after bjs...

[Teddybear1626]

my man will not kiss me after i give him oral sex, i know guys that do this and it use to not bother me but i've been with him for quite a while now and i would really like for him to just kiss me passionatley afterwards for a "good job sweetie that was the best!" ya know? how can i get him to do this with out upsetting him. i've tried so manythings but nothing works

 

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[Chuckwrox]

Tell him it's important to you? The glass of water next to the bed idea was pretty good, because it's there for him to feel better about kissing you.

 

[lovetoread]

Tell him to that you want to be kissed.

If he says no, dont give him any head. Or at least cut back on them.

Its a personal thing, I do not like my taste, but if it meant not being eaten, then I would change my mind, ya know?

 

[Lava Rock]

Don't use that one !!! Unless you want a war.

 

[Purple Velvet]

Some people are just like that

You can try the drink by the bed, you can try a mint.... You can even try talking to him, and telling him how much it hurts your feelings/pisses you off.... But if he still won't go for it, you have to realise that some people are just like that. They aren't comfortable enough with themselves to be able to kiss after getting head. And if it bothers you that much, you can always dump him and find someone who will. What ever happens, good luck.

 

[Bandit58]

My man loves to kiss me after I've been down on him, we share his cum and both of us swallow. In fact he told me I am the first woman to let him cum in her mouth, and I had never given a blow job until 6 months ago. He'd never tasted his own cum until we got together either. A whole series of firsts for us both, and we're in our mid 40s He is very open minded which helps, and I also love to taste myself on his lips after he's been down on me

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Well, ladies, I've seen several threads on this topic lately, and all I can say is...*puke!* No, just kidding, I'll kiss a lady after she gives me a bj...hell, I'd kiss her mom and dad out of gratitude! My only problem is that I'm allergic to semen, apparently. I got snowballed once, and while I didn't mind the taste or anything, I was severely ill an hour later. Experimenting since then has led me to believe that I can't digest my own cum. Also since then, I really don't mind at all if a woman doesn't swallow.

 

[xx_La_Reina_xx]

off topic but.......

No, just kidding, I'll kiss a lady after she gives me a bj...hell, I'd kiss her mom and dad out of gratitude!

...hahahaha...

just too darn funny to not make a comment....

 

[ozraven]

Tell him to that you want to be kissed.

If he says no, dont give him any head. Or at least cut back on them.

Its a personal thing, I do not like my taste, but if it meant not being eaten, then I would change my mind, ya know?

Whilst that MAY be effective, it's not overly subtle and quite likely to lead to other more relationship issues......

Fuck, why can't people just TALK these days, I don't get it, without communication you have no relationship.........So for fucks sake people, get down and COMMUNICATE!

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

ITA with lovestoread DO NOT SWALLOW him anymore if he will not KISS you after straight up....

 

[tyme]

one of two things I would talk to him about why its ok for you to put your mouth on his dick my not on his mouth
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You will have to pick do you want to be kissed more or do you want to give him a bj? Then tell him and stick to it unless he changes his mind if that is needed. Both me and my husband love the taste of each other and ourselfs on the others lips. I love nothing better then to give my husband a blowjob after we have sex, then we kiss giving us both the taste of us. Yummy!!

 

[SnoManX]

I agree with Tyme...if you don't mind tasting him neither should he. Although maybe he has some homophobic feelings and thinks that tasting his own sperm contradicts his sexuality..I don't know. Quit with the BJs till he'll kiss you, or talk to him about it. The water next to the bed should do the trick to.

 

[AardRiven]

As much as I think its stupid for him to not want to kiss you, I will advise against ultimatums. Sometimes they backfire and its not nice afterwards.

Do try talking to him, and you can quit giving him BJ's if he is unreasonable, but figure out a way not to make it sound like a threat/ultimatum.

As for tasting yourself, theres a world of difference between kissing somebody that SWALLOWED your cum and sharing cum. Personally I never bothered tasting myself, have no great desire to do so (would if I meet a girl that its really important to/great turnon for her or something, dont have issues with it, just no desire to) and I'm as certain of my sexuality as it gets. (meaning among other things I'm not homophobic, just to be clear) And water doesnt really mask any taste.

 

[Mike302]

My wife and I go down on eachother or kiss no matter who has been where.

We love the way we both taste, share our sex juices freely, and both love to swallow. (And share creampies, snowball, etc.)

Yummy!

Mike

 

[Teddybear1626]

don't think he'll change

thanx for your input guys i don't think he will change though but i am gonna give it a whirl and maybe in time he will come around. i just don't see the big deal in it.