Alpha/Beta ... other?

I am a(n) ....

  • Alpha male

    Votes: 7 17.9%
  • Beta male

    Votes: 9 23.1%
  • Alpha female

    Votes: 1 2.6%
  • Beta female

    Votes: 3 7.7%
  • I'm a man, and I don't think of myself this way

    Votes: 14 35.9%
  • I'm a woman, and I don't think of myself this way

    Votes: 5 12.8%

  • Total voters
    39
I classify myself as a Gamma man. You wouldn't like me when I get angry.
 
I might be thought of as a beta male as I approve and encourage my wife to have sex with other men. But there’s no way I’d go for any of the humiliation aspect of cuckolding. If I’m going to hand my wife and our bed over to another man, he’d better respect me!
 
I'm definitely a beta female. Have been all my life. I've gotten better at speaking up for myself as I have gotten older, but still seem to feel pretty submissive in most ways.
 
I'm definitely a beta female. Have been all my life. I've gotten better at speaking up for myself as I have gotten older, but still seem to feel pretty submissive in most ways.
Without intentionally following you around here, I've stumbled upon many of your postings. Yes, your profile picture jumps off the screen to the visually inclined, but it's more than that.

You do not present yourself here or appear at all to me to be "a beta female." It's an example of the chasm between self-perception and how others see us. How we really are is usually somewhere in the middle.
 
Alpha (confident, competent, physically fit, athletic, and agile, but not cocky, arrogant or obnoxiously aggressive) in most of life.

However, when the clothes come off in social situations and in the bedroom, I define myself and allow myself to be defined by my external sexual organs - clearly male, but even more clearly tiny. Bedroom beta.

Man when dressed and out in the world. When nude or among those who have already seen me nude, just a very little boy.
 
Without intentionally following you around here, I've stumbled upon many of your postings. Yes, your profile picture jumps off the screen to the visually inclined, but it's more than that.

You do not present yourself here or appear at all to me to be "a beta female." It's an example of the chasm between self-perception and how others see us. How we really are is usually somewhere in the middle.

I think I can understand what you mean. Typing, somewhat anonymously here is very different than being in person and dealing with or talking with others. I don't know what else I can say, other than that. :D
 
I’m an “Alpha” in the sense that I don’t take shit from anyone, have always taken lead positions on teams either in work or sports, and don’t do well when I don’t have a say in decision making.

In the bedroom, I have absolutely no cuck fantasies, and no desire to see my wife have sex with another guy. Maybe before we were together, but certainly not now.

That said, I was never aggressive in pursuing girls/women and wasn’t all that successful in meeting them.
 
food for thought

I'd like to point out that only in the human world does an alpha get teamed up with a beta.

In the wolf world, an alpha male is paired up with an alpha female. Betas get similarly paired, and are not looked upon as being subservient, in fact, while the alphas are out doing whatever alpha wolves do, the betas are left in charge of the pack (all without discussion), and every member of the pack accepts the betas as temporary leaders.

I think they are referred to as "deltas" are the weaker/older members of the pack and instead of being useless, they look after all the young while the pack is out hunting.
 
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