A sexy move that worked on you but shouldn't have

[kreemi_pi]

At a bar a couple of weeks ago, I ran into a guy I knew. Okay, a guy I'd slept with. Not exactly an ex, just a guy I dated a few times. We had a strong physical attraction but I wasn't really into him as a person.

Anyway I'd had a few drinks and I felt the physical part of it when I saw him and I was standing in front of him smiling and making eye contact and flirting.

I was wearing a little tank top and skinny jeans. Very snug jeans. After an initial hug, we hadn't touched but the bar was crowded and we were standing close and both feeling each other's vibe.

Then he made his move.

He reached between us and ran a fingertip along my jeans...between my legs. My crotch...my groin...

...my vagina...

His middle fjnger I think, just a little caress, back to front and back again. I was shocked but also it sent this wave of pleasure through me and i think i visibly shivered, and gasped, and blinked. Then i stared at him, wide-eyed and open-mouthed.

Yeah, that's right. He fucking "grabbed me by the pussy." I should have been outraged and disgusted. But instead, I made out with him for awhile in the bar, and then went back to his place and rewarded him by letting him fuck me.

 

[kreemi_pi]

Anybody else have something like that happen?

 

[jpro56]

A while ago but did a Craigslist meet in a public place. Met her at a candy store, bought her candy and ice cream then she followed me home and spent a few hours working off calories.

 

[BillyWalrus]

At a bar a couple of weeks ago, I ran into a guy I knew. Okay, a guy I'd slept with. Not exactly an ex, just a guy I dated a few times. We had a strong physical attraction but I wasn't really into him as a person.

Anyway I'd had a few drinks and I felt the physical part of it when I saw him and I was standing in front of him smiling and making eye contact and flirting.

I was wearing a little tank top and skinny jeans. Very snug jeans. After an initial hug, we hadn't touched but the bar was crowded and we were standing close and both feeling each other's vibe.

Then he made his move.

He reached between us and ran a fingertip along my jeans...between my legs. My crotch...my groin...

...my vagina...

His middle fjnger I think, just a little caress, back to front and back again. I was shocked but also it sent this wave of pleasure through me and i think i visibly shivered, and gasped, and blinked. Then i stared at him, wide-eyed and open-mouthed.

Yeah, that's right. He fucking "grabbed me by the pussy." I should have been outraged and disgusted. But instead, I made out with him for awhile in the bar, and then went back to his place and rewarded him by letting him fuck me.

Obviously the guy owns you and he can fuck you whenever he wants. Nothing wrong with that. I know because I have an owner too. I could never resist her.

 

[kreemi_pi]

Obviously the guy owns you and he can fuck you whenever he wants. Nothing wrong with that. I know because I have an owner too. I could never resist her.

I understand what you're saying, and i've felt that way before.

But I wouldn't say this guy owns me; I had broken things off with him previously, and I haven't talked to him since.

Did he own me in that moment? I suppose. But the weird thing is, I didn't feel so much like I "let" him get away with something I didn't like. It's more like he just made the "right" move at the right time.

 

[BillyWalrus]

I understand what you're saying, and i've felt that way before.

But I wouldn't say this guy owns me; I had broken things off with him previously, and I haven't talked to him since.

Did he own me in that moment? I suppose. But the weird thing is, I didn't feel so much like I "let" him get away with something I didn't like. It's more like he just made the "right" move at the right time.

I bet he could come up to you again and get in your pants again. He will always know what the right move is to get it even if neither of you is interested in a relationship. Which you clearly aren't.

Who knows though? Maybe he just got lucky lol.

 

[kreemi_pi]

I bet he could come up to you again and get in your pants again. He will always know what the right move is to get it even if neither of you is interested in a relationship. Which you clearly aren't.

Hmmm, interesting thought. You may be right. I do tend to stay friendly with exes and "sort of" exes, and I sometimes I have what I call "convenience sex": someone I know is safe, who knows what I like, and generally someone who seems ok with not getting serious (I would avoid doing it with someone still carrying a torch for me).

 

[BillyWalrus]

Hmmm, interesting thought. You may be right. I do tend to stay friendly with exes and "sort of" exes, and I sometimes I have what I call "convenience sex": someone I know is safe, who knows what I like, and generally someone who seems ok with not getting serious (I would avoid doing it with someone still carrying a torch for me).

Sounds like you got a long list of guys who can get in your pants at the right moment! He's not Mr Right. He's Mr Right Now!

 

[kreemi_pi]

Sounds like you got a long list of guys who can get in your pants at the right moment! He's not Mr Right. He's Mr Right Now!

Not very flattering way to put it. I'd say more like there plenty of guys around if I want one, and I have more control over it than they do. Buy you you're welcome to have a low opinion of me if you want.

 

[BillyWalrus]

Not very flattering way to put it. I'd say more like there plenty of guys around if I want one, and I have more control over it than they do. Buy you you're welcome to have a low opinion of me if you want.

Oh no, that's not really what I meant. You have ALL the control. They don't have any control except for being on the approved list of candidates for Mr Right Now.

 

[TinaG_2023]

At a bar a couple of weeks ago, I ran into a guy I knew. Okay, a guy I'd slept with. Not exactly an ex, just a guy I dated a few times. We had a strong physical attraction but I wasn't really into him as a person.

Anyway I'd had a few drinks and I felt the physical part of it when I saw him and I was standing in front of him smiling and making eye contact and flirting.

I was wearing a little tank top and skinny jeans. Very snug jeans. After an initial hug, we hadn't touched but the bar was crowded and we were standing close and both feeling each other's vibe.

Then he made his move.

He reached between us and ran a fingertip along my jeans...between my legs. My crotch...my groin...

...my vagina...

His middle fjnger I think, just a little caress, back to front and back again. I was shocked but also it sent this wave of pleasure through me and i think i visibly shivered, and gasped, and blinked. Then i stared at him, wide-eyed and open-mouthed.

Yeah, that's right. He fucking "grabbed me by the pussy." I should have been outraged and disgusted. But instead, I made out with him for awhile in the bar, and then went back to his place and rewarded him by letting him fuck me.

Turned out well then!!

 

[kreemi_pi]

Oh no, that's not really what I meant. You have ALL the control. They don't have any control except for being on the approved list of candidates for Mr Right Now.

I assume you're being sarcastic, but to be honest I really don't get what your deal is.

It seems like you are uncomfortable with the idea of a woman having sex when she feels like it. If a man was talking about about having sex with multiple women, I don't think you'd be making comments like this.

 

[BillyWalrus]

I assume you're being sarcastic, but to be honest I really don't get what your deal is.

It seems like you are uncomfortable with the idea of a woman having sex when she feels like it. If a man was talking about about having sex with multiple women, I don't think you'd be making comments like this.

You cannot be serious although I am sure you are.

My girlfriend has sex only when she feels like it. She is devoted to me but SHE is in charge completely.

As for a woman having sex with multiple men, why not? A woman can handle many men sexually a lot better than a man can handle many women.

 

[kreemi_pi]

You cannot be serious although I am sure you are.

My girlfriend has sex only when she feels like it. She is devoted to me but SHE is in charge completely.

As for a woman having sex with multiple men, why not? A woman can handle many men sexually a lot better than a man can handle many women.

The tone of your comments seemed to me like you were suggesting I don't have control, and men can pretty much use me for sex when they want.

Apparently I'm missing your point. Which is fine, misunderstandings happen.

Have a great day.

 

[BillyWalrus]

The tone of your comments seemed to me like you were suggesting I don't have control, and men can pretty much use me for sex when they want.

Apparently I'm missing your point. Which is fine, misunderstandings happen.

Have a great day.

I think you thought I was being sarcastic when in fact, I was serious. You DO have all the control regardless of whether a guy can push your button or not!

 

[kreemi_pi]

I think you thought I was being sarcastic when in fact, I was serious. You DO have all the control regardless of whether a guy can push your button or not!

Ok cool. Thanks for clarifying.

 

[Penus_Flytrap]

Not long after meeting my new roommates, one of their boyfriends casually lays in my bed at like 2am, waking me up then chat for a few, and he laid his arm on me then began wandering his hand around my body. I guess he was just trying to see how far I'd let him go. I definitely should have removed his arm, but I've never had a guy do that before, and it turned me on. Next thing I knew, he was on top, rearranging my guts. That's when I realized that I enjoy being used.