advice for ass virgin

[innocencebegone]

despite having been owned for over 20 years, I have never had anal sex before. Does anyone have any useful advice? scared and nervous here no longer owned in rl, but still need advce

 

[Corbal]

despite having been owned for over 20 years, I have never had anal sex before. Does anyone have any useful advice? scared and nervous here

Patience. Patience. Patience.


And a metric fuckton of lubrication.


Then a little more patience.

 

[SashaGaga999]

And figuring out how to relax. Makes a big difference if you can learn to breathe and just enjoy the feeling as much as you can. Its going to be pretty uncomfortable the first few times, I'll be honest. But yeah, a lot of lubrication and just getting comfortable with all of it is key.

Take it slow at first too!!!! Don't let him go pounding the shit out of your butt before you're ready for that.

But once you get used to it, it can be a lot of fun.

 

[nudeguy76]

And figuring out how to relax. Makes a big difference if you can learn to breathe and just enjoy the feeling as much as you can. Its going to be pretty uncomfortable the first few times, I'll be honest. But yeah, a lot of lubrication and just getting comfortable with all of it is key.

Take it slow at first too!!!! Don't let him go pounding the shit out of your butt before you're ready for that.

But once you get used to it, it can be a lot of fun.

I find you again! LOL! So true......painful at first, but that pain will fade into wonderful pleasure! And use lots of lube! And then put more on

 

[display4me]

as everyone has said you need to be very wet. when I have had anal sex with my wife she was so horny and wet as I had just fingered to an almighty orgasm and she had had a fair bit to drink so was very relaxed which I think was the key to a successful anal fuck.
I mounted her from behind and so slowly penetrated her it was the most intense feeling on earth as I slowly went deeper. after each little push I let her recover until I was fully inserted. I wasn't in the least bit rough and just let it happen. the cum load was awesome.

 

[Verycurious18]

Patience. Patience. Patience.


And a metric fuckton of lubrication.


Then a little more patience.

"Metric fuckton" nicely put but yes although I haven't had a real cock in my ass I have had a few large things in there, I only used lubrication once but I have lot of patience and enjoy the feeling. Take you time and really allow yourself to enjoy it!

 

[TeaforMe]

Slow and steady wins the race. like others have said, breathe, relax, and lots of lube. Be careful, though, because the lube can make the cock penetrate too deeply and too quickly, so make sure to communicate to your partner when to press in and when to let up, going a little further each time.

 

[Loverskitten]

Fingers first

 

[desertslave]

I agree with (very well trimmed) fingers first, then perhaps a slender toy. With each step, up to and including the real deal, I've learned that it's best if you're allowed to call the shots. Back onto him/it slowly and breathe. When it starts to hurt, STOP. No further in, but no further out, either. Just stop, breathe, and get used to that exact sense of fullness before taking more. It takes practice and patience to not retreat. And, as everyone else has said, use more lube than you think is enough!

Good luck!

 

[Not Normal]

All good advice above. RE: Lube, lube both the anus AND the penis.

 

[nudeguy76]

I agree with (very well trimmed) fingers first, then perhaps a slender toy. With each step, up to and including the real deal, I've learned that it's best if you're allowed to call the shots. Back onto him/it slowly and breathe. When it starts to hurt, STOP. No further in, but no further out, either. Just stop, breathe, and get used to that exact sense of fullness before taking more. It takes practice and patience to not retreat. And, as everyone else has said, use more lube than you think is enough!

Good luck!

Yes, finger! moving up to fingers is a great way to open up an ass. Well lubed up of course! A couple lubed finger tips, dancing across your tight hole. Tapping and gently circling with pressure will soon have that hole opening to accept more than just fingers!

 

[sexylilangel89]

For my first couple times I found that me being on top and being in control of it made it way less uncomfortable and very enjoyable. Like everyone else said make sure you are very wet. I've never used lube since I tend to get so wet when I'm turned on but plenty of friends have used lube and loved every bit of their anal experience.

 

[Kinkster101]

For my first couple times I found that me being on top and being in control of it made it way less uncomfortable and very enjoyable. Like everyone else said make sure you are very wet. I've never used lube since I tend to get so wet when I'm turned on but plenty of friends have used lube and loved every bit of their anal experience.

This is the first time I've heard about not using any lube for anal sex. Maybe the guy had a "metric fuckton" of lube on his cock and you never noticed in your eagerness.

 

[twister947]

This is the first time I've heard about not using any lube for anal sex. Maybe the guy had a "metric fuckton" of lube on his cock and you never noticed in your eagerness.

I was once with a woman...she was on top, the fucker, definitely not the fuckee, and in one deft move, she popped my cock from her cunt, placed it at the entrance to her ass, and sat on me, balls deep. It can be done, although I don't recommend it.

 

[Rozalin_0123]

I was once with a woman...she was on top, the fucker, definitely not the fuckee, and in one deft move, she popped my cock from her cunt, placed it at the entrance to her ass, and sat on me, balls deep. It can be done, although I don't recommend it.

My first time doing anal I used no lube, my vagina provided plenty. It was very slow going, but I like a little pain in my pleasure

There was some fingering involved beforehand and I do recommend it. Also if you're really serious about trying anal, if there is an adult store around you (actual adult store that sells porn, toys, etc. Not a novelty store like Spencers) you can find "beginner's kit to anal sex" which will have a vibrator, butt plug, lube and a written guide. Might be worth looking into.

 

[KlaytonFrost]

Starting with a butt plug, or even a progressively larger series of butt plugs is a really good idea. Ease into it, as it were!

As others have said, lots of lube, take it easy and remember to breathe and relax. To begin with have him hold still and move back and forth on him, rather than having him thrust into you.

 

[CarolineGA]

I've never had trouble. . . . first, I am comfortable with the idea and relaxed so I don't pinch it closed. second, my husband (and a couple of lovers) will kiss/lick my fanny and get me wet and really turned on. Then they just slowly push it in. the sensation is unbelievable.

 

[GorgeousGeekGirl]

The biggest thing to remember about getting back doored is that it's your ass, so you take charge. Lube on your bootie and his dick. For position, I recommend doggy style on hands and knees in the middle of the bed. You don't want to get trapped under his weight or against the headboard. A glass of wine to relax before is also a good idea, but no more than two. Take what you can, stop, breathe, get used to it, move a little more, take a little more, repeat. Don't try to be a porn star. In his eagerness, he may try doing some if the moving; STAY IN CHARGE! For after, a cool soft wash rag and some soothing cream with aloe or gold old a&d ointment for the tenderness. A pleasantly warm bath or shower, not hot! Good luck

 

[TwoShades]

This brings back memories.