Am I being bitchy?

[KillerMuffin]

I haven't noticed it myself, neither has the StudMuffin, but people are reacting to me pretty badly around these parts.

So, am I or is everyone else bitchy and I'm normal?

 

[lavender]

 

[Desdemona]

Do you really think anybody is going to answer this one? Whenever I ask people around me something like this, they run away and hide!

 

[alexandraaah]

I haven't noticed it myself, neither has the StudMuffin, but people are reacting to me pretty badly around these parts.

So, am I or is everyone else bitchy and I'm normal?

I don't know you from Adam but I've lurked around quite a bit and have read a lot....in my opinion as a total stranger, no, not at the moment. I could take a guess at the reaction you've been getting from my quasi-newbie perspective. (though I don't know what 'reactions' you're talking about per se).

Alex

 

[Wiggles]

You state your opinion loud and clear. You stand behind what you say, and don't back down. Some people can think of that as bitchy.

Hey, just kiss some ass, that'll make it die down.

Or I guess it could be the second one, although the chances of that are pretty slim?

 

[roxie]

Do you really think anybody is going to answer this one? Whenever I ask people around me something like this, they run away and hide!

I've had that same problem around the house today!

 

[Debbie]

Bitchy? No. Lavender said what I thought. You are forthright. Here we say, "Calling a spade a spade". You say things the way they are.

(Psst please don't shred your critique hat, you give honest, accurate feedback that is valuable. You can't please everybody all the time)

You still scare me though. But in a respectful way.

 

[Rubyfruit]

No more so than usual, Muffin. Actually, I think a bit less so now that I think about it.

 

[estevie]

*opens mouth to speak...snaps it shut quickly*

Never mind!

hehee, I'm kiddin' ya!


I haven't been around much the last few days, but I haven't noticed anything out of the ordinary.

 

[alexandraaah]

I just read the 'Gun Control' thread...maybe you are being bitchy...at least how I see bitchy.

 

[Siren]

" am I being bitchy??"

 

[estevie]

I just read the 'Gun Control' thread...maybe you are being bitchy...at least how I see bitchy.

nahh...like I said...nothing out of the ordinary.

 

[alexandraaah]

nahh...like I said...nothing out of the ordinary.

sure, but still, the question was...
and still, my answer is...

bitchy is still bitchy; i don't think its components change just cause it's a more frequent attribute of one's personality.

 

[EvilBrat74]

Ahhh,people tryin to take my gun's piss me off too.

 

[Dillinger]

Nah... I'm the one being bitchy. But I have every right to be. I scare myself...

I Scare Myself (Thomas Dolby)

I scare myself just thinking about you
I scare myself when I'm without you
I scare myself the moment that you're going
I scare myself when I let my thoughts run
and when they're running
I keep thinking of you
and when they're running
what can I do?

I scare myself, and I don't mean lightly
I scare myself, it can get frightening
I scare myself, to think what I could do
I scare myself it's some kind of voodoo...
and with that voodoo
I keep thinking of you
and with that voodoo
what can I do?

but it's so so very different when we're together
and I'm so so much calmer; I feel better
'cause the stars already crossed our paths forever
and the sooner that you realise it the better
and then I'll be with you and I won't scare myself
and I'll know what to do and I won't scare myself
and my thoughts will run and I won't scare myself
and I'll think of you and I won't scare myself

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You're way cool in my book, KM... even if you just did piss me off on the poetry board...

 

[lilminx]

You know, I don't know if you're being any bitchier than usual- I haven't been around the past couple of days. However, it pisses me off that a woman who is not afraid to speak her mind is called a bitch, yet if a man acted the same way, he would be given a pat on the back and be considered "strong". Damn double standards.


(Coming from a woman who has been called a bitch just for looking mad when she has no expression on her face).

 

[Gamelover221]

You might be on to something with the double standard...I've never called a man "bitch". I Just don't think there's quite an equivilant word for males...bastard is the closest thing that comes to mind.

Just my personal deffinitions in terms of honest people

an "honest person" is someone that shares their opinions when the opinions are complimentory or welcomed.

a "bitch" would be someone that shares their opinions when they are conflict causing or unwanted.

 

[cymbidia]

Hey Muffiehoneysweetiepie?
Fuck 'em.
Fuck 'em all.

You're no bitch.
Even when you're acting like a bitch, you're still no bitch. Not really. And most of us know it, too.

You're an opinionated woman.
You write well.
You're more fun than my OED sometimes cuz - woohoo! - do you move along, taking no prisioners along the way.

But you're not a bitch. not usually. No for no reason.

And so the fuck what if you are?

We're all bitches on occasion, babykins.
Even them with the extra bit hanging down between their legs, they're sometimes bitches, too.

At least you're not boring.
At least you're not one-dimensional.
At least you're not a one-note player.
That's the stuff that really makes me wince round here, not the rants and deeply felt tirades you (like most of us) launch yourself into on occasion.

Rant on, Muffie.
At least you're never boring.



Addendum:
And you know else?
You're WAY WAY WAY more of a sweet, kind, honest, sincere, open, feeling person than most around here know. Life has handed you a really full plate of stuff to deal with, lots of it good, some of it hard, and you do it with charm and grace and wit.

So be a fucking bitch on occasion.
Let it out.
Get it out.
Scream it out.
C'mon.

Nilla.
There.
come get me....
NILLA! !
You need to get some of this out, so come get me.
I'll still be your friend after and you know i will.
C'mon...
let it rip, babykins... come get me...
Or get off your fucking computer so i can call.
b.

 

[lilminx]

So are you saying that you shouldn't voice your opinion if it's going to be conflicting with others'? That doesn't make sense to me....

 

[LukkyKnight]

Seraphically Disinclined

Does this outfit make my ass look too big?

Hell, no, you nilla bitch, it looks like it fits right into that outfit.

Got any more trick questions?

 

[rigged4dive]

I believe dissenting opinions can be strongly stated without qualifying as, “bitchy.”

“Your opinion is totally fucked,” is a strongly stated, honest, dissenting opinion.

“Your opinion is totally fucked, therefore you are a…and your mamma swims to meet troop ships,” would qualify as bitchy.

Just my opinion.

 

[Beebeeblue]

KM.......you bitchy?

No never.

And Im a virgin!

 

[cherrypi28]

sometimes you are forced to be a bitch...reminder to self....dont mention rape as a womens fantasy ever again......lol

 

[Cherry]

Actually, KM ...

Some of your things over the past couple of days have been hysterical ... like that spoof you did in Rose's threeway phone thread.

That was CLASSIC!

I nearly laughed my ass off.

 

[kiwiwolf]

Hey Muffin... not that my opinion means Jack Shit, but you are who you are. Sometimes you do come across as being bitchy but that, for me at least is only when your opinion on a subject is contrary to my own. I look at it as being forthright and sticking to your guns.

I read all your posts and ALWAYS have the utmost respect for what you have to say. I wouldn't worry about it. Wasn't it Socrates that said... "Fuck 'em if they can't take a joke." ?