A tribute to open-minded mothers everywhere

[Cruel2BKind]

I've only been old enough to write for this site for a little more then nine months (I joined as an author on my birthday) And I just became a freshman in college. I was a virgin until I got here, and not only did I lose it after three weeks, but I have now had five partners.

I've been talking, and I'm hearing a lot of horrible stories. A girl who got pregnant because she didn't know how to use her birth control pills correctly, broken condoms, STD's, getting drunk and lost. All of these testimonies are from people I met, and most of these events took place when they were in high school.

My mother was telling me about STD's and explaining sex and birth control to me when I was twelve. She told me about the dangers, but also told me that sex was a wonderful and natural thing. She told me that I didn't need to wait until I was married, and joked that all guys need a 'test run'. When I got a boyfriend in high school, she bought me condoms. Every sexual encounter I had was protected, and she recently got me to get prescription for birth control.

I fucking love my mom.

 

[Handley_Page]

And so you should. Apart from pure filial duty, she sounds like a very stable lady.

 

[Cruel2BKind]

I just realized that the title of this thread looks like a tribute to incest. Grr...

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

You remind of a hunter boasting of bagging his limit the first day of the season.

 

[Sugary_Comfort]

That's awesome. My mom was kind of like that. I don't remember her ever having the sex talk with me. I mean, she grounded me for an indefinite amount of time when I told her I'd had my first kiss (ended up stuck at home for 3 weeks until my oldest sister called and fussed her out about it), so I couldn't really ever go to her for anything about sex, even though she did say that it was okay to talk to her and she'd get me birth control, blah blah blah.

But she made sure I understood all the negatives about sex and all the positives even though she suggested waiting until I was married. She couldn't say I had to because by the time she got to talking to me about it, I and my sisters pretty much knew all about her sex life and knew she'd not been a virgin when she got married, so she just said it would be better to wait. But I had different views on virginity.

I'm planning on making sure my son understands that the nude body is not something taboo or dirty and I'll make sure he knows about sex and stuff at the right time. I'll suggest he wait, but not that he wait until marriage. And I definitely don't want to be like my mom and go crazy when I think my kid is going to have sex soon.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

I gave the kids one rule: DONT BRING HOME NUTHIN I GOTTA FEED.