age play

[softlygently]

I have only just begun with this type of play. I feel very comfortable with it, knowing that it is where I belong . . . I am daddy's little girl.

I was hoping to find more resources for information . . . I have come across pages of infantilism information . . . I am specifically looking for information on age play for the older child.

I posted under this category because I feel age play is in large part a different type of d/s relationship. Adoring d/s.

thank you,

soft

 

[s'lara]

Hello and welcome to the board.

Age play and infantalism are usually closely associated and while they may not be exactly the same, they do deal with accepting roles in a non-traditional child and parent dynamic.

Here is some information from our own Library which might help.

Daddy Doms and the Girls Who Love Them

Age Play Site

Men Who Prefer Daddies

Interesting Mommy Katt - ProMommy

http://www.bdsmlife.net/alandra/ageplay.html

http://www.thebrc.net/articles/LittleGirlLost/age_play_terms_lgl.shtml

 

[s'lara]

What i meant to add to the above before i posted it, was that much of the information can be found in our Library and i also provided a number of links for Ageplay within the realm you're looking for -- preteen and older if i am not mistaken.

Good luck on and safe journey on your new explorations.

lara

 

[Etoile]

Hmmm. Well, I am heavily involved in a Daddy/girl D/s relationship, let me see what I can come up with.

For us, the dynamic came about not because of a particular fetish, but because my Daddy is 20 years older than me - plenty old enough to actually be my parent. It also came about because Daddy was my entry into the BDSM world, and so I have learned a great deal from em and through em. I'm also what e calls "simple-minded" - I need a lot of guidance, much like a child. (For those of you who know me on here, I do agree with that label when Daddy and I are together. Online I am much more able to think for myself than when I am with em. And it's truly a loss of ability, rather than giving up responsibility for thinking.)

Ageplay can be a sensitive subject for people outside the kink fringe realm. I have gotten some negative comments from vanilla friends who find out about the Daddy/girl aspect of my relationship.

I wouldn't use the word "adoring" to describe my relationship, though. I think there may be subs out there who do experience it - I would say that ownedsubgal's Daddy adores her - but for me it is more about learning from my Daddy and respecting em, rather than em lavishing me with anything.

 

[dolf]

s'lara i hadn't found those yet. ty
xx

 

[CutieMouse]

*****

 

[pandoravampire]

somebody once posted here a thread 'what is a Daddy', i had thought it was Etoile, but maybe not. But it contained a description of how someones Daddy was and what they meant to the sub, it was truly adoring-i thought it beautiful, and enviable a relationship to be in.
Ive never experienced age play, im not too sure how i would react or to what extent i would be able to do this, it doesnt feel like my 'thing' from my initial reaction, but hey, i wait till ive tried it before i judge for myself.

and if anyone also remembers the description of just how adoring a Daddy can be, please put it up or link it.

 

[A's Sweet Baby]

http://dollhous.hyperchat.com/
This link is a pretty good article about what is a Daddy Dom.

Appe and i met about a year ago and began as a rather vanilla relationship. We quickly and easily slipped into a Daddy/little girl relationship. I was his "sweet baby" and "little girl" from the very beginning. And he cares for me and guides me and nurtures me. I don't see him as a "father" (i have a wonderful father i love very much). But he does protect me and love me and keep me safe and so much more. So i would occassionally tease him when he slipped into that "Daddy" role. ("Yes Daddy, i will make sure i don't skip breakfast today" ) It became quite natural and comfortable to call him Daddy. And as i started to become more comfortable with my D/s needs it became quite natural to address him as a title, rather than his name. It is funny when i look back and re-read e-mails between us from the beginning, i almost blush now to see that i called him by his first name. He is almost always "Daddy" to me (though more and more frequently i will address him as "Master" or "Sir"). He wants what is best for me and adores me as much as i adore him. Now, for us there is an actual age difference of 27 years so it isn't so much "age-play" as a fact of our lives.

So softlygently, i understand completely. I too am "Daddy's little girl."

I love you, Daddy!

 

[softlygently]

thank you s'lara for the links and the etoile for the additional information...it helps to get others take on things..and to know there are many many different types of relationships.


Adoring D/s
Denotes Dominance and Submission practiced between those in a healthy, love relationship, as opposed to the broader genre of general D/s, which is so often practiced between more casual partners or strangers, in clubs and other gatherings.
It isn't a matter of the intensity of the D/s, it's about the different headspace when submission is offered to a Love, and the dominance practiced on someone you adore, which elevates the emotional and psychological intensity of the physical play so gorgeously.

i loved this definition, i found it at ageplay.org


i know i am a submissive but i feel and have felt differently from what i saw as the traditional submissive ... i could not just offer myself/my submission to a man who i didnt' trust completely to have my best interests in mind and to know he loves me.
he will have to discipline me at times...i am not always such a good girl, but in a loving way, intended to help me grow and become a better person...


~thanks everyone for their imput~


soft


ageplay.org

 

[Etoile]

somebody once posted here a thread 'what is a Daddy', i had thought it was Etoile, but maybe not.

Hmmm...perhaps you are thinking of the thread about "what is a lesbian Daddy" that was started by WriterDom?

 

[Etoile]

Adoring D/s
Denotes Dominance and Submission practiced between those in a healthy, love relationship, as opposed to the broader genre of general D/s, which is so often practiced between more casual partners or strangers, in clubs and other gatherings.
It isn't a matter of the intensity of the D/s, it's about the different headspace when submission is offered to a Love, and the dominance practiced on someone you adore, which elevates the emotional and psychological intensity of the physical play so gorgeously.

Ah, I see. Interesting that it's at ageplay.org; I would think that could be said of any relationship.

 

[Etoile]

I keep coming back to this thread because the title "Daddy" feels right, but "Master" or "Sir" makes me crack up laughing.

I don't think I have ever used Master. I have called my girlfriend Mistress, but my Daddy is never Master. If I've been bad, or e just wants a mindfuck, e will sometimes order me to call em Sir. I don't like using it, it feels awkward and clunky.

 

[Lady_T_Minus]

thanks for the link to the what is a Daddy. Again, a very nice description. But not the one id read.
A lesbian Daddy, that is a mind fuck for me. But id probably feel more comfortable doing age play with another woman than a man i think. No - i dont think, i know.
Think ill go check out the lesbian daddy's thread.

 

[Netzach]

That Mommy Katt interview was rad.

I have this on the brain recently.

I have a slave whose relationship to his mother is...well, incredibly tragic and fucked up, who has to have immense mother issues.

This would be a really compelling trauma to play around the edges of, but I'm not rushing in.

 

[~hellbaby~]

somebody once posted here a thread 'what is a Daddy', i had thought it was Etoile, but maybe not. But it contained a description of how someones Daddy was and what they meant to the sub, it was truly adoring-i thought it beautiful, and enviable a relationship to be in.
Ive never experienced age play, im not too sure how i would react or to what extent i would be able to do this, it doesnt feel like my 'thing' from my initial reaction, but hey, i wait till ive tried it before i judge for myself.

and if anyone also remembers the description of just how adoring a Daddy can be, please put it up or link it.

I found this page a few years ago and I love it, it gives a wonderful description of a D/lg relationship as seen through Daddy's eyes. Please Note:{{This is not pedophilia, it is about two adults enjoying each other in a non traditional way. I did not write it I am only passing on a beautiful sentiment~>said so I don't get shit from people who do not understand age play}}
Daddys Home

Some of the text has been altered from the original content but it is still worth the read

 

[CherryPop22]

I found this page a few years ago and I love it, it gives a wonderful description of a D/lg relationship as seen through Daddy's eyes
Daddys Home

Some of the text has been altered from the original content but it is still worth the read

That is a great site. It brought tears to my eyes.

 

[Etoile]

Wow, I like that a lot. Thank you for posting that link.

 

[~hellbaby~]

That is a great site. It brought tears to my eyes.

Mine too, every time I go there I cry. Sometimes I go there just to cry....It was a year or so back I found it and e mailed him to tell him how much I loved it and asked if I could share it. I did like the original text better this one has added text and {typos} but it is still a beautiful page with a {IMO}very good explanition of what a D/lg relationship is. I posted it once in a spanking LJ group and got a lot of shit because people outside the group thought it was pedophilia. I am glad you liked it!!