Affection

[Aurelia_Malys]

I hope this is the better place to post this. It is too mild for the F&SC board.
I am wondering what subtle ways I can flirt and be affectionate towards a mate of mine without others knowing? Have to be careful in case someone reads her fb or other emails to me. Thanks in advance and have a good evening.

She asked I not be over affectionate on fb b/c of her family. Doesn't want them to make a big deal about it.
On the emails well she has been hacked in the past and had her emails read.

She isn't married. As far as I know she is single and not dating anyone.
That is a good idea. Thank you Noor.

B/c of the fact we were online engaged meant as a joke and one of her brothers read over her shoulder. No raunchyness b/c she is not that type of woman. She got hacked by a troll and former friend of hers who tries to stir up trouble. Been mates for almost two years now.
Hope that helps with the confusion. We chat via PM on a non sexual based website btw besides fb. Anyone who has the status update setting can see our convo and make assumptions.

Ah. I suppose tossing a pebble against her winodow after all has gone to bed would not be a prefered method then. Definitely don't need fire brigade or constables showing up. She has three brothers and two play football. Yikes.

Let us just say I am sort of involved with someone who doesn't nessisarily mind. As long as I don't report any details that is.

That is true I suppose. Thanks for the reply.

Lamb-e-kins is 45 and I am 42. She lives at home with brothers and her dad.

Yes I have. No I have not heard of that documentry. When she and I met on another webiste two years ago we joked about it as part of an online play we put on for an audience. Then to piss off an ex friend we got "engaged" and it went from there. It was fun. If her ex friend gets ahold of more info it could be used for not so nice purposes.

I can assure you I am 42. Born 06/21/1970. Perhaps posting this was not one of my better ideas.

Beck, just wondering ..... can you read your own posts and see why people are just absolutely confused about some of the questions you ask?

 

[Beck31]

Yes. I can read my own posts. I suppose so. Perhaps some of my posts were more a flight of fancy than completely serious. I am genuinly interested in other people's opinions on such subjects.

 

[Exquisition]

Yes. I can read my own posts. I suppose so. Perhaps some of my posts were more a flight of fancy than completely serious. I am genuinly interested in other people's opinions on such subjects.

OK. You asked for my advice, so I'm gonna tell you straight and let you in. The absolute best way is to try a broken mirror and sunlight. It;s the most direct way to signal someone and it's got real range on it.

 

[Beck31]

OK. You asked for my advice, so I'm gonna tell you straight and let you in. The absolute best way is to try a broken mirror and sunlight. It;s the most direct way to signal someone and it's got real range on it.

Thank you very much. I appreciate it. Should have thought of this to start with.

 

[Aurelia_Malys]

OK. You asked for my advice, so I'm gonna tell you straight and let you in. The absolute best way is to try a broken mirror and sunlight. It;s the most direct way to signal someone and it's got real range on it.

You get really stuck on an idea, dont you? You are making me laugh! (I tried to find a semaphore pic for you but couldnt find one I liked)

 

[Exquisition]

You get really stuck on an idea, dont you? You are making me laugh! (I tried to find a semaphore pic for you but couldnt find one I liked)

Well, good communication is everything isn't it I'm saving Telex for later.

 

[Beck31]

Well, good communication is everything isn't it I'm saving Telex for later.

Excuse my ignorance on such matters but what is Telex?

 

[Exquisition]

Excuse my ignorance on such matters but what is Telex?

It's a robust way of communicating surrpeticiously but, it is dying out Beck I'm afraid. They still use it in India I'm told.

 

[Beck31]

It's a robust way of communicating surrpeticiously but, it is dying out Beck I'm afraid. They still use it in India I'm told.

mmm. thank you. i wasn't aware of that.

 

[Emerson40]

Are one or both of you a vulnerable person, or adult with special needs?

You both are apparently adults, but are behaving like you are 12 years old.

Your questions makes more sense if you are kids, or if one or both of you are adults with special needs and are trying to get around the Informed Consent issue.

Otherwise something else fishy - one or both of you are married, or involved in relationships for example - is going on. Seriously, she's 42 and you're worried about her brothers?


The last time I worried about a girl's older brothers I was in grade 7 or 8.

 

[Beck31]

Nope. We both have bipolar disorder. Her brothers are just protective. Have both recently lost a family member so bugger off please

 

[Emerson40]

Nope. We both have bipolar disorder. Her brothers are just protective. Have both recently lost a family member so fuck off.

Why so mean Bean?

You ask a ridiculous question, and follow it up with a series of equally ridiculous posts, and then get all butt-hurt because several people point out, "Hey, that sounds ridiculous", and ask you about it.

As Aurelia suggested, read back through your posts. It reads like your passing notes with your mate (male) in third period, in high school.

Grow a pair already.

 

[Matthew82]

Have you really seen Lamb-e-kins before? Have you heard of the documentary Catfish?

Catfish was a great doc. This scenario is messed up. Either have a Catfish on hand or married, no questions about it.

 

[Aurelia_Malys]

Nope. We both have bipolar disorder. Her brothers are just protective. Have both recently lost a family member so fuck off.

Beck, I thought you didnt say "the f word"

 

[Emerson40]

Nope. We both have bipolar disorder. Her brothers are just protective. Have both recently lost a family member so fuck off.

Beck, I thought you didnt say "the f word"

It would not have packed the intended punch if he told me to making love off.

 

[Aquagal]

It would not have packed the intended punch if he told me to making love off.

Okay, I laughed. OUT LOUD.

 

[TheLaughingGod]

Nope. We both have bipolar disorder. Her brothers are just protective. Have both recently lost a family member so fuck off.

You do realise that being bipolar is not an excuse for being an idiot right?

 

[Beck31]

You do realise I recently lost a family member and LM ticked me off right?

 

[Emerson40]

Lamb-e-kins is 45 and I am 42. She lives at home with brothers and her dad.

Hey Joel!

Howz it going?!

 

[MsTexas]

Take things slow ...