Advice on coping with my crush on my mom

[Guest]

I am 15 and have a crush on my mom.

Nothing unusual there - and even if I told you that it is a HUGE crush and I masturbate every night thinking of her - still not unusual.

Even if I said she is blonde and very sexy - still you might say nothing unusual.

BUT - at my birthday party about six months ago - everyone had been drinking and she slipped upstairs with three of my school buddies and they all had sex. I found them afterwards as they were all getting dressed - didnt see her naked but there were used condoms and that around and she didnt deny it (my mates bolted from the room)

That has made me want her even more (and also made me wonder whether she was so drunk that she would have let me have a go as well)

I have begged her many times since then to let me have her but she refuses - when I mention my birthday, the kind of answer I get is "You've just got to forget about that night, dear"

The whole thing is driving me nuts

 

[alexandraaah]

I won't even go into the mom crush without first acknowledging your ripe, young age.

Give it three more years, then troll away, or at least be an "of age" troll.

If everything you write is true, by all means find a decent therapist and start over.

 

[MechaBlade]

You don't want to fuck your mom. This will result in a can of worms bringing problems that neither you nor I can imagine. Let me say that.

I suppose there's nothing wrong with fantasy as long as you realize this will never happen and should never happen. What your "friends" did was pretty fucked up, actually. Friends don't fuck their friends' moms. Life ain't American Pie.

If you have a mature women fetish, maybe you can explore that with other women (outside the family) or maybe it's your mom's qualities that you need to find in another girl around your age. If it makes you hot just because it's your mom, then leave it at fantasy. Maybe it's temporary, I don't know. You did describe it as a "crush."

Therapy is probably a good idea.

Keep in mind that you engaging in any sexual act with your mom is not only illegal, but morally problemsome as well. I have no problem with most fetishes, but I know that some are best left to fantasy.

I can think of nothing else to say.

 

[Guest]

It doesnt exactly help seeing the three guys every day at the school I go to

They havent said much (or anything in one case) but knowing they have had what I want is a daily reminder I could do without

 

[MechaBlade]

Talk to a therapist. Your mom knows you have these feelings, she'd probably help you find one if you told her you wanted to see one.

 

[RosaD]

I think your mom owes you big time

 

[juicygirl]

Assuming that this isn't weirdass bullshit you need to go to a therapist. Your Mom is screwing with you at a major level and you have to grow up enough to not let it fuck you up permanently. That won't be easy so I send you a quick hug and kiss and highly suggest you go find some non-pervy relatives. Your Mom needs therapy too, but you can't really do anything about that. It sounds like you either need to live with another relative or figure out how not to let it bother you. Very tough I hope you make it out okay.

 

[MechaBlade]

I think your mom owes you big time

Is this a joke?

 

[JackIsCool]

So your mom has shown herself to be sexually active.

Most women are. Just try and forget who it was she was sexually active with.

It worked for me - I spent two years being jealous of my mom's boyfriend but the feelings DID pass.

 

[juicygirl]

If it is mecha it is not a very funny one. Kids having to deal with incest really isn't all that humorous. The kids fantasy is a little odd but as long as its just fantasy he can be fine. The next step is not something that anyone at that age is really ready for. (I am not going to debate the legitimacy of the fantasy, to each his own, but the reality is less cool). I now step off my soap box and return to my usual self.

 

[juicygirl]

yeah jack but if these boys were really that age that is seriously fucked up. It cannot really even be that much fun for her because boys at that age tend to be a little quick. I don't know your situation but if it was a divorce thing I don't think the two things really compare. Stay cool regardless and I hope I didn't offend you. Glad you got over it.

 

[Nitsuj]

u're homeboys gang fucked your mother? that's foul... and now you thinkin of her that way? that's not right... but yeah, let it die down.... in a couple of years u'll be banging cheerleaders...

 

[wetmarlene]

The three boys in question who got what they got on ggn's birthday will probably remember it very fondly for all their lives and be grateful to her. It is good that they havent sought to rub it in with her son at school.

When I was 25 I had a one night stand with a 14 year old - I met him six years later and he was well-adjusted and seemed to have no hang-ups as a result.

I am not going to enter the debate here about whether she "owes" her son anything (people know maybe from SRP that I have a different view on the propriety of incest) - what I think we would all agree on though is that having done what she did on that night she has got to in SOME way be aware of her duty to help her son through these difficult times (whether by seduction, therapy, finding him somewhere else to stay is an open question)

 

[juicygirl]

Its not really the older woman thing that I have a problem with. Its the way she's dealing with her kid by not dealing with it. Hell we may agree on this I'll shut up.

 

[Shaq]

What Dr. Phil Would Say:


What you're going thru is no biggie. First let's break down all the factors involved here.

Prognosis: You may be suffering from the Oedipus complex

1)The age old Oedipus complex-It occurs in virtually all men at some point in life. From incestuous dreams to subconscious urges most men do have some kind of feelings toward siblings of the opposite sex especially mothers at some point in there lives.

2)Jealousy-This can be a sub factor of #1 cause let's face it. The "modern" interpretation that psycs have of the Oedipus complex is the son gets pissed cause daddy gets to fuck mommy and he doesn't.

Prescription: Get a girlfriend hot enough to take your mind off your mom. Eventually you'll grow out of it....if you dont....then take a step back as an adult and ask yourself "Is trying to have sex with my mom worth ruining the relationship that I have with her now?" Ask "Is it worth compromising my morals?"

If the answer is yes, then do what you have to do...if the answer is know do what I do...


Jack off while thinking of Juicygirl......

 

[AusTess]

And here's me thinking this was an adult site.




15?

 

[Shaq]

u're homeboys gang fucked your mother? that's foul... and now you thinkin of her that way? that's not right...

One point: Your mom did show herself to be of poor consideration as my ^^^ compadre suggests...


She showed poor judgement by getting drunk at a party with minors and even poorer character by getting in bed with your friends....


P.S-I think this is fake but if it isn't I want to help

P.P.S-Ask Dannyboy UK what he thinks...find him in the SPR forum...he's a lit expert on these matters...

P.P.P.S-15 year olds need help to...better he see what we think than doing something stupid....

 

[juicygirl]

Aus tex, you make a fair point. Shouldn't this thread be taken off. And shaq lick my clit. Did I tell everyone that I am thinking about getting a sex change. You know Juicy Boy!

 

[scylis]

technically, you only have to be 13 to post at the BB, by UBB rules.

'course, they have to go thru a site that you should be 18 to go to to get to the BB.

 

[Charlotte Blanchard]

First let me state that I think this is actually a bored 35 year old man making up some bullshit to get a wood over getting advice about potential incest from strangers.

However, if it isn't, I apologize.

My advice:

1. Seek therapy. Having a crush on your mom is NOT normal, and neither is your mom banging underaged boys. Your mom sexing your FRIENDS is even worse.

OR

2. If you are mature and can let this lay down, then try to go on with your own business, school and all that. Rejoice in the fact that at age 18 you are free and can move out. And when you turn 18...MOVE OUT and get as far away from your mom as possible.

 

[scylis]

Aus tex, you make a fair point. Shouldn't this thread be taken off. And shaq lick my clit. Did I tell everyone that I am thinking about getting a sex change. You know Juicy Boy!

will you keep your looks and breasts, only adding a penis?

 

[AusTess]

P.S-I think this is fake but if it isn't I want to help

P.P.P.S-15 year olds need help to...better he see what we think than doing something stupid....

Sorry.

I dont wanna take responsibility for giving a 15 year old advice.

 

[AusTess]

will you keep your looks and breasts, only adding a penis?

If she does,I'll fight you to the death for her.

 

[juicygirl]

What Charlotte said though if you can get out earlier you might give it a try. Go to relatives. What ever you do, DO NOT RUN AWAY!!!! There are a lot worse things on the street for 15 year olds than you can possibly imagine. Think grandparents and aunts and uncles or friends who can let you crash at their houses. Keep yourself as protected as possible.

 

[scylis]

If she does,I'll fight you to the death for her.

oh, it's on!!