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would be nice to have ... but alas I have never had one... 
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See... the whole admire of a secret admirer is tough... how do people now!!!Dhalgren150 said:would be nice to have ... but alas I have never had one...
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Ditto to the last post ~ I bet there are people out there that like many of the posters on lit, but don't say anything...krazeekat said:Don't have one either
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Well it's about time they come out and say something, it's not like I'll bite them .... unless they want me toRedHairedandFriendly said:Ditto to the last post ~ I bet there are people out there that like many of the posters on lit, but don't say anything...
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lol... well let me know if they do... ohhh wait... damn... it really wouldn't be a secret then would it! Well, if they are out there and you have offered the invitation be sure to hit my worst and best IM/PM threadkrazeekat said:Well it's about time they come out and say something, it's not like I'll bite them .... unless they want me to
if they aren't nice admirers. 
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RedHairedandFriendly said:See... the whole admire of a secret admirer is tough... how do people now!!!
they fear rejection?
that is my thought on this matter....
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Dhalgren150 said:they fear rejection?
that is my thought on this matter....
It is possible, yes. I guess then they have to decide if it is just admiration they want or more... and risk it.
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RedHairedandFriendly said:
such is the way of life... that is why most do not ever experience life to the fullest.
they settle for mundane and safe secure.
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Dhalgren150 said:
Perhaps yes... but I think that subject is a thread all its own. One of self-exploration and discovery.
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RedHairedandFriendly said:
humm I agree.... might be a interesting journey for people to take...
start the thread and I will venture there from the mists.
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Dhalgren150 said:humm I agree.... might be a interesting journey for people to take...
start the thread and I will venture there from the mists.
Oh goodness... do you know my ratio of good threads verses my bad thread failings... lol
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RedHairedandFriendly said:Oh goodness... do you know my ratio of good threads verses my bad thread failings... lol
nothing fails.. it just needs modification is all.
and if it makes 1 person come to the path of enlightenment then it is worth the effort.
all things come from dreams... that is how I see it.
and I see in you the mind to make that work.
Nurturer... care taker... Shepherdess
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Dhalgren150 said:
Thank you, that is a nice thing to say. I'm not sure how you would word such a threads opening post. It is something to consider though. Hmmm...
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RedHairedandFriendly said:
I will offer my humble help.
Ponder this.
and seek the mists for me.
I shall be there.
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Dhalgren150 said:I will offer my humble help.
Ponder this.
and seek the mists for me.
I shall be there.
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I stopped that when I realized I'm me and I will always be me... now I struggle with liking me.krazeekat said:I know I'm guilty of this one
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krazeekat said:I know I'm guilty of this one
what is life without rejection?
think of all you have experienced?
and you are still here....
I figure the more rejections I have the more I have lived.....
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RedHairedandFriendly said:
and to you also..
and now the Druid needs the straw....a long day at work tomorrow.
poof
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Dhalgren150 said:what is life without rejection?
think of all you have experienced?
and you are still here....
I figure the more rejections I have the more I have lived.....
People often look back and say... if I could change one thing.
I tell them... if I changed anything and it caused me to lose what I treasure now I would change nothing for nothing is worth changing to lose what I love.
*obviously thinking to deep for RedHairedandFriendly this evening... *
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RedHairedandFriendly said:I stopped that when I realized I'm me and I will always be me... now I struggle with liking me.
I like me enough but I always wonder if that would be enough for others. Inside this ... whatever that you see .... is one plain Jane, and come on hardly anyone take notice of a plain Jane.
LOL..I guess this thread has taken a life of its own.
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krazeekat said:
I like me enough but I always wonder if that would be enough for others. Inside this ... whatever that you see .... is one plain Jane, and come on hardly anyone take notice of a plain Jane.
LOL..I guess this thread has taken a life of its own.
Yes... most do. But eventually someone will come back to the admire theme or some other deep subject, which is sometimes nice to see in the Playground
