[overthebow]

Good evening all, I have a serious question to ask, if I want my g/f to perform anal sex on me does this mean I'm leaning more towards guys, or is this a normal thing to want to experiment with?

You have a lot of nerve endings in your body that can give you pleasure. You are bisexual if you find that being with a man also gives you emotional satisfaction. I don't think that having sex with men makes you bisexual, unless it becomes a regular part of your normal pattern of sexual behavior, in which case it is also probably giving you some emotional satisfaction.

All of these labels tend to give people hangups. Some people are convinced that they are gay because gay sex is an incredible turn on and then find that there is something emotional missing and then seek out sex with the opposite gender and find that emotional thing that they have been seeking.

If you can exercise your nerve endings in a way that is consistent with your moral code, then you are human.

 

[Northcountryguy]

Interesting question, but I'd say that you are only leaning toward guys, if you are actually leaning toward guys. Only you know the answer to that question.
As far as the anal experimentation - do what you want, you only get one go around, and if she is into it with you, then good for you both.