Am I A Candidate?

[susanwill49]

I think I already know the answer to my question but I'd like some advice before I move ahead.

I am a sixty year old T Girl. Many have told me I am pretty and I seem to pass in public without difficulty. My sexual experience includes a considerable amout of oral giving (I love it) and limited anal (dont think I have found the right guy) I am very submissive and would love to have a very strong male in my life. I have always received great pleasure when servicing a man.

My questions are:

Could I be a candidate for a slave/master relationship. I think I am.

How do I connect with such a dom without getting in over my head

What qualities do I look for when selecting a dom.

Several times I have seen references to a "Contract" between the slave and the dom. What type of information is included in this type of contract. Are there samples available?

Should I limit my thoughts to the role of serving a man. Would a female find any interest in training a T girl slave?

For information I live in the NW Valley area of Phoenix.

I'm sure I need lots of help and would appreciate all the imput that you might care to offer.

Thank you,

Susan in Phoenix

I'm sure my questions show my newness to the scene but I am looking for help in making my decision and also in selecting a dom that might be willing to accept me.

 

[rosco rathbone]

My sexual experience includes a considerable amout of oral giving (I love it)

You may enjoy this thread:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=327066

 

[FurryFury]

As to the question of candidacy, you are if you think you are.

Check out your local kink scene if possible and explore.

 

[Adakgirl]

What's a T girl?

 

[Netzach]

Transgender/Transexual


And susan, honestly the answers to those questions are so contextual. Yes, any of those things are possible, particularly with a person who inspires you in that direction. Contracts? Some people use them some don't. Total enslavement? Makes sense with one kind of person not another. Women? Some will want you, some won't. It really just depends. I know that seems flaky when you want answers, but you'll do well to stick to what you feel you need.

 

[ultramarineblue]

Netzach said some good stuff. Everything is relative no matter how much you want things to be definite. It depends on the connection with the other person and what you find you need from a relationship. It also would be really hard to know everything you would need from a relationship without trying out some things first.

Just remember there is no rush to figure everything out. Get to know different people so you can ask them questions. Getting involved in your local scene may provide opportunities. You'll get to know people and possibly get to try some things after developing trust. Going to a munch or a play party in no way commits you to do anything. I went to a few play parties before I tried rope bondage. That allowed me to get to know people a little more and see how they operated in scenes.

Good luck.