Advice needed

[Arizonashy]

Hi all and sorry for what is probably going to seem like a strange question but here goes

I am a 38 year old woman who has been with only one man my entire life. Years ago he was injured in an accident that left him paralyzed from the neck down. A bit over a year ago he brought up the notion of wanting me to be with other men given that we could never be intimate again.

There’s a bit of a story as to how I ultimately warmed to the idea and opened up to trying it. Fast forward to today and I have a date with an older man who is extremely well hung and I am a nervous wreck.

Could anyone give me advice on how to relax and not embarrass myself with this man?

Thank you!!

 

[Baztrachian]

Alcohol. It's a time tested miracle that soothes the nerves and dulls the inhibitions.

 

[Arizonashy]

Alcohol. It's a time tested miracle that soothes the nerves and dulls the inhibitions.

Ha! You’re probably right about that but I don’t drink.

 

[Baztrachian]

Ha! You’re probably right about that but I don’t drink.

It's for medicinal purposes so technically you're not drinking.

 

[Arizonashy]

It's for medicinal purposes so technically you're not drinking.

Do I need a prescription for it?

 

[SirSparky]

Hi all and sorry for what is probably going to seem like a strange question but here goes

I am a 38 year old woman who has been with only one man my entire life. Years ago he was injured in an accident that left him paralyzed from the neck down. A bit over a year ago he brought up the notion of wanting me to be with other men given that we could never be intimate again.

There’s a bit of a story as to how I ultimately warmed to the idea and opened up to trying it. Fast forward to today and I have a date with an older man who is extremely well hung and I am a nervous wreck.

Could anyone give me advice on how to relax and not embarrass myself with this man?

Thank you!!

I feel your pain.

I had an operation on my spine almost a year ago and affected my legs. Couldn't walk. No intimacy since then

 

[Arizonashy]

I feel your pain.

I had an operation on my spine almost a year ago and affected my legs. Couldn't walk. No intimacy since then

I’m so sorry to hear that. It’s a difficult road for sure, I think the mental toll it took on my husband is something we are still working through

 

[SirSparky]

I’m so sorry to hear that. It’s a difficult road for sure, I think the mental toll it took on my husband is something we are still working through

Yes its definitely a life changing event.

I was lucky it inky aggected my legs and with lots if intense rehab I am now abke tk walk short distances with crutches and a wheelchair for further.

Loving in my lounge as can't walk upstairs. Waiting for a stair lift to be fitted. Haven't slept in my bed since asthma April. 5 months in hospital. I live alone but have a girlfriend

 

[Arizonashy]

UPDATE: we had our date on Saturday and it was amazing in so many ways. So many thoughts running through my head now but admittedly I am still on cloud nine. I’ve never had an experience that powerful both mentally and physically