A very much contrarian man is searching for a very much contrarian woman

[needle_seeker]

To complement and support our deviations from the mainstream. With a good amount of understanding and empathy. And with lots of imagination, for cross-pollinating each other’s minds.

I had experienced this before, but only once, and not as long as I would have loved to. And since it ended several years ago, I claim I have learned a lot in the meantime. Including a fairly good awareness of my own shortcomings in that prior relationship.

So in case you too are in a similar situation, I sure would love to hear from you. Because I figure that two people who can learn from their past - are ideally suited for a second round.

 

[Desiree_Radcliffe]

What are you looking for? This is incredibly vague, unfortunately.

 

[needle_seeker]

Dear Desiree! In case you DO find my ad incredibly vague, you and I will never understand each other, I fear.

To answer your question: I look for a woman who IS able to piece together the words of my ad into statements that make sense to her. And in addition, for a woman who actually enjoys my way of thinking about life.

But allow me to wish you good luck, Desiree, on your quest to increase your happiness

 

[Desiree_Radcliffe]

There was no need to bold things. I didn't know it was an "if you know you know" situation. No need to be rude. I was just curious.

 

[LoneMilf]

There was no need to bold things. I didn't know it was an "if you know you know" situation. No need to be rude. I was just curious.

No need to feel bad. The OP is an alt that pops up every once in a while posting ads similar to this. I do hope he eventually finds a match, but for most, it's probably best to avoid.

 

[Desiree_Radcliffe]

No need to feel bad. The OP is an alt that pops up every once in a while posting ads similar to this. I do hope he eventually finds a match, but for most, it's probably best to avoid.

Thank you very much for telling me this. I had no idea. I just thought it'd be interesting to ask to elaborate, but duly noted. I appreciate it. It's weird that people alienate their audience here.

 

[needle_seeker]

This is an attempted bump of my original ad; not a response to LoneMilf nor DEsiree.

I learned this the painful way, but I may as well admit it. And I am not admitting it easily. Since getting reminded of my own gullibility never feels good ever. So: I did in fact meet a woman who called herself a contrarian, and she claimed she felt sapiosexual too. But our attempted “conversations” turned out no better than a Punch & Judy show.

I’ll spare you the details, and again I regret that I simply had presumed, a woman who PMs me back on an ad I had posted – would be a literate woman indeed.

So just in case there exists a second contrarian woman here, but one who does enjoy the written word as well, I would love to hear back from you. And I assure you: I am not just craving your attention, but indeed I shall truly respond back to you.

 

[Escierto]

No need to feel bad. The OP is an alt that pops up every once in a while posting ads similar to this. I do hope he eventually finds a match, but for most, it's probably best to avoid.

Exactly right. After he alienates everyone with one userid, he promptly creates a new one.

 

[Desiree_Radcliffe]

Exactly right. After he alienates everyone with one userid, he promptly creates a new one.

The lore here runs deep. I thought that maybe he was just a little confused or something. I didn't know that he was infamous as a misogynist who wants women to...? Like, if you hate women this hard, why even ask for a dynamic with one?

 

[Dirtylittlesinner]

To complement and support our deviations from the mainstream. With a good amount of understanding and empathy. And with lots of imagination, for cross-pollinating each other’s minds.

I had experienced this before, but only once, and not as long as I would have loved to. And since it ended several years ago, I claim I have learned a lot in the meantime. Including a fairly good awareness of my own shortcomings in that prior relationship.

So in case you too are in a similar situation, I sure would love to hear from you. Because I figure that two people who can learn from their past - are ideally suited for a second round.

I am a genuinely curious woman