A question for the men

I have a partner who is silent when I am penetrating her. It is much more difficult for me to have an orgasm without her making some type of noise. But the issue is, I wouldn't want to to 'fake it" and at the same time, I know she does have orgasms through penetration. So I guess I would rather have her be silent than to fake it. I provide her with oral which allows her to orgasm, and I love it when she reaches that place as she is then vocal. But yes, I have found it hard to achieve orgasm myself without the audio assistance.
 
Question: During sex do most men prefer their woman to be noisy and if sincere not phoney could she be to noisy? Not sure if this is the right place for this

I don’t know about most men but I like some noise. Yes for me there can be too noisy. I once dated a girl who had a squeaky high pitched voice and sometimes she got real loud and it would give me a headache. Another had this low O voice and it sounded like a dog barking.
 
I love it to be sincerely noisy when we fuck. I love dirty fucking talk as well. And when at a hotel I love us being heard by strangers, so hot.

And then there’s making love which is a softer sensual noise.

A time and place for everything.
 
When we were younger my wife was noisy.Then it turned in to dirty talk and the words changed as the months went by. First Fuck me Fuck me with your big cock. used me,Fuck your slut,Fuck your whore,Fuck your cock whore, You better fuck your slut or I will get your buddies to do it. Then it went into the names of buddies and got more descriptive. this went on for about1 1/2 years with added role play,porn shops,driving and playing with herself etc.
Fast forward into our 30s it came back. At the time I was fishing with a group of younger guys in the 20s. She started using their names and describing what she wanted with them in a certain ways. Then the 5 of us went fishing in the boat and the the wife was tanning in the late morning when no fish were biting. She got all 3 guys plus me in the next few hours and through the next summer. My wife was flipped and filled my times in the 2 summers..
We had a very active sex life through our mid 40s and then a slowed down.
 
I like to know that I am doing what she enjoys. If she is silent I question myself about why she is not moaning or telling me she likes it. Had one woman tell me that her husband made her stay silent. She also asked if I would cumm in her mouth because her husband would not do it. We had a good time and she thanked me afterward.
 
I tell my wife to be herself! She's usually somewhat reserved, but get a few drinks in her on a date night and the party's on!! Love it!!
 
Question: During sex do most men prefer their woman to be noisy and if sincere not phoney could she be to noisy? Not sure if this is the right place for this
Be yourself, enjoy the intimacy. You would get to know your partners likes and dislikes through communicating verbally, physically and it should go both ways. You may find making noises a catalyst towards your org, or you may not find it appealing at all. If your partner likes it, you may compromise and do it at critical times.. You may enjoy what your noises are able to do your man.. who knows? :)
 
Guys like to feel like they did a good job, and noise an indicator, but not the only one. Things like clenching the sheets, and biting something to not scream, can also be forms of expression.

I'm of the opinion that just because it's not "real" doesn't mean that it is fake. Like a pair of really nice boobs. Rather than investigating how "real" they are, I would advise just enjoying them while you can.
 
I love moans and dirty talk. There’s nothing hotter to me than hot dirty talk while fucking. It really gets me going.
 
Question: During sex do most men prefer their woman to be noisy and if sincere not phoney could she be to noisy? Not sure if this is the right place for this
I have been with both noisy and quieter woman and it depends, some noisy seemed to force it out almost unnaturally while others seemed as a natural spontaneity the latter elevating my mood, some quieter woman seemed that they were holding back while some seemed more naturally reserved and again the latter was in my opinion the better time. So for an answer to your question is it depends on the woman at least for me, I know my wife happens to be a very vocal sex partner but it comes quite naturally for her so it is awesome.
 
Yes to some degree but past a certain point it just becomes distracting.
There's real and then there's fake, but that's already been covered. I once had a gf put her fist through the sheet rock wall. I think she was enjoying herself.
 
Mine is usually silent unless she is having an orgasm. Who doesn't like a cheerleader? There are so many times when I just wish she would moan a bit....I have always thought it would be fun to do a little dirty talk. The only problem is....she sometimes will say something that sounds silly (in normal conversations) and then go on a laughing jag. Laughter, one of the top of the list boner killers.
 
I'm not sure noisy would be the word... I'd like communicative. Letting me know something is working, feels good, etc.. Whether that is a verbal statement or clear non-verbals, just that communication.

A little overselling for my benefit is fine, but I don't want the fake pornstar screamer stuff.

My wife is very quiet, sometimes she'll talk but not often. For awhile there she was a little mora vocal, especially when telling me where to cum, but she's kind of faded from that the last few times, kinda been a let down.
 
There's real and then there's fake, but that's already been covered. I once had a gf put her fist through the sheet rock wall. I think she was enjoying herself.
Okay that just might throw me off my game lol
 
Yes, I like carrying on a conversation with my lady... A very dirty conversation that is. Things that would make a pornstar blush.
 
Question: During sex do most men prefer their woman to be noisy and if sincere not phoney could she be to noisy? Not sure if this is the right place for this
I've been with women that were just heavy breathers and whimpered through their orgasms and then others that were outright pornstar vocal stand ins. To be honest, it makes no difference to me as long as she is satisfied.
 
Are any of you old enough to have seen Porkey's where the boy's PE teacher has sex with the girls PE teacher in the boy's locker. I still laugh when I think of it
Actually just re-watched it (for about the 38th time) last week. The PE room scene never gets old... LASSIE, wooo-hoooooo-wl.
 
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