A Step Into A Larger World

[DudeOfLife]

Hey everyone. For about a year or so now my SO and I have toyed with the idea of inviting one or more people into our private lives. We started slowly by posting a few pics here and on another site. So far the replies have been wonderful. So many great people have said such nice things about my sweetest angel.

But as of late, we have been talking a little more seriously about taking another step. What that step would consist of, neither of us are too sure. We have gone to a strip club a few times and gotten a lap dance or two, but that is the extent of things to date.

We often talk of what it would be like to take it a bit furthur. We speak of the things we would/wouldn't want to happen. We ponder the diffrent places and situations that we could get ourselves into. Some are tame, and some are rather hardcore. We are both a little shy and pretty nervous about this, but that being said, you only live once. I suppose we are looking for an experienc (or many) to broaden our sexual horizons.

Anyway, just thought Id put this up here and see if anyone has any input, questions, comments, or possibly offers. We hope to hear from you soon!

 

[Nessi]

Hi DudeOfLife, I think that you have to try it. If you don't do it you'll maybe regret one day. So what stops you - only your mind, you should get over it and do whatever you want to have some fun and pleasure time.
Best of luck

 

[DudeOfLife]

Thanks Nessi, your words hold alot of truth. Unfortunatly, even though I totally agree with what you said, some inhibitions are just hard to overcome. On top of that, my SO is most definitly more inhibited than I. It is one thing to talk, but an entirely diffrent thing to actually do. My philosophy is along the lines of the "Carpe Deim" but within limits. Her philosophy is much more reserved. Like I said, we both think it would be great fun to go down this path, but her shyness and reluctance at the thought of actually doing this make me doubt myself.