I was pointed to this site by my husband hoping to explore my newfound curiosity. I'm not exactly bi, but I have wondered..fantasized..about sex with another woman (women!). I have rented several girl on girl 'movies' and luckily my husband has been very supportive!! What guy wouldnt though lol. Anyway, I'm just hoping to chat with other like minded ladies. I've been curious before, but never acted on it. Just thought its time I stopped trying to kid myself. I am secure enough in my marriage that I could approach my husband. Thanks in advance for listening to my blabbering!
A little 'curious'
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WetBrunette
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I've been with another woman once and although it wasn't everything I fantasized about, I want to try it again sometime I think. I like the girl on girl movies too and fantasize about it often. PM me if you'd like to!
Thanks for your posts!! I am very excited to explore this new side. Its fun pointing out women to my husband that I'd like to have sex with lol. He's such a good sport about it. And he is so sweet for telling me 'hey this girl down at the bank might be your type. You should go check her out.' LOL!
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mom_needs_fun
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you should...
be thankful you have a husband so understanding, enjoy x x
be thankful you have a husband so understanding, enjoy x x
Thank you!
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I'm a good chatter with a great imagination like my siggy says 
I've only been with 1 girl back in high school but maaaaan was it exciting!
My boyfriend is also almost 'too' supportive of this side lol
I've only been with 1 girl back in high school but maaaaan was it exciting! My boyfriend is also almost 'too' supportive of this side lol
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Nothing wrong with both people getting something out of it, in fact that's probably the only way it can work.
What do you intend on doing with your "thoughts"? Just keeping it to chatting or do you hope to put it into action? And if so, would you consider letting your husband join or watch?
I plan on making them a reality I hope! And yes I want my husband to watch..then join. I have always been jealous...but I really want to watch him with another woman. Isnt that strange??!
I dont think theres anything all that unusual about a man being "supportive" of his gf's desire to be with another woman!
I did date a girl who made a point of telling me that she liked other women. I dont recall her ever actually flirting with a girl or taking it further while we were together so I'm sure she mostly did it because she knew it'd be a turn on for me - correctly.
I wonder though, how many men would remain supportive if their gf started seeing another woman regularly?
And I doubt it works the other way. i've never told a gf that I've slept with men.
I did date a girl who made a point of telling me that she liked other women. I dont recall her ever actually flirting with a girl or taking it further while we were together so I'm sure she mostly did it because she knew it'd be a turn on for me - correctly.
I wonder though, how many men would remain supportive if their gf started seeing another woman regularly?
And I doubt it works the other way. i've never told a gf that I've slept with men.
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Hi all... and yes, I was in this position not long ago. If you'd like to talk more, please say hi...
Ok I must be thinking like a man because I'm wondering what 'position' that was lol. Nice to meet you!
Yes its hard to approach another woman about that no matter how confident..but i'm definately keeping my eyes open!
With me, it happened that my husband knew a gal about my age whom he discovered was bi. He told me about her. She and I became friends. We'd go to strip clubs, hot tubs, and concerts together. We eventually spent time in the bedroom.
While we were in bed together -- fulfilling one of my fantasies -- she asked if I thought my husband would like to join us. He was on the couch, giving me and my new fuck buddy some time and space. So I said, "Let me ask him."
Needless to say, he said "Yes."
It was a hot evening for all three of us.
HB
P.S. The point I'm trying to make is that sometimes you have to know someone. It's a lot harder to just "find" a gal wanting to do stuff like that. The ice was already broken by the time she and I met.
While we were in bed together -- fulfilling one of my fantasies -- she asked if I thought my husband would like to join us. He was on the couch, giving me and my new fuck buddy some time and space. So I said, "Let me ask him."
Needless to say, he said "Yes."
It was a hot evening for all three of us.
HB
P.S. The point I'm trying to make is that sometimes you have to know someone. It's a lot harder to just "find" a gal wanting to do stuff like that. The ice was already broken by the time she and I met.
With me, it happened that my husband knew a gal about my age whom he discovered was bi. He told me about her. She and I became friends. We'd go to strip clubs, hot tubs, and concerts together. We eventually spent time in the bedroom.
While we were in bed together -- fulfilling one of my fantasies -- she asked if I thought my husband would like to join us. He was on the couch, giving me and my new fuck buddy some time and space. So I said, "Let me ask him."
Needless to say, he said "Yes."
It was a hot evening for all three of us.
HB
P.S. The point I'm trying to make is that sometimes you have to know someone. It's a lot harder to just "find" a gal wanting to do stuff like that. The ice was already broken by the time she and I met.
I'm definately hoping its a girl (or girls!) that I already know...
Are there any possibilities in your life, Indy, any gals who may be interested?
By the way, in one of your earlier posts, you mentioned your husband pointing out hot babes for you. Mine does that, too. He'll see someone and say, "Check her out." His taste in women is about the same as mine. So what he points out usually gets my motor running.
Of course, that's all it is -- just looking. It's not like I ever walk up to a hot girl and introduce myself. I'm way too shy for that.
Still, it's fun to "window shop."
HB
By the way, in one of your earlier posts, you mentioned your husband pointing out hot babes for you. Mine does that, too. He'll see someone and say, "Check her out." His taste in women is about the same as mine. So what he points out usually gets my motor running.
Of course, that's all it is -- just looking. It's not like I ever walk up to a hot girl and introduce myself. I'm way too shy for that.
Still, it's fun to "window shop."
HB
Are there any possibilities in your life, Indy, any gals who may be interested?
By the way, in one of your earlier posts, you mentioned your husband pointing out hot babes for you. Mine does that, too. He'll see someone and say, "Check her out." His taste in women is about the same as mine. So what he points out usually gets my motor running.
Of course, that's all it is -- just looking. It's not like I ever walk up to a hot girl and introduce myself. I'm way too shy for that.
Still, it's fun to "window shop."
HB
Several actually. There are a few that have hit on me before and I was naive about it. But now I'm the one flirting with the girl at Victoria's Secret lol
Victoria's Secret has some great sales women, as a general rule. You're right about that.
I don't shop there as much as I used to, though. Don't really need any more overpriced, albeit sexy, underwear or bras.
I don't think I've ever flirted with a VS sales women, come to think of it. Do they seem receptive?
I don't shop there as much as I used to, though. Don't really need any more overpriced, albeit sexy, underwear or bras.
I don't think I've ever flirted with a VS sales women, come to think of it. Do they seem receptive?
I dont know about in general, or if they are just trying to make sales. But the girl takes one look at me and says 'damn girl you must be at least a 38D' lol. I kinda liked being sized up by a woman!
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lucky me
I have been lucky enough that when I told my husband that I was bi he was very supportive of me. He isn't even interested in participating in any way, either as a participant or even watching. Ive only had one opportunity to be with another woman before her boyfriend decided he was not ok with it anymore. Now Im in a situation that I want another opportunity but don't know where to look for another girlfriend as Im newly open about it and before always kept any thoughts and fantacies to myself. Any advice?
I have been lucky enough that when I told my husband that I was bi he was very supportive of me. He isn't even interested in participating in any way, either as a participant or even watching. Ive only had one opportunity to be with another woman before her boyfriend decided he was not ok with it anymore. Now Im in a situation that I want another opportunity but don't know where to look for another girlfriend as Im newly open about it and before always kept any thoughts and fantacies to myself. Any advice?
I have been lucky enough that when I told my husband that I was bi he was very supportive of me. He isn't even interested in participating in any way, either as a participant or even watching. Ive only had one opportunity to be with another woman before her boyfriend decided he was not ok with it anymore. Now Im in a situation that I want another opportunity but don't know where to look for another girlfriend as Im newly open about it and before always kept any thoughts and fantacies to myself. Any advice?
Im kind of looking myself..maybe not for a 'commitment' though..just someone to have fun with. I think there are more of us out there we just have to keep our eyes out for each other!
