Advice encouraged- traning 2 online slaves

[mfinger]

About 6 months ago i was having a casual Dom/sub relationship online with Poppy. She dissapeared so I went seaching for a committed sub. I researched a lot about BDSM and slavery, and then placed a personal ad on lit.

The ad was answered and over the last 3 weeks, I have been training a new slave called Nymphy. She is VERY responsive to tasks I set and is fast to take on discipline. We are building trust rapidly and she has committed herself to me. She has really come a long way in 3 weeks.

Two days ago, Poppy showed up online telling me she missed me. I told her gently that I have been training someone else and she wants to be my second slave.

I told Nymphy and she has developed jelousy which she says shes ashamed of. Both Poppy and Nymphy have been asking me questions about each other and it seems they both want to serve me.

Does anyone here have any advice on training two online slaves at the same time?

 

[tanijaana]

Yeah; talk to both of them, preferably together, and make sure they are both totally alright with this. Otherwise, you will lose one or both of them. Also, it's a good idea to encourage them to develop their own relationship between each other, even if it's just a "hi, how are ya" type of thing whenever they run into each other online.

 

[mfinger]

Thanks for that. I think they are both quite excited. Why do you think I should encourage them to develop a relationship together?

 

[Life_Noir]

*LOL* No offense hommes... But this may be an indication that you have a masochistic streak of your very own...

On a purely practical note... that's why yahoo has the group chat function.
Try that...
But...
There is an old saying, either Arabic or Chinese..."You can tell a fool by his two wives".. It's a small group social dynamic thing..

Oh, and did pyl #1 say why she dissapeared?

 

[mfinger]

*LOL* No offense hommes... But this may be an indication that you have a masochistic streak of your very own...

On a purely practical note... that's why yahoo has the group chat function.
Try that...
But...
There is an old saying, either Arabic or Chinese..."You can tell a fool by his two wives".. It's a small group social dynamic thing..

Oh, and did pyl #1 say why she dissapeared?

Poppy just said she'd been busy. No reason really. I didnt grill her about it.

I'm sure the Yahoo conference function will come in handy. I'm not sure about that old saying. I'm up for a challenge, though.

 

[Life_Noir]

Poppy just said she'd been busy. No reason really. I didnt grill her about it.

I'm sure the Yahoo conference function will come in handy. I'm not sure about that old saying. I'm up for a challenge, though.

Mmmmm Just a piece of advice {from experience, but feel free to ignore it}, you might want to get a definition of what "busy" encompasses...

I've used the yahoo conference funtion for years...For a variety of purposes.. IMO it seems to be one of the easiest and best.. Well, with the sobriquete that yahoo itself is somewhat prone to go "tits up" at random intervals.

 

[poppy1963]

FYI...and clarity

Not THIS Poppy! LOL. Have no idea who this person is talking about...

 

[Kierae]

LOL - glad you clarified that (just didn't make sense that it was you, but hey you never know)

~kierae

 

[RawHumor]

FYI...and clarity

Not THIS Poppy! LOL. Have no idea who this person is talking about...

LOL

I was actually wondering about that.

 

[HottieMama]

FYI...and clarity

Not THIS Poppy! LOL. Have no idea who this person is talking about...

Shit..i was wondering too...and i was going to chastise him for just putting "your" name out there like that....

 

[catalina_francisco]

Poppy just said she'd been busy. No reason really. I didnt grill her about it.

So I'm assuming this is more an amusement pursuit than a serious long term training? I only say such as most I know, even online, would not let such an excuse slide without need for some clarification and unless it was really good like being laid up in hospital in a coma, wouldn't be so willing to overlook and go on as if nothing happened. You are very lenient.

Catalina

 

[graceanne]

Shit..i was wondering too...and i was going to chastise him for just putting "your" name out there like that....

LOL Ditto.

 

[poppy1963]

Shit..i was wondering too...and i was going to chastise him for just putting "your" name out there like that....

LOL~! Thanks to those who noted here. HEY you, girl! Good to see ya HottieMama. Are the av's...larger all of a sudden? All of them look bigger to me...the pics. Also I was "notified in email" when my PM box was full and someone was trying to PM. I got 4 notifications in email...I believe it was for the same PM...one right after another!

Hello Kierae! Nice to meetcha!

 

[mfinger]

So I'm assuming this is more an amusement pursuit than a serious long term training? I only say such as most I know, even online, would not let such an excuse slide without need for some clarification and unless it was really good like being laid up in hospital in a coma, wouldn't be so willing to overlook and go on as if nothing happened. You are very lenient.

Catalina

I'm starting to realise that Poppy (not Poppy1963 - It seems there is more than one Poppy) is just fantasising about having a Master for a casual thing and not really wanting to or being able to practically commit. I will question her some more.

 

[Life_Noir]

I'm starting to realise that Poppy (not Poppy1963 - It seems there is more than one Poppy) is just fantasising about having a Master for a casual thing and not really wanting to or being able to practically commit. I will question her some more.

Ahhhhhhh There yah go....

*grin*

Now all you have to do is worry about her three other "online Masters"..

Sorry...Don't mean to be TOO sarcastic...Call it a case of BTDT..

 

[Netzach]

So I'm assuming this is more an amusement pursuit than a serious long term training? I only say such as most I know, even online, would not let such an excuse slide without need for some clarification and unless it was really good like being laid up in hospital in a coma, wouldn't be so willing to overlook and go on as if nothing happened. You are very lenient.

Catalina

It's hard to be lenient or harsh on someone who's up and gone. The final vote is always feet.

 

[catalina_francisco]

It's hard to be lenient or harsh on someone who's up and gone. The final vote is always feet.

Hey, but she isn't gone....she's come back after a few months and wants to continue on as if she didn't disappear without word or reason.

http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1144/664672330_a82a96b823_t.jpg Catalina