All Talk....

[Gayleamee]

Im kind of confused as to why you can chat to someone for a couple of weeks, arrange to meet and then they block you on kik and on here... no explanation.

Ive come to the conclusion they are all talk! Kind of frustrating when you have spent time getting to know this person and start to look forward to meeting them face to face.

 

[janeyl]

Im kind of confused as to why you can chat to someone for a couple of weeks, arrange to meet and then they block you on kik and on here... no explanation.

Ive come to the conclusion they are all talk! Kind of frustrating when you have spent time getting to know this person and start to look forward to meeting them face to face.

they may have got cold feet...just be a massive fantasist who baulks at the reality of being face to face with someone theyve had the instant intimacy with that online relationships often involves...be worried that they might not live up to the fantasy of themselves they've spun for you or...married and unable to commit any further to you...

if your chat has involved cyber or camming they've probably shot their bolt and need nothing from you anymore...it's an unfortunate reality of online communication...some people find it impossible to cross over into real life but can't be honest enough that that's as far as it goes...

 

[Gayleamee]

True, its still frustrating though.

Maybe my newbie status of online communication led me into a false sense of people being real.

 

[ydahecnot]

I sense alt. Oh, and what Janey said

 

[janeyl]

True, its still frustrating though.

Maybe my newbie status of online communication led me into a false sense of people being real.

Well, unless they're bots...they're all real, just perhaps not what they are portraying themselves as to you...whether that's physically, intellectually or availability...

Don't blame yourself for being open and trusting enough to take things at face value...it's an admirable quality but be aware of protecting yourself too...next time it may not be frustration you feel...it's very possible to get very hurt too...

 

[Gayleamee]

Thanks Janeyl

I wont be doing it again, as i usually protect myself quite well, but sadly misjudged the other person (and myself )