A very lesbian question

[wetandcute]

Hi guys! I have a rather serious question/problem. I'm a woman in her early 20s and I feel like I'm only attracted to women even though I've never been with one (kisses happened but nothing more). In theory I'd be fine with dating a man but whenever I'm about to meet up with one, I feel insane anxiety and I'm on the verge of a panic attack.
I'd really really love to date women, I know that I'm attracted to them and I feel like I'd be honestly the happiest and truly like myself with women. However, I'm insanely inexperienced and idk how to do anything. Any advice?

 

[Terrylipstick]

Hi guys! I have a rather serious question/problem. I'm a woman in her early 20s and I feel like I'm only attracted to women even though I've never been with one (kisses happened but nothing more). In theory I'd be fine with dating a man but whenever I'm about to meet up with one, I feel insane anxiety and I'm on the verge of a panic attack.
I'd really really love to date women, I know that I'm attracted to them and I feel like I'd be honestly the happiest and truly like myself with women. However, I'm insanely inexperienced and idk how to do anything. Any advice?

I wish I had some advice to give you other that just put yourself out there and have fun

 

[BillyWalrus]

Hi guys! I have a rather serious question/problem. I'm a woman in her early 20s and I feel like I'm only attracted to women even though I've never been with one (kisses happened but nothing more). In theory I'd be fine with dating a man but whenever I'm about to meet up with one, I feel insane anxiety and I'm on the verge of a panic attack.
I'd really really love to date women, I know that I'm attracted to them and I feel like I'd be honestly the happiest and truly like myself with women. However, I'm insanely inexperienced and idk how to do anything. Any advice?

My advice is to admit that you lack experience and you are a complete novice. No one is going to hold that against you in the search for love and connection. Just be yourself and put yourself out there. It will be ok.

 

[Sounding22]

My advice is to admit that you lack experience and you are a complete novice. No one is going to hold that against you in the search for love and connection. Just be yourself and put yourself out there. It will be ok.

I know what you mean. From a man’s perspective when I meet up with a woman she’s beautiful but inside I just don’t feel what I should feel.
When I see a man I get weak in the knees, took me awhile to accept it but my feelings are percent gay just remember it’s only sex. Hope it helped

 

[ColtonWrites]

At your age you are more likely to find other inexperienced women than experienced ones, IME. You are completely normal in developing your identity as an adult.
Are you connected to your local lesbian community? There are usually queer events you can attend and then you can put yourself out there as single.

 

[SmilingLez]

Hi guys! I have a rather serious question/problem. I'm a woman in her early 20s and I feel like I'm only attracted to women even though I've never been with one (kisses happened but nothing more). In theory I'd be fine with dating a man but whenever I'm about to meet up with one, I feel insane anxiety and I'm on the verge of a panic attack.
I'd really really love to date women, I know that I'm attracted to them and I feel like I'd be honestly the happiest and truly like myself with women. However, I'm insanely inexperienced and idk how to do anything. Any advice?

Find some lgbtqa events and go. Connect with people.