Acceptance.............

[Quisath]

I was wondering why it is that Two Women Making Love is so readily accepted as opposed to Two Men making Love. I am facinated at how women can actually be more accepted in Homosexuality than Men. I hope I'm not being rude and that's not my intension at all..................I am curious about this. Why does Society frown upon Homosexuality and readily accept Lesbianism?


I know this is probably a subject that has been bounced around a Lot, but I want to hear this Communities Views on this myself. If your offended by any of it .......don't read and don't reply. Simple as That!

 

[HoldenMcCrank]

3 Words

Male dominated society. Just my opinion and it is worth what I charge for it.

Holden

 

[Sex The Drug]

"Two Women Making Love is so readily accepted "

I think this might ba a little over stated. Not quite readily accepted in the main stream world.

And as far as two me go's I am not into it, but if they want that I say to each their own.

 

[Dynamite]

I'm inclined to agree w/ Holden.

Men get to set the standards for the most part. It's just the way it is, darlin'. Break the barrier!!! I want to count!

 

[Dreamtwine]

My two cents...

Well it may be beacuse guys are generally not as attractive as women are. Okay okay I know what you're thinking. But honestly I've talked to a lot of my female friends and they would rather go to a strip club and see girls strip than guys strip. So when you're thinking about same sex relationships you think about what they're doing together. And generally thinking about two guys together is scary. Too much manliness. But then again I just went to a gay club last night with a friend and the guys there weren't bad looking at all. But I think it's just cause women are more attractive than men. What do you think about my idea??

 

[The Dipsomaniac]

I think Elaine (from Seinfield) summed it up best when she said the phrase : "A womens body is a work of art. A mans body is utalitarian. Its like a jeep - its for getting around"

 

[Dreamtwine]

Hahahaha... good one.

 

[SexyAmber]

Well...

I will give you my PERSONAL opinion...on how my crazy mind works...

to me, as a woman, seeing two men together is not as arousing because...well something about it visually makes the man seem more feminine...don't ask me why...

but I say ... hey do what makes you happy..to each his own and if it feels good...have a blast

xo
Amber

 

[chiuey]

I would think that paradigms in our society has been shaped so that a woman's body is the ultimate object of desire and beauty. With that in mind, the stereotypical heterosexual society deems that unless one is the object desire, "he" must go after the object of desire. Regardless how much I wish society didn't put so much emphasis on ones identity due to their sex, it is part of our daily life. And let's face it, wouldn't the majority of us prefer to look at the beautiful body of a woman, rather than the beer guzzling bellies of my gender?

 

[Czarina]

Male Dominated?

Isn't it time we faced a few facts? This is not a truly male dominated world anymore. Two thirds of the wealth in this country is controlled by women. Over 60% of registered activists and lobbyists are female. In middle class homes, from the 60's forward, females have made the purchase decisions for the home. A poll of "Mom and Pop" operations in this country showed that the female partner decides advertising and expansion questions. We are gaining more and more prominance. And in truth, "The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world". I said all that to say this:

I believe it is more readily acceptable because men are more inclined to view it as part of a sexual experience, whereas we view all sex as either leading to or a part of a relationship. We are more inclined to jealousy and therefore, we are more guarded as to with whom our man fucks. Women tend to see it more as a rivalry, whereas men have a higher confidence level and know we will be back for more cock. We are taught as little girls to draw our self-esteem from a man. Men are taught to develop their own sense of self-worth.

I personally feel that watching two men is extremely erotic. If more women viewed sex as less than an "all or nothing" proposal, they could loosen up and see that eroticism is in all sexual encounters.

For what it's worth,
Cz