A Thread About Strip Joints for the Titty Bar Virgin - Duckie

lavender

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So, the duckling just informed me he had never been to a strip joint. I want to know how many of you haven't. How many men and women have been to a place where women danced/stripped? How many of you haven't?

I'm thinking I might just have to introduce Duckie to the Muy Grande Tatas de la Lavy Tourismo.
 
lavender said:
So, the duckling just informed me he had never been to a strip joint. I want to know how many of you haven't. How many men and women have been to a place where women danced/stripped? How many of you haven't?

I'm thinking I might just have to introduce Duckie to the Muy Grande Tatas de la Lavy Tourismo.

*blush* ok so i haven't...so sue me! ... oh wait.... :D

yup yup, its all true I tells ya
 
You're not missing much Duckie. I've been to a few and don't care for them - at all.
 
Been to a lot of them myself. I don't see the big thrill in in anymore!
 
I haven't ever been to a "classic" strip bar with the strippers dancing, but i've been to a couple of places in New Orleans that the participants ended up naked pretty quickly.
 
I used to work in one. It tried to kill my sex drive.
 
Ezarc said:
I used to work in one. It tried to kill my sex drive.

see thats just it... to me, it was often a case of "why bother?"

*chuckle* i aint going alone and my friends are not the type of people who would go either.
 
QuickDuck said:
see thats just it... to me, it was often a case of "why bother?"

*chuckle* i aint going alone and my friends are not the type of people who would go either.
Too much of a good thing dulls the senses.
 
I am male, and 25 y/o and I have never been to a "titty-bar" or Strip-joint. Never been to one that is until the weekend before last.

So I have been to one once, about 10 days ago being my first and so far only time.
 
I might have to pass. :)

Titty bars depress me. They make me feel sorry for men.
 
Never been. I'm too afraid there is gonna be someone's drunken grandma up on the stage shaking her thing.
 
bknight2602 said:
Why is that lavy?

Just because. Yes, titty bars are places to go and have fun; places where boys can go and be boys. But, there are a lot of lonely men who go to those places - lonely men who are looking for something and get emptiness in return. Or even sadder, they go and actually believe or fantasize about these things and let it superficially satisfy. They are paying for attention, paying for moments of gratification.

Yes, I know most men just go for the thrill. But, everytime I've been you see the few pathetic men who are there for other reasons. It saddens me a great deal.
 
Been there and done that... not near as interesting as it is having one live with you. I've been roommates with two of them, and we are still good friends. What do you want to know about the lifestyle? ... that you don't already know ...
 
I haven't been to one yet but I want to, just to see what they're like. My husband says they get boring fast though.
 
lavender said:
Just because. Yes, titty bars are places to go and have fun; places where boys can go and be boys. But, there are a lot of lonely men who go to those places - lonely men who are looking for something and get emptiness in return. Or even sadder, they go and actually believe or fantasize about these things and let it superficially satisfy. They are paying for attention, paying for moments of gratification.

Yes, I know most men just go for the thrill. But, everytime I've been you see the few pathetic men who are there for other reasons. It saddens me a great deal.

This sums things up quite nicely for me.
 
lavender said:
Just because. Yes, titty bars are places to go and have fun; places where boys can go and be boys. But, there are a lot of lonely men who go to those places - lonely men who are looking for something and get emptiness in return. Or even sadder, they go and actually believe or fantasize about these things and let it superficially satisfy. They are paying for attention, paying for moments of gratification.

Yes, I know most men just go for the thrill. But, everytime I've been you see the few pathetic men who are there for other reasons. It saddens me a great deal.

That is why I don't go to them!

Thanks for sharing that with everyone!
 
I will give this bit of sageness on the subject and both Summer and Shannon, the two dancer friends I mentioned will tell you the same thing. The titty bars are how they make a living. Making a living means MONEY. Money comes from those men who are thus generous that go to the clubs. If you want to get somewhere with the girls, don't give money, that's their cue that you are a "contributor", but be yourself and let them know what you offer OUTSIDE of such an environment. This brings THEM to YOU, and as a friend of such, you share the rewards for which their entitlements (or should I say entittlements) afford.
 
I'm one of the guys who have never been either. I've just never seen the fun in getting all worked up and having nothing to do with it afterwards.
 
JazzManJim said:
I'm one of the guys who have never been either. I've just never seen the fun in getting all worked up and having nothing to do with it afterwards.


Thats why it's better to roommate with one.
 
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