Advice

[Littlemermaid83]

Hi all!
I'm looking for a little advice...
I would like for my partner to be a bit more dominant in the bedroom, rougher nipple play, forceful fingering, aggressive pussy play, name calling etc. What are some things/signs I can give to let him know I'm wanting more?

 

[Transamwriter]

Hi all!
I'm looking for a little advice...
I would like for my partner to be a bit more dominant in the bedroom, rougher nipple play, forceful fingering, aggressive pussy play, name calling etc. What are some things/signs I can give to let him know I'm wanting more?

Give them hints. Tell them what you want.

 

[Invisable247]

Hi all!
I'm looking for a little advice...
I would like for my partner to be a bit more dominant in the bedroom, rougher nipple play, forceful fingering, aggressive pussy play, name calling etc. What are some things/signs I can give to let him know I'm wanting more?

Why not start it as a role play and you can expose them to your fantasy in a non threatening way or A dream

 

[Transamwriter]

Yes, I agree.

 

[Invisable247]

Give them hints. Tell them what you want.

Or by text. “Hey can you fuck me like a slut tonight? It’s been a long day and everyone else has fucked me. I’d like you to fuck me harder then all of them”

 

[AmandaFillMe]

Hi all!
I'm looking for a little advice...
I would like for my partner to be a bit more dominant in the bedroom, rougher nipple play, forceful fingering, aggressive pussy play, name calling etc. What are some things/signs I can give to let him know I'm wanting more?

Hints are always good, but sometimes the best way to get exactly what you want is by using your words. If you are having a hard time being direct with him, use a little indirect encouragement.

The next time he pinches your nipple, tell him "harder" and then tell him how good it feels. After the sex is over tell him: "It made me so hot when you pinched my nipples like that" or some variation that's comfotrtable for you.

Most men truly want to please the women they're with, and a little guidance and positive reinforcement is all they need to embolden them.

And if you want him to call you names, you may need to get the ball rolling. Example: if you want him to call you a slut, say something like, "I want you to fuck me like a little slut". He'll hopefully catch on.

 

[FunCpl931]

Hints are always good, but sometimes the best way to get exactly what you want is by using your words. If you are having a hard time being direct with him, use a little indirect encouragement.

The next time he pinches your nipple, tell him "harder" and then tell him how good it feels. After the sex is over tell him: "It made me so hot when you pinched my nipples like that" or some variation that's comfotrtable for you.

Most men truly want to please the women they're with, and a little guidance and positive reinforcement is all they need to embolden them.

And if you want him to call you names, you may need to get the ball rolling. Example: if you want him to call you a slut, say something like, "I want you to fuck me like a little slut". He'll hopefully catch on.

i.

I completely agree with Amanda. I have found that men want to please us and we have to tell them what we want. Like Amanda said...use your words.

 

[MaryanneB]

i.

I completely agree with Amanda. I have found that men want to please us and we have to tell them what we want. Like Amanda said...use your words.

Tell him. Open your mouth and tell him what you want!

 

[ManLuvs2PlzW]

What Amanda Says:

Hints are always good, but sometimes the best way to get exactly what you want is by using your words. If you are having a hard time being direct with him, use a little indirect encouragement.

The next time he pinches your nipple, tell him "harder" and then tell him how good it feels. After the sex is over tell him: "It made me so hot when you pinched my nipples like that" or some variation that's comfotrtable for you.

Most men truly want to please the women they're with, and a little guidance and positive reinforcement is all they need to embolden them.

And if you want him to call you names, you may need to get the ball rolling. Example: if you want him to call you a slut, say something like, "I want you to fuck me like a little slut". He'll hopefully catch on.

Yes, from this man's point of view she is spot on!