A weighty issue

[the captians wench]

Congratulations.

I think this is a fine place to post that little blurt.

Thanks Chicklet.

 

[Cherrysweetdeal]

I can't say much for weight but inches I've lost more then the actual weight. Sometimes being the proper size means your more fit then a smaller weight. Congrats to those of you who have lost weight, I know its hard for everyone.

I admit im about 160 and 5'10, nothing to be ashamed of at all as long as you feel good.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Just a little update (even tho this is probably not the best places) I've been fry and nugget free for a little more than 3 months, I'm holding stedy at 210, and I'm a size 15. I'm not going to make my goal of a size 10 by newyears, (not safely anyway) but I'm happy. Sorry for the blurt.

WTG, wench! {{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}

 

[Evil_Geoff]

I just weighed myself this morning. I'm down to 72.6 kg (159lbs). I'm a lot fitter and I feel so much better about myself My tummy is flatter and my back no longer hurts at all. I have more tone and shape to my legs and arms. All this in about 3 months

That's awesome Bandit!

 

[Evil_Geoff]

I lost almost 30 pounds in eight months, from 187 to 160, but I haven't lost any more in the past three months! I'm staying on my fancy diet, though, and I'm maintaining rather than gaining, so I can't complain too much. I'll be off the diet this weekend because I'm visiting Daddy and I didn't want to drag along my suitcase full of food, but for the most part I have been being mostly good.

Keep up the good work, Etoile!

 

[Evil_Geoff]

I can't say much for weight but inches I've lost more then the actual weight. Sometimes being the proper size means your more fit then a smaller weight. Congrats to those of you who have lost weight, I know its hard for everyone.

I admit im about 160 and 5'10, nothing to be ashamed of at all as long as you feel good.

5'10" and 160 can be quite attractive!

 

[the captians wench]

WTG, wench! {{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}

thank you

 

[Etoile]

5'10" and 160 can be quite attractive!

I was thinking the same thing!

And thanks for your comment to me, too, EG!

 

[MasterPhoenix]

I just read over this thread, and I think it is one of the best threads I have seen on here.

I am quite overweight. 6 feet and around 330lbs, maybe more been a while since I have checked. I am pretty dammed agile for My size, and I work on My feet all day, usually running around like a chicken sans-head. (Especially this time of year.) Long ago I came to realize that no matter what, I will never look like a guy on a Nordic Trac commercial. My grandpa and uncle on My mom's side are both big men, and I have gotten that part of the gene-pool. (Somehow My dad's lightning quick metabolism missed Me.) I have accepted that, and I am now OK with My self. For a long time I wasn't, and was a prisoner to My own self-consiousness and missed out on a LOT because of it. I was teased and shit as the fat kid, and had an asshat teacher in 7th grade that sent Me on a LONG downward spiral because he mocked My weight. Once I reached that acceptance stage and cracked out of My shell, I started really changing and can now see Myself as an attractive man.

I have always tended to be attracted to bigger women, not because of any perceived notions of bigger women, but I find them sexy. I love to have a woman that I can feel when she is in My arms.

My rose is one. I love her 'full figured' body, she feels perfect in My arms. No way in hell could I love her any more if was a perfect size 4. I love the feel of her body against Mine, and the way it reacts to My touch. I love the fullness of My arms when they are around her.

Of course a 'friend' of hers made a crack about how could her and I have had sex... but I am not going to comment on that... Just shows some people's thoughts on it.

Were have talked about both losing weight for health reasons, and that is something we will work on when we are transitioned into real time.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

I just read over this thread, and I think it is one of the best threads I have seen on here.

I am quite overweight. 6 feet and around 330lbs, maybe more been a while since I have checked. I am pretty dammed agile for My size, and I work on My feet all day, usually running around like a chicken sans-head. (Especially this time of year.) Long ago I came to realize that no matter what, I will never look like a guy on a Nordic Trac commercial. My grandpa and uncle on My mom's side are both big men, and I have gotten that part of the gene-pool. (Somehow My dad's lightning quick metabolism missed Me.) I have accepted that, and I am now OK with My self. For a long time I wasn't, and was a prisoner to My own self-consiousness and missed out on a LOT because of it. I was teased and shit as the fat kid, and had an asshat teacher in 7th grade that sent Me on a LONG downward spiral because he mocked My weight. Once I reached that acceptance stage and cracked out of My shell, I started really changing and can now see Myself as an attractive man.

I have always tended to be attracted to bigger women, not because of any perceived notions of bigger women, but I find them sexy. I love to have a woman that I can feel when she is in My arms.

My rose is one. I love her 'full figured' body, she feels perfect in My arms. No way in hell could I love her any more if was a perfect size 4. I love the feel of her body against Mine, and the way it reacts to My touch. I love the fullness of My arms when they are around her.

Of course a 'friend' of hers made a crack about how could her and I have had sex... but I am not going to comment on that... Just shows some people's thoughts on it.

Were have talked about both losing weight for health reasons, and that is something we will work on when we are transitioned into real time.

Very good Post, Sir..and i'm glad that You do see Yourself as an attractive man, because You are, in SO many ways i love the feel of Your arms around me, it's where i feel safe and it's why when You wrap Your arms around me, i curl my arms up between our chests and just 'melt' into You, Your arms are where i'm meant to be. i've never met anyone more accepting of me (even with all of my insanity sometimes and my definant flaws) *smiles*

now onto the topic of the thread, i have not read through the whole thread but wanted to share my experience as well, i am oppisite of Master in that i have not always been 'big'. which goes back to when i was a baby. i'm not gonna give the long version here..or atleast i'm gonna try not to. i was abused as a baby, starved, locked in closets, i was adopted at 3 years old by my 'foster parents' i have baby pictures of me that you can almost, it seems, see through my skin, to my bones, that's how little i was. my mom (adopted) when i was at her house, would wake me up to feed me in fear that i was so used to not eating, that i wouldn't know when i was hungry. anyway, i'm rambling. as a child i was very little, as i got older i started gaining weight, i got pregnant at 15 years old and my weight just skyrocketed from there. and i'm now bigger than i've ever been i accept it's part of who i am. as a teen i was 'big boned' but not by any means overweight, though i was bigger than alot of my classmates but i was also taller. anyway, i did get ridiculed and made fun of , but it wasn't until later in life, after my first pregnancy. i lost ALOT of self esteem and i still have low self esteem sometimes, but i am way more accepting of myself now that i've found Master and how accepting he is of me. i was also in a very abusive relationship with my ex husband who of course played on my weight issues (i'm too fat, no one but him would ever want me..etc...) the reason that i'm overweight is i eat out of boredom, most of the time when i go grab something to eat, i'm not even hungry, it's an impulse and i wonder sometimes if it doesn't go back to when i was a baby and my mom would wake me up to feed me. *shrugs* all i know is i am happy with who i am and i'm not ashamed to say that i am overweight (i'm 5'5 250lbs last time i got weighed at the doctor i think) though i do wish i could lose some weight for health issues as Master said, but that's another story. hopefully i have not rambled too much..and someone can make some sense out of what i've said *smiles*.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Ok now speaking from the prospective of one who has battled the bulge for nearly a quarter of a century, that's right longer than some of you are old, let me say that weight loss training is a noble cause and not to be taken lightly. Any weight loss or improvement in one's health is an outstanding achievement. The first half of my life I was a hard body and because I didn't have to work to get or stay there, I didn't. Then one day I woke to find I had put on all kinds of extra baggage and found it nearly impossible to take off. Then I found an exercise plan that worked. It is really simple. Do something every day but mix it up. For example one day I go to aerobics, the next to pilates. Then strength training, etc. I walk 3 miles daily and use that hateful machine in my basement daily for 20" I have in the last year lost the 40 pounds I had put on and feel better than I did in my 20's.

There are 3 simple rules to weight loss, eat less, eat right and exercise...every day. Good luck to all of you who are engaging or about to engage in this life style.

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[Alistunut]

i am oppisite of Master in that i have not always been 'big'.

.......

all i know is i am happy with who i am and i'm not ashamed to say that i am overweight (i'm 5'5 250lbs last time i got weighed at the doctor i think)

Hello, lil_slave_rose. This post surprised me because of your chosen name.

Isn't "lil" slang for little?

I think it is wonderful that you are proud of the way you are. But if that is so, then why call yourself something else? Is it because you use the word "lil" as a synonym for something other than small?

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Hello, lil_slave_rose. This post surprised me because of your chosen name.

Isn't "lil" slang for little?

I think it is wonderful that you are proud of the way you are. But if that is so, then why call yourself something else? Is it because you use the word "lil" as a synonym for something other than small?

the 'lil' in my user ID has NOTHING to do with weight. i use 'lil' because i am Master's 'lil' one......not quite sure why you thought 'lil' would have anything to do with my weight. many people in the lifestyle use 'lil' or 'lil one' to describe themselves..i guess i'm confused about your question and what made you think i was trying to portray something i'm not by simply using the word 'lil' in my user ID.....when alot of Dom's use 'lil one' to describe their submissives....

He uses 'lil' one more so in our Daddy/princess persona's than the M/s but i always 'feel' like His 'lil one' as He is always guiding me through our journey

 

[CutieMouse]

Umm... little can mean more than physical size. It can also be a state of mind, and emotional connection, a reflection of age play, etc. If the argument is that little is only a reflection of size, I'd be right out of the designation, as I'm semi-tall for a woman. LOL

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Umm... little can mean more than physical size. It can also be a state of mind, and emotional connection, a reflection of age play, etc. If the argument is that little is only a reflection of size, I'd be right out of the designation, as I'm semi-tall for a woman. LOL

Thanks for that response CM...

This is a great thread

 

[Alistunut]

the 'lil' in my user ID has NOTHING to do with weight. i use 'lil' because i am Master's 'lil' one......not quite sure why you thought 'lil' would have anything to do with my weight. many people in the lifestyle use 'lil' or 'lil one' to describe themselves..i guess i'm confused about your question and what made you think i was trying to portray something i'm not by simply using the word 'lil' in my user ID.....when alot of Dom's use 'lil one' to describe their submissives....

He uses 'lil' one more so in our Daddy/princess persona's than the M/s but i always 'feel' like His 'lil one' as He is always guiding me through our journey

I noticed that Phoenix said, "I have always tended to be attracted to bigger women, not because of any perceived notions of bigger women, but I find them sexy."

It seemed ironic to me that his nickname for you would be the opposite of what he desires. If there is another meaning for the word little other than small, I was not aware of it. That's why I asked.

Thank you for explaining.

 

[Alistunut]

Umm... little can mean more than physical size. It can also be a state of mind, and emotional connection, a reflection of age play, etc. If the argument is that little is only a reflection of size, I'd be right out of the designation, as I'm semi-tall for a woman. LOL

Thank you for your explanation as well.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

I noticed that Phoenix said, "I have always tended to be attracted to bigger women, not because of any perceived notions of bigger women, but I find them sexy."

It seemed ironic to me that his nickname for you would be the opposite of what he desires. If there is another meaning for the word little other than small, I was not aware of it. That's why I asked.

Thank you for explaining.

She is My little one, and it has nothing to do with her size. 'little one' is a common pet name given to submissives by their Dominants. It is a show of affection and endearment.

I also call her baby & babygirl a lot, and she is not a baby.

ITs these endearments that I can use in 'nilla places that are subtle but also remind her of her place.

I hope this explanation further helps...

 

[leeroy jenkins]

She is My little one, and it has nothing to do with her size. 'little one' is a common pet name given to submissives by their Dominants. It is a show of affection and endearment.

I also call her baby & babygirl a lot, and she is not a baby.

ITs these endearments that I can use in 'nilla places that are subtle but also remind her of her place.

I hope this explanation further helps...

Isn't amazing that we are the ones that have to hide and blend in so not to upset those not so like minded..

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Isn't amazing that we are the ones that have to hide and blend in so not to upset those not so like minded..

Kinda sad.... but no way in hell would I call her My slave in front of her Dad... babygirl OTOH.... its just sounds sweet & she knows what it means...

 

[Alistunut]

She is My little one, and it has nothing to do with her size. 'little one' is a common pet name given to submissives by their Dominants. It is a show of affection and endearment.

I also call her baby & babygirl a lot, and she is not a baby.

ITs these endearments that I can use in 'nilla places that are subtle but also remind her of her place.

I hope this explanation further helps...

Yes, it does help. Thank you.

It is interesting that you mention "nilla places". As far as I know, all of the women with whom I am acquainted are "nilla". But I have never heard anyone in RL call another person "little one". I am obviously not saying it is wrong, just trying to explain the perspective that prompted my question.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Yes, it does help. Thank you.

It is interesting that you mention "nilla places". As far as I know, all of the women with whom I am acquainted are "nilla". But I have never heard anyone in RL call another person "little one". I am obviously not saying it is wrong, just trying to explain the perspective that prompted my question.

hmm..interesting as this is something i hear alot of Dom's calling their submissives. are you in the lifestyle? the reason i ask is because you said 'all of the women you are acquainted with are 'nilla' i'm just wondering if you are in the BDSM lifestyle, and if you're not, maybe that's why all of the terms are so foreign to you??

 

[Bandit58]

I've lost some more weight - and over Christmas too, go figure. I haven't been able to work out for the last couple of weeks as I've been ill (tonsillitis) and haven't felt well enough. Maybe that had something to do with it, but I'm not complaining - 700g (1.5lbs) lost is pretty good considering

I've been doing weight training to tone my upper body - I'm broad shouldered and have quite good strength from living on a farm for years My trainer will be working on my legs next, and throwing in some boxing moves which is heaps of fun. I never thought I'd enjoy getting fit - I used to hate any form of exercise but now I love it because I'm seeing results.

 

[Etoile]

Umm... little can mean more than physical size. It can also be a state of mind, and emotional connection, a reflection of age play, etc. If the argument is that little is only a reflection of size, I'd be right out of the designation, as I'm semi-tall for a woman. LOL

Well said! I too was thinking "what does that have to do with it?" when I read that post.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Well said! I too was thinking "what does that have to do with it?" when I read that post.

My first thoughts were troll alert with that question.