Adios for a while

[Patryn]

I'm taking a break from the board for an indefinite time period. Reason? Well, I know there are some people who will read anything I say into something I didn't say and didn't mean, but long story short, it doesn't interest me as much any more, and there are certain people who have REALLY begun to annoy me. So I'll just take a small sabatical rather than fire my mouth off and get everyone hating me.

Why am I even posting this? So I don't just "disappear" I guess...I really dunno.

 

[Nicole]

Well I can beg no more, it seems to be all I do lately.

I will be sad to see you go, I hope that I am not one that has upset you, and if I am then, please accept my apology.

You take Care and I hope all that you want from life happens for you. Although we have not had much contact on the board, I have enjoyed most of what I have seen of you.

Good Luck in your life Patryn

*Shaking head* Sadly another good one bites the dust

 

[Bobtoad777]

I'm taking a break from the board for an indefinite time period. Reason? Well, I know there are some people who will read anything I say into something I didn't say and didn't mean, but long story short, it doesn't interest me as much any more, and there are certain people who have REALLY begun to annoy me. So I'll just take a small sabatical rather than fire my mouth off and get everyone hating me.

Why am I even posting this? So I don't just "disappear" I guess...I really dunno.

Patryn am sorry that i have begun to really annoy you, i try to be fun loving and stuff. Please dont leave becuae of me. Feel free to fire off at me use me a s a target to vent all that built up rage i got shoulders to take it from all

 

[Laurel]

Damnit damnit! Cmon, Patryn, fire your mouth off, but don't leave! I've been enjoying the topics you've been starting very much! Damnit damnit damnit...(bangs head against wall)

 

[Cheyenne]

Wisconsinites do NOT quit! Get your ass back here!

 

[Guest]

Patryn do what you must. A short or long rest from posting is sometimes a good idea. I know that after I have been away and not had a chance to share my wit and intellect <tongue in cheek> it is so nice to come back and see what has been going on. Just don't be gone too long as it makes it hard to feel like you can fit back in easily.

I have been gone due to work stuff and only get to check in every few days. Sorry but I can't use my own name here but it is me Fallen Angel and I wish you well. I haven't kept up with much of what has been happening but past experience says this stage will pass. So keep checking in and I hope to see you on the BB in the future.

Fallen Angel

 

[Wizard]

Patryn, This bothers me to see this .........It really dose....we have lost a few here recently .......I understand ans was almost there myself then I listened to some folks here and changed my attuide a little and came back happy ....telling myself I would not let cetain folk bother me........I hope you take a little space..tonight or a day or two and come back and join us again.......I have enjoyed you on this board and hope we only grow in size without losing any memebers......

Be Cool what ever you need to do......

 

[Patryn]

Before I go, I'd just as soon not fire my mouth off, Laurel. Everyone is a friend to someone, and I respect that, so I'd rather just keep my opinions to myself. However, it would seem that certain people who think they are annoying are not the people I have in mind. And no, I will NOT mention names.

It's been fun, and I will be back, just when, I can't say for sure. I have an idea of how this board would best suit and interest me, but it's not my place to try to make it so and inflict my ideals on everyone else. That's all I'm saying.

Take care, and hold your breath until I get back. *snerk*

 

[KillerMuffin]

*sniffle* okay Patryn, I'll miss you n see you when you get back. *sniffle*

 

[Naked Hunny]

Why do all the people i like think they need to leave??? Sniffle sniffle!! ill miss you!!

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

It will be sad to see you go and I hope you decide to come back some day soon. You will be greatly missed by alot of people here.

 

[Whispersecret]

I wish you wouldn't go. I always enjoy your posts. They're well-thought out and an asset to the boards.

On a side note, anyone besides me always wonder if they're the person people think is annoying/mean/bothersome/controlling? God knows I post my opinion often enough about how I wish the board was. Patryn, how about naming the people it's not? <flails her arms>

 

[Guest]

too much whining going on around here lately. you all need to grow skins. come on it's an adult board I'm sick of this wah wah I'm leaving caca. patryn saying she doesn't want to name names but then starting a thread about it. how immature. the b.board's fine except for the whiners.

 

[Laurel]

Oh lord, that was unnecessary, Mr. (or Ms.) Troll.

But I will say, Patryn, that despite your protestations otherwise, you obviously DO want to say what's (or who's) on your mind. Otherwise, why start a thread and mention that someone made you angry? You could easily have said that you were leaving for personal reasons if you wanted to not "disappear". There was a point behind your post, and I think it's a bit unfair to leave and make everyone feel that THEY'RE the one who pissed you off. I also think it's a little lame to let the comments of one person run you off the board. However, I do respect your decision, and hope you'll be back soon.

 

[Cheyenne]

Whinin'and cryin'?

This song has been running through my head for a few days now- seems as good of a time as any to add it to the board! And it isn't aimed at anyone in particular, just seems to generally describe what I've wanted to shout for awhile now.

I turn on the tube and what do I see
A whole lotta people cryin' "Don't blame me"
They point their crooked little fingers at everybody else
Spend all their time feelin' sorry for themselves
Victim of this, victim of that
Your momma's too thin; your daddy's too fat

Get over it
Get over it
All this whinin' and cryin' and pitchin' a fit
Get over it, get over it

You say you haven't been the same since you had your little crash
But you might feel better if they gave you some cash
The more I think about it, Old Billy was right
Let's kill all the lawyers- kill 'em tonight
You don't want to work; you want to live like a king
But the big, bad world doesn't owe you a thing

Get over it
Get over it
If you don't want to play, then you might as well split
Get over it, get over it

It's like going to confession every time I hear you speak
You're makin' the most of your losin' streak
Some call it sick, but I call it weak

You drag it around like a ball and chain
You wallow in the guilt; you wallow in the pain
You wave it like a flag, you wear it like a crown
Got your mind in the gutter, bringin' everybody down
Complain about the present and blame it on the past
I'd like to find your inner child and kick its little ass

Get over it
Get over it
All this bitchin' and moanin' and pitchin' a fit
Get over it, get over it

Get over it
Get over it
It's gotta stop sometime, so why don't you quit
Get over it, get over it

-Eagles

 

[Nicole]

I wish you wouldn't go. I always enjoy your posts. They're well-thought out and an asset to the boards.

On a side note, anyone besides me always wonder if they're the person people think is annoying/mean/bothersome/controlling? God knows I post my opinion often enough about how I wish the board was. Patryn, how about naming the people it's not? <flails her arms>

YES Whisper, I always think that I have upset someone, and it would kill me to know that someone has left the board for something that I have said, even if it wasn't aimed at that person.

I thought that I was the only one that felt that way. Glad to know that I'm not.

I agree with Laurel though, obviously you wanted to say something then maybe backed out because you didn't want that person to feel the way that you are.

Someone else wrote to me just the other night, someone we all love, and he was saying the same thing, there are a few people that maybe rub him up the wrong way, so instead of staying and getting into words with them he is going to take a break for awhile. I might add that it's a shame, but he did the right thing, he walked away.

Like Patryn said, she is not leaving, just taking a break. Let's all hope that she can come back all refreshed and happy.

Again Patryn Good Luck, with whatever you choose to do in life.

 

[Never]

Do you ever feel that people don't read the first post of a thread - just the responses?
Payne posted this to say she was leaving and now people are doing exactly what she said not to: reading too much into it.
Bobtaod: I don't think she's talked with you more than three times.
Laurel: Don't take this personally but, stop talking things so personally.

As for the 'whining' part I'll point out that all she said was that she was leaving because the board is less interesting than it used to be and she finds some people annoying and that she would be back.
I mean, is there anyone here who doesn't find someone annoying? She never said, "You people are so mean and bad you've made me cry and now I'll never come back. (I hope you feel incredible guilty now!)"

That is whining.

Oh, Cheyenne. I know you said it wasn't aimed at anyone but .. I'm not whining, I'm just bitching.

As for you Panye.
Love ya babes. Be well and think of us often for you will often be in our thoughts. Remember:
It is good to see you go.
It is better to see you return.

 

[Cheyenne]

Oh, Cheyenne. I know you said it wasn't aimed at anyone but .. I'm not whining, I'm just bitching.

Hey, Never. Check again. Bitchin' was included in the lyrics, too.
And I really didn't mean to aim it at anyone, it just happens to be a favorite song that jumped into my head a few days ago and just won't leave. It also tends to be my approach to life when things don't go exactly right- "Get over it."

 

[Nicole]

I hate to be the one that points this out Never ....

Patryn Is leaving not Payne.

 

[Never]

Irony:
The song 'Get Over It' is a huge Bitch about people Bitchin'.
Oh yeah, it was 42 hundred hun. I wrote that at 4am.. my mind was a little.. yah know?

Yes, Nicole.. I know.
I think they're one and the same though, ever notice how Payne posts right after Patryn?

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Picket fences, church at ten
In my town of Bethlehem.


[Edited by Never on 08-29-2000 at 09:18 PM]

 

[Cheyenne]

Irony:
The song 'Get Over It' is a huge Bitch about people Bitchin'.
Oh yeah, it was 42 hundred hun. I wrote that at 4am.. my mind was a little.. yah know?

It IS kind of ironic, isn't it? Still a good song.
And the $4,200 makes a whole lot more sense to me than the $42,000 (although no one else on this thread will have a clue!) I was wondering what kind of car you were driving! Doesn't change the advice though. I'd tell you the same thing for $4,200 as I did for $42,000. Trust me, it works.

 

[Laurel]

Laurel: Don't take this personally but, stop taking things so personally.

LMAO!

Actually, I don't think Patryn's mad at me. I'm not lucky enough to get off THAT easily - when people are pissed at me, they troll me on the board or send me "Fuck you, Laurel" messages from nonexistent accounts. Seriously. It doesn't happen that often, but it cracks me up when it does.

I was just making the comment because WS already expressed concern that she might have offended Patryn. I understand that Patryn doesn't want to start shit - because there's enough shit already in the world - but posting that ambiguous post sorta defeats the purpose.

I'll just shut up now. This is how I got myself in trouble last time. I'm gonna go read the lotto thread...

 

[Patryn]

Okay, you wanna know why I'm leaving? Our dear friend, thetruth, is one fine example. I never asked anyone to beg me to stay. I never whined, I thought I stated how I felt. And I really DIDN'T want to name names.

This is the internet, which is why I didn't think it was that big a deal. You should just be able to walk away. Sure, you make some friends, but so you think I'm whining? What's it to ya? You'll most likely never meet me. thetruth, if you can't grow enough gonads to post under your real handle, why the fuck should I listen to you anyway?

Here's the deal. I have some shit going on. I annoy very easily right now, and I didn't wanna bring it here. But if everyone must know, posting who it isn't is the same as posting who it IS, so here ya go. Just remember you asked.

Sparky-post something meaningful for once or shut up. And while you're at it, don't flame people for TELLING you you're stupid. We tried to do it nicely. It didn't work.

Lasher-You're sorry as doesn't own the board, contrary to what you might believe.

And the fucking FLIRTING oh my god!!! I posted, what was it the other night...I don't even remember because it got ruined by 12 posts, 2 minutes apart of totally unrelated bullshit. I realize we're supposed to have fun. I realize it's a sex site, but ON EVERY FUCKING THREAD?!?! Get real.

So after this, I don't suppose anyone would WANT me back. That's fine, it IS only the internet.

I really didn't want to have to do that...but apparently some people just HAVE to know and can't tollerate a little tact when someone tries to be polite. I could go on, but why?

You wanna think I'm whining? Fine. Maybe I am. But that's my right, isn't it?

Oh, and "thetruth"?!? FUCK YOU!!! Am I really THAT intimidating. I have a good idea who you are anyway, you're not fooling too many people.

And Laurel? I'm not pissed at you, I have no reason to be, but I do have to agree that you tend to get too "involved". I tried to bow out politely. If people are insecure and want to think it's them, then that qualifies as NMP...Not My Problem.

[Edited by Patryn on 08-29-2000 at 10:00 PM]

 

[Guest]

patryn said: "I really didn't want to have to do that...but apparently some people just HAVE to know and can't
tollerate a little tact when someone tries to be polite. I could go on, but why? "

you call posting a "i hate someone here and i'm leaving because of them but i'm not going to have the balls to face it nor the tact to keep it to myself" post polite? please.

 

[Nicole]

I'm bowing out now while I still can.

Again Patryn, good luck with whatever it is you choose to do with yourself.

Take Care