A study in abusive control

[kiwiwolf]

Bump

 

[kiwiwolf]

Another bump.

 

[Georgia Girl]

For the women.......never let anyone tell you can't get away, you can. It took me 10 yrs but I got away. I live inside a locked gate, work behind a locked door and watch around me but I'm away from him.

As for the kids......don't make excuses for dad's behavior, be honest about it, they aren't dumb, they see it.

Best wishes Shadwann2

Its not easy


Dawn

 

[Debbie]

For the women.......never let anyone tell you can't get away, you can. It took me 10 yrs but I got away. I live inside a locked gate, work behind a locked door and watch around me but I'm away from him.

As for the kids......don't make excuses for dad's behavior, be honest about it, they aren't dumb, they see it.

Best wishes Shadwann2

Its not easy


Dawn

(Hug) I didn't know that you had been through this too.
It isn't easy, it is so scary. But you have to try.
Be secretive.
Never give out too much info, especially on the net. (As in public forums) You never know if your abuser is lurking.
But get out safely and quickly.

 

[kiwiwolf]

bumping to get this back on page one

 

[Mia62]

Never give out too much info, especially on the net. (As in public forums) You never know if your abuser is lurking.

This point is so true. It is scary to think that you are safe in an anonymous site only to have the site invaded by the abuser. The abuser is able to register and send PMs to people that they don't know in the hopes of ruining the "safety net" that you thought you had.

I would hope that if this had happened to me or to someone that I cared about, that anyone who received a PM from an abuser would let me know and not try to ignore it by deleting the PM. If I was no longer safe...then I sure as hell would want to know.

 

[S.Daedalus]

My heart goes out...if there was but one thing I could do..i would do it. But alas, it is not my place..and so i shall just say.

If ever you need...and I can provide...you know how to reach me.


May your strength with stand this test.

Your friend,
Stephen Daedalus

 

[I'mVan]

Thanks everyone. There are, of course, two sides to every story. None the less, some things remain undeniable and unacceptable.

Best wishes to anyone who finds this little story hits close to home.

 

[glamorilla]

you rock van.

 

[Guest]

 

[Mia62]

 

[Cheyenne]

bumping to get this back on page one

 

[Monazwx]

Just thought I'd pass this along.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=119289

 

[kiwiwolf]

Chey you rock. A timely bump.

 

[I'mVan]

Thanks wolfie, I just got in from work with much the same thoughts myself.

 

[one_gr8_guy]

You really are the one being manipulated.

you need a good beatin

 

[Mia62]

Re: You really are the one being manipulated.

you need a good beatin

Hmm...what a curious newbie. And was that a threat just uttered?? Verrrrrrrry interesting.

 

[Debbie]

for ImVan.


Repeating myself.

quote:
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Originally posted by debbiexxx

Never give out too much info, especially on the net.
(As in public forums) You never know if your
abuser is lurking.
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[I'mVan]

Re: Re: You really are the one being manipulated.

Hmm...what a curious newbie. And was that a threat just uttered?? Verrrrrrrry interesting.

*shrug* yes it is a threat. And not the first to my body or reputation.

 

[Debbie]

Your reputation is intact with those who know you.
Lies told to others who believe an ahole like this
are not true friends.

Thinking of you, ImVan.
Take care.

 

[I'mVan]

Thanks sweetie. I have no fear of him, none at all. The woman in question doesn't fear his manipulations either, though his fists haunt her. It's just an observation of his behaviour, nothing new. There never is.

I hope the people who he has contacted can see this as a snapshot of his regular behavior, real and cyber.

 

[one_gr8_guy]

What happened was wrong no matter how you cut it.

This woman lied to her husband and three children; told whem she was working really hard and that is why she always had to spend time away. This woman was actually at her place of working taking pornographic pictures of herself. Posting plain nude pictures of yourself for thousands to see without your husband enen having an inkling and lying to your children to do it is wrong, sticking a poolcue up your pussy and ass on the same table your children crawl on and play on is downright disgusting. Every argument and problem involves more than one, everyone has the right to move on and find new people marriage is no longer sacred to most, but taking your children away from their father whom they adore because you want a new more adventorous guy is terrible. This gal should move on let her children give and receive love from the man who will always be their father and everything else will be fine. You cannot expect a loving father to just let his kids leave and not communicate without getting angry. Put yourselves in the shoes of everyone involved especially the kids who have always truly loved their daddy. Peace

 

[freakygirl]

I know there is two sides to every story.

But dude.. harrassing someone isn't the best way to go about seeing your kids.

Let the law and the courts decide.

 

[I'mVan]

I know there is two sides to every story.

But dude.. harrassing someone isn't the best way to go about seeing your kids.

Let the law and the courts decide.

Ahmen! Peace

 

[Kuntmode]

n/a

How many married women sit online during the day flashing their tits and muff, whilst hubby is at work 'providing' for the family he loves and would die for?

How many have secret affairs with other men on the net?

Women drive men to the edge. Men work hard and expect respect from a woman rather than their fucking nagging, bitching and flirty fucking online shit.

No one is perfect and even though the guy in the situation mentioned may be a cunt, what made him do what he did?

For fun? Cheap thrills? Or was he dealing with a fucking scrag that is nothing more than a cheap online whore?



No autographs. I know you love me so.