A poll for our cuckold crowd

[MRaith]

Lit forums are replete with men (less so women) who want to live a cuckold/cuckquean lifestyle. I have seen lots of posts to that effect. I see fewer cuckqueans, but they bubble up occasionally.

For those who crave and/or have it, I am curious what it is that makes it desirable to you. To that end, I wanted to create a poll but replies will do fine. I have some preassembled responses but feel free to add your own or add nuance where I missed it.

a. You enjoy watching them at play.
b. You enjoy humiliation/exploitation play.
c. They have needs you cannot/will not fulfill.
d. You feel empowered as a byproduct of their empowerment.
e. All of the above.
f. None of the above.
g. Other

Perhaps unnecessary to say but I will nevertheless: the intent of this poll isn't to judge anyone who has or wants to live this lifestyle. I am the possessive sort, so seeing so many cuckolds--which I feel is at the opposite end of the possessive spectrum--was surprising. Attribute it only to an inquisitive nature, please.

 

[NapierBone]

Mostly (a) …. but that edges into (b) and (c). I love watching my wife really losing control with another man and being dominated by him in a way she doesn’t submit with me. I don’t need any direct humiliation play - but to get really turned on I need to see he’s taking her to places I can’t.

 

[pixie07]

Lit forums are replete with men (less so women) who want to live a cuckold/cuckquean lifestyle. I have seen lots of posts to that effect. I see fewer cuckqueans, but they bubble up occasionally.

For those who crave and/or have it, I am curious what it is that makes it desirable to you. To that end, I wanted to create a poll but replies will do fine. I have some preassembled responses but feel free to add your own or add nuance where I missed it.

a. You enjoy watching them at play.
b. You enjoy humiliation/exploitation play.
c. They have needs you cannot/will not fulfill.
d. You feel empowered as a byproduct of their empowerment.
e. All of the above.
f. None of the above.
g. Other

Perhaps unnecessary to say but I will nevertheless: the intent of this poll isn't to judge anyone who has or wants to live this lifestyle. I am the possessive sort, so seeing so many cuckolds--which I feel is at the opposite end of the possessive spectrum--was surprising. Attribute it only to an inquisitive nature, please.

For me it’s some of a , b , and c. I like watching her play with her lovers and she definitely has needs that I’m not capable of for filling . But the one thing that I need the most is the humiliation.i need to be and feel humiliated .

 

[SissySalina]

C

 

[WonderPonder]

I've had cuckold fantasies for many years. Been married for over 30 years but my wife wouldn't even consider it or role play, pillow talk about it. It took a serious health issue with myself to finally get it to happen.

I wish I could say A as I'd like to watch but that hasn't happened and not sure if it will.
I'd say B and C fit in our situation.
I haven't had intercourse with my wife since August and won't for probably another 4 months so I can't fulfill her needs.
I'm well below average in both length and especially girth whereas her new man is above average in length and especially girth.
I enjoy the humiliation of her admitting he's incredible as he's given her orgasms from intercourse which I never have, they can do more positions and he has great stamina.

I also like that her pussy and body is his with me only receiving handjobs. All this would never of happened if it weren't for my health issues and enjoy the thought of when I recover her body will still be his.

 

[cowboyup6977]

As a woman number one
Then it’s all about me

 

[JR284]

I don't necessarily identify with any of the options. For me it's a combination of compersion and enjoying just knowing how many different men get to enjoy my wife. Although I do enjoy getting to watch on occasion, my wife primarily plays solo and I get all of the details afterwards. The arousal for me doesn't come from watching directly. It comes purely from knowing how much she desires other men, and how many different cocks have been inside of her. Whenever I'm with her, whether it's going down on her, or fucking her, I'm constantly reveling in the knowledge of how used her pussy is. I also get great enjoyment in helping her get ready for dates. Buying her sexy dresses, lingerie, even helping her get dressed is a great way for us to share the moment and connect as partners before she goes off to have fun with someone else. Neither of us get into any humiliation. Some light teasing at most.

 

[Purefocus2214]

For me, personally, it’s A for sure. Watching them play and seeing my wife grow sexually and do things with him that she wouldn’t do with me is exciting.

 

[UtilityCurve]

G, actually.

No two people are identical in appearance and manner. That means, on a bedroom level, that sex with one person MUST be different in some way (subtle maybe, [un]pleasant, but essentially different).

To me the thrill of her exploring is that every time, I know there is something new for her, and novelty is a fundamental human delight. The greatest buffet imaginable, all for her to sample as she wishes.

You have to love giving her that if it's something she enjoys.

 

[Ramone45]

The main thing for me and my wife is that she suffers from premature ejaculation. She STRONGLY prefers to cum via penis-in-vagina sex, and there is no way I can get her there. I just end up frustrating her. She loves me for lots of reasons, but I cannot fulfill her sexual needs. So, we agreed for her to have boyfriends for sex.

 

[SPARTAN047]

E.

Fantasy only.

I also get off on being the cuck cake or sometimes bull.

Some of my fantasies are very extreme, feel free to DM me for them.

I agree with OP - I'm also the possessive, angry and jealous lover IRL, and I'd walk out right away if I caught my lover in someone else's arms, or arse in the air bent over, etc. Even plenty of women in interviews have fantasized about another woman taking advantage of their man while they have to watch, but won't actually do it.

 

[SPARTAN047]

https://www.sex.com/pin/65218022-do-it-baby-i-wanna-watch-your-fuck-holes-get-dominated-by-3/

She's the porn star Remy LaCroix so it's a safe fantasy.

I'd love to think of her getting dominated and fucked by those three big cocks, them cumming all over her face, tits, arse, in her pussy and arsehole, then her feet and me licking her completely clean in front of them.

Then maybe round 2.

 

[CuckGuy89]

A

 

[luckyseven]

For me, personally, it’s A for sure. Watching them play and seeing my wife grow sexually and do things with him that she wouldn’t do with me is exciting.

Same for me, no question.

 

[bjlatx]

For me it is probably A and C. I love watching my wife, although all of her dates are now just her. I’m ok with it as she makes videos for me. She also is getting something I can’t when she is with one of her guys, so I’m happy for her to get it. I’m not into humiliation in front of the guys, but I enjoy it when she teases me. I wouldn’t mind if she teased me a little when she is recording with one of the guys she sees, but I don’t want him saying anything.

 

[MeganFachs]

My husband is the cuckold and first brought it up in our fantasy play. It got more serious until we decided to make it real.

So I guess the poll is for him. He doesn’t get to watch but the humiliation of it all, of every part of it is huge to him. He is also a huge sissy (near 24x7) so he prefers our sex to be pegging and his oral service to me. So my having other lovers gives me what I crave that he doesn’t want to give me any more.

 

[hulmule]

Not sure what Drives people but im glad it does... I'm a Bull and it feels very satisfying to give pleasure to her and he is happy i pleased his wife. Being in a sexless marriage, wish i could find a couple or wife... Wish i could talk my wife into watching being she has no desire for sex at all. Show her the pleasures she could be having with us.

 

[Swuchroo]

For me it’s A-C. I would call myself a passive cuckold.

My wife sees other men. I have approached her but she denies that she is fucking others. We have friend finder and so she knows I can see where she travels. She meets her man 2hrs away in a parking lot of a mall or an attached hotel. She spends about an hour at the location before coming home. As soon as she gets home she showers and washes her clothes. The whole time she goes on her visits I watch her location and imagine her bull railing her pussy and ass.

We have an active sex life but is limited to me eating her pussy and ass and her sucking me but having me cum on myself. No fucking.

It’s a unique situation and perhaps it will escalate but for now it’s passive.

 

[TravisAW]

g. We had an MFF threesome but not a MFM threesome. It's the curiosity of being the partner who sees their SO have sex with someone else that interests me in it. Not the lifestyle, humiliation, etc., just the chance encounter. Even a foursome, where we partner swap in the same room would work. Night in a hotel, meet the right person(s) in the bar, get chatting, etc.

 

[steamboat610]

G.

She is my favorite pornstar to watch.

She wants sex more than I can be hard, not that I don't want it to, just can't keep up for as long. Makes it more fun having more cock around.

Not so much into humiliation but love her being used and for that matter me being used for others pleasure too.

 

[Erosfan]

I have enjoyed CFNM for a long time. This gets caught up in the "cuck" scene quite often.
I have never been interested in being a cuck and I have no issue with those who are into it. I just enjoy letting go and letting my SO use me for her pleasure. If she wants to invite her friends to watch what we do, that is even better.

 

[sundown1]

I'm gonna go with C, then A. I want that big cock that lasts for her, and I'll enjoy watching as she gets it.

 

[sean080183]

A and D for me.

 

[JusticeGrey]

The fantasy for me would be my wife having more sex and me getting to act on my bi desires. I would lean in more to the hotwife side of things

 

[Sgts19]

Its all about her. The better time she has the more excited I am