about me.. WARNING!

[usemeplease28]

Well...........captivated isn't the word I'd choose.

And you just achieved something no-one else did.....you got yourself on ignore with only 22 posts on the board.

Ta-ta little boy.

.. wow
I have a talent for evoking anger in random people by really not stating anything that confrontational.

 

[Belegon]

haha... nono.. I let him suck my dick... never had sex with a guy.. and only once let a gay buy watch me jack off.

the getting blown by the guy thing was when I was young and experimenting.

the letting one watch me do it online was just a few years ago...it felt like i was doing him a favor.. and I wanted to do something nice.

OK, so let me get this straight...pun intended.

the person in the more passive role is not actually engaging in sex?

he sucked you off, so you weren't having gay sex?

there are an awful lot of virgin mothers out there then...you know, all those girls that took the old line about laying there and letting hubby take care of things...

I think you're just trying to get a rise out of people. Go pay attention to CharleyH...she does it a lot better.

 

[S-Des]

.. wow
I have a talent for evoking anger in random people by really not stating anything that confrontational.

It's not that you're confrontational, it's that you are intentionally trying to say something controversial to get attention (i.e. *waving arms wildly* Look at me, look at me). You are on an author's forum asking if you're gay (what that has to do with writing is beyond me) and butchering the English language in the process. There is a General Board for people who just like to post (whether it's for general conversation or for flaming). I'm with Mat on this one. If you don't have anything to say that bears relevance on being an author or an attempt to be friendly, what's the point of wasting my time reading your posts? To me, the giveaway was when you said that hearing people's opinions on your homosexuality was "neat". I haven't heard that word uttered by anyone older than 14.

 

[usemeplease28]

OK, so let me get this straight...pun intended.

the person in the more passive role is not actually engaging in sex?

he sucked you off, so you weren't having gay sex?

there are an awful lot of virgin mothers out there then...you know, all those girls that took the old line about laying there and letting hubby take care of things...

I think you're just trying to get a rise out of people. Go pay attention to CharleyH...she does it a lot better.

im trying to have a discussion about what people determine to be gay or not gay based solely on acts a person has taken part of. If my primary motivation was to get a rise out of people I would have said somthing mean or disturbing. Im simply posing a question.

 

[TxRad]

I think you're just trying to get a rise out of people. Go pay attention to CharleyH...she does it a lot better.

Actually, Charley has been around long enough for people to know her and be tolerant of her... otherwise, not much difference but language skills...

 

[usemeplease28]

It's not that you're confrontational, it's that you are intentionally trying to say something controversial to get attention (i.e. *waving arms wildly* Look at me, look at me). You are on an author's forum asking if you're gay (what that has to do with writing is beyond me) and butchering the English language in the process. There is a General Board for people who just like to post (whether it's for general conversation or for flaming). I'm with Mat on this one. If you don't have anything to say that bears relevance on being an author or an attempt to be friendly, what's the point of wasting my time reading your posts? To me, the giveaway was when you said that hearing people's opinions on your homosexuality was "neat". I haven't heard that word uttered by anyone older than 14.

I dont see why you think talking about being labeled gay or straight is a confrontational thing to say.... also I didn't butcher a thing. I am newish to posting here.. so I didnt know it was a sin to put a question in this area. I was once a writer. and also the topic of some stories.. even some on here. I apologize for making you so angry.

 

[Belegon]

im trying to have a discussion about what people determine to be gay or not gay based solely on acts a person has taken part of. If my primary motivation was to get a rise out of people I would have said somthing mean or disturbing. Im simply posing a question.

Are you Joe Wordsworth's alt or something?

the use of the word "fag" in the context you used it in in this forum is about as confrontational as yelling "nigger" in Harlem...

ask an intelligent question if you want an intelligent response.

for example:

What is there in your background and motivations that makes you believe you need to deny any possible attraction to men after you have carried on a year long relationship with one?

And don't pull out the "I didn't have a relationship" line. After all...if your significant other went down on ME for a year, would you consider me to have been involved in a sexual relationship with her?

 

[S-Des]

I dont see why you think talking about being labeled gay or straight is a confrontational thing to say.... also I didn't butcher a thing. I am newish to posting here.. so I didnt know it was a sin to put a question in this area. I was once a writer. and also the topic of some stories.. even some on here. I apologize for making you so angry.

Who said I was angry? You didn't say anything towards me, I was just trying to answer your confusion about why Mat would have decided to put you on ignore.

OK.. there is something I need to say right up front... I tend to come off as a complete asshole when typing anything online.

Im expecting anger ranting and vulgarities... hell even call me a fag if you want.. lol it makes it all the more fun for this passive agressive man over here.

I don't know you, so all I can judge you on are your words. Seems fairly confrontational to me. As to your question (since you asked and I should at least give you the courtesy of a response)...Yes, I believe having sex with a man makes you gay. Having sex with men and women makes you bi. I have never 'experimented' with a man because I don't have that interest. That's why it's so easy to understand the homosexuality isn't a choice...I couldn't choose it if I wanted to. Not even as a recipient.

 

[Stella_Omega]

haha... nono.. I let him suck my dick... never had sex with a guy..

"I never had sex with that woman!"-Bill Clinton

According to the Special Prosecutor Kenneth Starr, you're a fag.

According to myself- I wouldn't recommend you to any gay man I know, since you don't evidently reciprocate. Reciprocity is a good thing

 

[Belegon]

"I never had sex with that woman!"-Bill Clinton

According to the Special Prosecutor Kenneth Starr, you're a fag.

According to myself- I wouldn't recommend you to any gay man I know, since you don't evidently reciprocate. Reciprocity is a good thing

I love you.

 

[S-Des]

According to myself- I wouldn't recommend you to any gay man I know, since you don't evidently reciprocate. Reciprocity is a good thing

That's true...how rude is it to receive but not give back?

 

[Nirvanadragones]

I just wonder: Why do you need a label? Are you a can of soup?

Perhaps it's rude to laugh out loud at this, but BWAH!!

Thank you, I needed that!

 

[Stella_Omega]

That's true...how rude is it to receive but not give back?

Utterly inexcusable. We open for them what opens for us. Miss Manners wrote a whole column on the subject. *nods*


And Bel- coming from such a paragon of civility as you- *blush*

 

[usemeplease28]

Who said I was angry? You didn't say anything towards me, I was just trying to answer your confusion about why Mat would have decided to put you on ignore.


I don't know you, so all I can judge you on are your words. Seems fairly confrontational to me. As to your question (since you asked and I should at least give you the courtesy of a response)...Yes, I believe having sex with a man makes you gay. Having sex with men and women makes you bi. I have never 'experimented' with a man because I don't have that interest. That's why it's so easy to understand the homosexuality isn't a choice...I couldn't choose it if I wanted to. Not even as a recipient.

thank you very much for giving your thoughts on the topic

 

[impressive]

I just wonder: Why do you need a label? Are you a can of soup?

I am. Clam Chowder.

 

[scriptordelecto]

Utterly inexcusable. We open for them what opens for us. Miss Manners wrote a whole column on the subject. *nods*


And Bel- coming from such a paragon of civility as you- *blush*

 

[Misty_Morning]

OK.. there is something I need to say right up front... I tend to come off as a complete asshole when typing anything online. That said... I enjoy a debate...
I have one to start if anyone is interested...

Do you think if a guy let another guy suck his dick for almost a year.. almost daily...and once let a gay guy watch him jack off, does it make that person gay?

I say no.. cause I have been there done that.. and im not gay.

I can decorate well tho. and have this unusual desire to hang out with bobby trendy. LOL

all joking aside tho... just because you had sex with someone from the same sex.. does that make you gay? or does the self feeling of being gay and proclaiming it make you gay?

please try to avoid saying im Bi.. cause im not bi either.

anyway.. to make it more straight.. no pun intended.. well maybe...

Are you automatically to be labeled homosexual when you have had experiences with the same sex?

Im expecting anger ranting and vulgarities... hell even call me a fag if you want.. lol it makes it all the more fun for this passive agressive man over here.

Well, I would suggest that you ask seek answers on the GLBT board, but I really like the people there. I find this bullshit that you are spewing nothing but offensive. Go somewhere else and yank peoples chains, asshole.

There, you got your anger and vulgarity....are you happy now?

I still think you are an asshole...and what you are saying bullshit.

 

[rise_again]

I am. Clam Chowder.

new england i hope.

 

[Guest]

OK.. there is something I need to say right up front... I tend to come off as a complete asshole when typing anything online. That said... I enjoy a debate...
I have one to start if anyone is interested...

Do you think if a guy let another guy suck his dick for almost a year.. almost daily...and once let a gay guy watch him jack off, does it make that person gay?

I say no.. cause I have been there done that.. and im not gay.

I can decorate well tho. and have this unusual desire to hang out with bobby trendy. LOL

all joking aside tho... just because you had sex with someone from the same sex.. does that make you gay? or does the self feeling of being gay and proclaiming it make you gay?

please try to avoid saying im Bi.. cause im not bi either.

anyway.. to make it more straight.. no pun intended.. well maybe...

Are you automatically to be labeled homosexual when you have had experiences with the same sex?

Im expecting anger ranting and vulgarities... hell even call me a fag if you want.. lol it makes it all the more fun for this passive agressive man over here.

Seriously, whose alt are you?

Nobody really thinks this way.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Well, I'm NOT gay...but if usemeplease28 wants to be used, then I'll use him!

(in gruff, gravely voice) C'mere, boy...

[takes usemeplease28 by the scruff of his neck and forces him downward twixt the thighs, slowly unbuttoning the crotch of his stonewashed denims]

 

[usemeplease28]

Are you Joe Wordsworth's alt or something?

the use of the word "fag" in the context you used it in in this forum is about as confrontational as yelling "nigger" in Harlem...

ask an intelligent question if you want an intelligent response.

for example:

What is there in your background and motivations that makes you believe you need to deny any possible attraction to men after you have carried on a year long relationship with one?

And don't pull out the "I didn't have a relationship" line. After all...if your significant other went down on ME for a year, would you consider me to have been involved in a sexual relationship with her?

I believe that a sexual relationship is not the same thing as a love relationship. I do know that you were able to comprehend my question and for some reason felt the desire to rephrase it. Im not asking for information about myself or the need to deny any attraction to a person of the same sex. This isnt about me and my experiences.. its a question about world views. I will leave it at that.. for those who post their thoughts about the topic.. great.. thanks.. for those who seem to avoid it.. thanks for helping me make more posts anyway.

 

[impressive]

new england i hope.

Of course!

 

[Stella_Omega]

I am. Clam Chowder.

oooh, yeah- buttery. Creamy. All those tender little morsels... Yep, that's imp allright!

 

[usemeplease28]

Well, I would suggest that you ask seek answers on the GLBT board, but I really like the people there. I find this bullshit that you are spewing nothing but offensive. Go somewhere else and yank peoples chains, asshole.

There, you got your anger and vulgarity....are you happy now?

I still think you are an asshole...and what you are saying bullshit.

i said i was sorry about posting in the wrong area.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Well, I'm NOT gay...but if usemeplease28 wants to be used, then I'll use him!

(in gruff, gravely voice) C'mere, boy...

[takes usemeplease28 by the scruff of his neck and forces him downward twixt the thighs, slowly unbuttoning the crotch of his stonewashed denims]

*Stella passes the lube*

A nearly full bottle, too!