A Quick Survey question

[SubNebGuy]

Well since I am a woman, I would say "Have fun!", put the gag back on and leave.

I'm a guy, but I'd do the same thing....after taking a pic with my cellphone

that sorta thing...you need to capture the moment for posterity, ya know?

 

[Private_Label]

My survey question is how many of us would take advantage of this situation, would you have pulled on the rope or worse yes or no ??

{female respondent} NO.

I have a couple of questions of my own for you...

1. If one of the BDSM watchwords is "Safe" is leaving someone tied up naked in a public place a safe thing to do? Even is you are watching from a distance there is still lots of room for bad things to happen. Not just rape, or injury from being tied up, but also there are a lot of weidros in the world who could easily physically hurt the bound lady, including shoving a knife into her in many unpleasant ways. As unlikely as it may seem it is still a possiblity. You don't drive your car thinking you could be in an accident. Accidents do happen and people do die from them.

2. Another watchword I hear is "consensual." Is forcing the public to witness the bound person consensual for the public that comes across her? Probably not. People don't go to a public park to see naked people. There are nudist colonies and such that she and her partner could join where the nudity wouldn't be an issue.



Would I untie her? I don't know. I can understand it is her request, but I would feel very uncomfortable just leaving her there. Maybe I would offer to adjust her bonds so that she could free herself from them should the need arise. (i.e. easily slip her hands and feet free, and make certain she could untie any other bonds quickly.)

Would I take advantage of her situation for my own pleasure? OK you are in fantasy land. Not just unsafe in terms of not knowing your partner (and the bound person really not knowing her partner), but also unsafe in that you could be arrested for molestation and/or rape, and the bound lady for public nudity, contributing to the deliquency of minors...

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

I'm a guy, but I'd do the same thing....after taking a pic with my cellphone

that sorta thing...you need to capture the moment for posterity, ya know?

Ohh.....Ohhh .....help me ..... having flashbacks to the beginning of 2001 A Space Odyssey........

 

[leeroy jenkins]

SSC is not the only BDSM guides out there, what about if you believe in RACK, i think its Risk Aware Consented Kink. My club Apex is now this and not SSC, so what does that mean in terms of play, unless someone says RED or the equipment is being abused, a DM will not stop a scene.

So as a person I would want to make sure the woman is safe from harm. In the bdsm sense I would let her do what she wants she is an adult and knows the risks of that play, I hope.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Please skip this post just being a brat....caffeine kicked in

SSC is not the only BDSM guides out there, what about if you believe in RACK, i think its Risk Aware Consented Kink. My club Apex is now this and not SSC, so what does that mean in terms of play, unless someone says RED or the equipment is being abused, a DM will not stop a scene.

So as a person I would want to make sure the woman is safe from harm. In the bdsm sense I would let her do what she wants she is an adult and knows the risks of that play, I hope.

Leeroy...........smiles..........what about in a 'hello this is Planet Earth and here comes Mr Bear sense". Can't just have half chewed bits of submissives strapped to trees it will give BDSM'rs a bad reputation.

Along comes mr bear...........muffled 'red red REDDDDDDDD' .........chomp chomp

Worse still say one of the 'guys' from Deliverance happened by........

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Leeroy...........smiles..........what about in a 'hello this is Planet Earth and here comes Mr Bear sense". Can't just have half chewed bits of submissives strapped to trees it will give BDSM'rs a bad reputation.

Along comes mr bear...........muffled 'red red REDDDDDDDD' .........chomp chomp

Worse still say one of the 'guys' from Deliverance happened by........

If she is playing like this then she should be well informed of the risks, but if I was her hubby I would make sure I could keep an eye on her no matter what. Murphy's law happens when you least expect it. Otherwise I let her assume the risk.

Don't even get me started on that movie it was so bad I can say I hated it with all of my being, so manybe the hubby needs to be a card carrying member of the NRA and have a gun around for some safety.

 

[kiten69]

Hmmm....

Well I just recently enjoyed my first "outdoor" experience...and did I say enjoyed. Even if the outdoors is dirty it really does heighten the other senses...smell, hearing, touch...makes it a little more intense. But then again he never left my side so I felt totally safe. If she's there by her own choice then I would probably hang around in hopes of being tied up as well...hey if you can't beat 'em join 'em! Outside of fantasy land...I would ask if she was ok and if she needed to be freed...I couldn't just walk away wondering.

 

[FurryFury]

I would REALLY not want to walk up on something like this.

If he had actually left her alone I'd be super pissed. That is a major no, no for me. I have a real red button issue about this.

I would not play with her. I would want to slap her but I wouldn't play with her.
I can control my base instincts. I'd hate to feel responsible for her. *grr*

Fury

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Don't even get me started on that movie it was so bad I can say I hated it with all of my being, so manybe the hubby needs to be a card carrying member of the NRA and have a gun around for some safety.

Gimme the bear over the hill billy any day Leeroy......... bear sure is more purdy ...

 

[Evil_Geoff]

On seeing this sight... what would you do??.

My survey question is how many of us would take advantage of this situation, would you have pulled on the rope or worse yes or no ??

And please a short reply reason behind your thinking would be welcomed and are you M/F

I'm Male, sadistic and a Dominant.

In this absolutely fantasy-land scenario, SSC or RACK have nothing to do with OUR conduct. WE are not the participants in the scene. Even if the scene was set up for our benefit by a friend as one poster postulated, WE, as the person wandering into the scene, have not consented to participating in it. OUR consent is irrelevant.

What should be guiding our behavior here is ETHICS or MORALS. Are you an ethical or moral human being? If so, you take responsible, ethical action. If not, then you show your nature as unethical.

My personal actions, based on the information as presented, is this:

1. Since the woman says it's consentual, and she's fine with being bound and blind-folded and gagged, naked, in the woods, I would leave her bound, blind-folded, and gagged, naked, in the woods, for as long as I have time to wait in the immediate vicinity.
2. Upon the husband's return, I would ream him a new asshole for being a fucking nitwit, and the wife as well for trusting the moron with her life and well-being.
3. If the husband does NOT return, and my time grows short and I feel I must leave, then I would release the woman, and offer her the shirt off my back if she had no clothes nearby, or if I had nothing else to offer her for cover. I would also _offer_ her an escort back to her residence.
4. If the woman declined the escort home, I would notify authorities (park rangers, local law enforcement, appropriate agency) where to locate the woman once I got back into celphone range or back to civilization.

It is not my place to save anyone from their own stupidity (I'm a believer in social Darwinism, ie: stupid people should be allowed to remove themselves from the gene pool), but when possible, I should prevent harm from befalling someone. If nothing else, it's good Karma.

As for "taking advantage" of the situation, sorry, but without hubby's consent, and informing my own play partner(s), I'm not playing with or fucking the wife. Informed consent means from ALL parties concerned, not just the two (or more) who are physically going to participate in the act.

*smiles and shrugs*
I'm an ethical being.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

i've reread the original post several times today, and fail to see where patch said the tier deserted the tied as some have postulated. i'll freely admit i bounced patch hard for the partner walking down a public street naked for humiliation purposes and perhaps a little more, because "helluva lot more than intended" seemed an obvious conclusion. This scenario, however, appears doable with modification and planning.

 

[catalina_francisco]

i've reread the original post several times today, and fail to see where patch said the tier deserted the tied as some have postulated. i'll freely admit i bounced patch hard for the partner walking down a public street naked for humiliation purposes and perhaps a little more, because "helluva lot more than intended" seemed an obvious conclusion. This scenario, however, appears doable with modification and planning.

Location is also a factor to consider, but I agree with you in that it is possible to do. Here for instance, there are many places where you could do this and it not be that out of place or shock material, more likely causing a wide grin and anticipation. Hmmm, I have walked naked down a public street here (well I did have lace top stocking and heels on), though it was late and once again if seen by anyone I doubt it would have caused any bother, but more likely would have created a lot of positive energy.

Catalina

 

[m wisdom]

i've reread the original post several times today, and fail to see where patch said the tier deserted the tied as some have postulated. ...

...
On seeing this sight you look around but can’t see anyone you call out still no one, ...

The husband could be close and hiding but if he can't get to her within 5 seconds I would say he is too far away for any safe play.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

I just reread through this Thread again and asked myself really how I would react based on things that are tangible in my life experience.

Walking in remote places take 2 major parts of my life but one is a National Park and bushland so I can't relate that to 'forest'. I did have a property in the Southern Highlands of New South Wales Australia around the time all this was happening....Backpacker Murders . The Belanglo State Forest was quite close to us. Between experience and media coverage of the facts as they were uncovered, I would have to say kink would be the last thing on my mind. Just seeing a woman tied , blindfolded and gagged would seriously have me terrified even from a distance. I don't know if I would be brave enough to help her knowing if something happened to me my son would be alone. I would find a place I felt safe then get others to assist. I would return to show them where she was . If that was too late I guess I would have to live with it huh. Nothing kink or scene related would tweak a single cell in my body if this was to actually occur to me.

 

[Andante]

Wild life dangers

A lot of posters has mentioned the threat from wild animals. That is very understandable from an american point of view (and many others). Here, I would have to say that the most imminent threat from a wild animal is probably a duck with bird flu taking a dump on her
Seriously, I agree that things like insects, arachnids, sunstroke and dehydration can become a serious threat surprisingly fast if you are immobilized. But speaking of animals larger than rats, I'd say stray dogs would be what I'd fear most, in this country.
I already voiced my opinion about the initial question by agreeing with m_wisdom, but to make it very clear:
I would not see anything sexual in a situation like this. I would see a person in danger, that needed help. I would also wonder whether the person(s) who put her in that situation were intentionally dangerous (i.e. a killer or rapist) or just plain dumb! I would set her free, and depending on the circumstances (location, weather, her mental and physical state, etc.) I'd either escort her home, to the nearest populated area or take her to the hospital or the police.
The bottom line is, that however exciting this may seem from a fantasy point of view, the realities conflicts with SSC on so many levels that I can only view the act as very stupid.

 

[saw_man1]

i've reread the original post several times today, and fail to see where patch said the tier deserted the tied as some have postulated.

AA, I beg to differ.

I took the quote below as indicating that it was just me and her.

On seeing this sight you look around but can’t see anyone you call out still no one, you remove the gag a little and the woman tells you that everything is good and that it’s a game her and her husband play the situation now is you are both there alone, as this woman is tied totally helpless, she’s blindfolded and gagged therefore she’d never know who you are nor would she be able to tell anyone anything until her gag was removed, what would you do??.

 

[Kajira Callista]

The husband could be close and hiding but if he can't get to her within 5 seconds I would say he is too far away for any safe play.

who said he couldnt? you added that to the story on your own.

 

[Kajira Callista]

....On the other hand....

It seems that we may have hit upon one of KC's private fantasies.

could be.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

I think my first gut response would be very similar to @}-}rebecca----'s

On first noticing her I don't think I would immediately approach unless she were in immediate danger.

Look for anyone else... check to see if I am armed (possibly), Do I have anything with which too cut her down with (most likely). Check to see if my cell phone has reception (most likely not in the mountains, ie away from prying eyes). Are there any possible hiding places within a few feet of her? Does she appear to be hurt, is she moving at all/ does she even appear to be conscoius.

So Stag if Oberon your ahead of me by these two possible factors alone. Best I could hope for is I am wearing my heavy charm bracelet and I have never thrown that in my life............smiles

Yes take that foul psycho killer.............lobs gold bracelet at their head......

 

[m wisdom]

who said he couldnt? you added that to the story on your own.

That is true.
What I meant was that the way I have understood the situation, it would be unlikely that he could do much in the time it would take for me to hurt her, and therefor it isn't safe play. I can of course be wrong.

 

[Kajira Callista]

That is true.
What I meant was that the way I have understood the situation, it would be unlikely that he could do much in the time it would take for me to hurt her, and therefor it isn't safe play. I can of course be wrong.

lets try it out and see how long it takes you to get to me when someone else approaches.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

... it would be unlikely that he could do much in the time it would take for me to hurt her.

Which would you prefer: paintball, rocksalt, or full metal jacket?

I can of course be wrong.

Or, i could miss ...

 

[m wisdom]

Which would you prefer: paintball, rocksalt, or full metal jacket?

How about extra soft pillows

Or, i could miss ...

If you use the pillows I'll let you try again

 

[DVS]

Now, let me get this straight. The woman is naked, tied and gagged, and also blindfolded. She said her husband and she do this for sexual fun. But, he's gone away, and the two of you...the woman and you...are alone in the sticks.

It seems to me, the husband sn't getting much fun out of this, if he's not here to see it. Sure, the wife could be a great story teller and she might tell him everything that happened to her, while he was gone. But, something doesn't fit right with that sceneario.

I'd guess he never intended on leaving her helpless like that and so if anybody came around and started to hurt her, he could draw a bead on them pretty fast. I'd guess he'd shoot to scare first, then if that didn't work, well, between the eyes works best.

Sure, the wife said you are alone with her. What is she suppose to say...the hubby is up in that three with you in his sights? And, for their scenario to play out, you have to believe the two of you are alone, so when you call out, nobody is going to answer.

So, the couple's sceneario works just fine. She might find someone who takes advantage of her helpless body, and she and her hsuband get their jollies at the same time. But, I'm sure the main fetish is just to have her naked and tied there, and waiting for someone to come along and see her like that.

Then, she keeps the story alive by saying her husband has left her here, as a sex thing. Some guys might actually try to cut her down. But, i'm sure the usband would be ready for that. And, some might be ready to take advantage of the wife, too. I wonder just how many of you posters might do that, if you weren't posting what you'd do on this thread. I know I'd think about it, if I was there.

But, I'd leave her alone, once I found out her story. I have hair on the back of my neck that tends ot stand on edge, when someone is watching me from the darkness. And, I'm sure this would have been just such a time.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Now, let me get this straight ... But, I'd leave her alone, once I found out her story.

Looks like we read this the same.