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Okay, I think I need to stop playing match maker or something... I set up a friend of mine with a guy friend, they've had sex twice, but haven't really gone out at all. I guess she says that he seems more like a brother type than a lover and doesn't know what to do. I told her she's jumping to conclusions, but she won't listen to me. So, she wanted me to post her problem here since she's too nervous to do it herself...
 
If he only feels like a brother to her then they need to stop having sex. It doesn't seem as if this relationship really stands a chance if they have deceloped the sexual relationship before developing a friendship. It can work no other way.
 
If she sees him as a brother type there isn't much there yes it is good to be friends first, but she seems not to really intend on having a relationship that is meaningful. I think they can be friends, but as far as having a relationship there doesn't seem to be much there as far as feelings and such are concenered.
 
My advice is....

to let your friend solve her own problems and stay out of it. As an aside, maybe she likes having sex with her brother.

blue
 
Well if it is not meant to be there is not much you can do. If they want to be bed buddies well let them go and see what happens.
 
Well... She fears he thinks of her as a sister type, etc. She wants more from him. And I know she isn't into incest role-play since she alwasys teases me about it! :) And as for your comment, Blue, she TOLD me to post this! ~sigh~
 
Alright, time to come clean. Yes, I did ask and tell Tiggs to post on behalf of me because it's not something I'd normally get myself into. Meaning having casual sex with someone I wasn't serious about.

Now here's the whole situtation in my own words:
I met this guy through a friend obviously and we had sex the first night I met. We had been drinking (not using that as an excuse, I knew what I was doing)and one thing led to another, boom, we were in bed together. I leave for 13 days on vacation and come back and find out that he had been asking about me while I was gone so I must have misread that as him being interested and pursued it. We met up again the other night, had sex again and now it's like I'm not good enough for anything else but sex. Now I know I kinda set myself up for this by sleeping with him the first night but he did and said some misleading things himself.
Now when I talk to him or ask him to go out with us some night he's busy or sick or this or that and he talks to me like a brother would talk to a sister. No emotion, no nothing. Just short, straight to the point and conversation over. All of this leads me to believe is that he has no interest in me at all except when he's drunk or wants to score. My question is, should I try talking to him and seeing what's going on in his head or leave it be and chalk it up to two one night stands and walk away with what dignity I have left?

Ezzie http://smilecwm.tripod.com/net2/sad.gif

P.S. Tiggs, I love ya for helping me and sorry if people took it as you butting in. You're my best friend and even if hadn't asked you for help, I'd want ya to butt in!
 
Oh boy. I know those signs

Sorry Ezzie. You probably not gonna like what I have to say. I know those signs. Even pulled them myself a few times in the past.

It sounds like he's only after the sex part. But has otherwise no emotional interest in you.
It also sounds like he wants to KEEP the sex thing. But at the same time keep a certain distance to you.

The way he's acting is a dead give away. I'm sorry to say.

Now, if you want more out of him, you can try to confront him and find out what is going on in his head. With the potentual chance of crash'n burn.
Or you could choose to just walk away and flip him the bird and a big F*** you.

It's all up to you, I'm sorry to say. You have to make the choice. Because he ain't gonna do it, trust me on that one.

Sorry babe. I hope it all works out for you.
 
Re: Oh boy. I know those signs

Xander said:
Sorry Ezzie. You probably not gonna like what I have to say. I know those signs. Even pulled them myself a few times in the past.

It sounds like he's only after the sex part. But has otherwise no emotional interest in you.
It also sounds like he wants to KEEP the sex thing. But at the same time keep a certain distance to you.

The way he's acting is a dead give away. I'm sorry to say.

Now, if you want more out of him, you can try to confront him and find out what is going on in his head. With the potentual chance of crash'n burn.
Or you could choose to just walk away and flip him the bird and a big F*** you.

It's all up to you, I'm sorry to say. You have to make the choice. Because he ain't gonna do it, trust me on that one.

Sorry babe. I hope it all works out for you.
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Here Here, What he said!!!!!!
 
Sorry Ezzie

Xander is right I think. They are textbook signs. I know of what I speak since I have been that kind of guy on more than one occassion in my misspent youth. Its a rotten thing to do but thats how it happens sometimes.

Sorry
 
Tiggs,

Funny, but maybe not so funny story here but...

These friends of mine set up their single (never been kissed), low self-esteemed friend up on a date with this guy who was funny, nice, good looking (not so smart but hey!) and well, they had sex the very first date! (and a lot more sex over the course of the next week they dated). No protection and needless to say... yep!

Anyway, after she found out she was pregnant, she also found out (and so did my clueless friends) that he had 4 kids from 4 other women running around already!!
If they had known that about him they would never have set her up, but nevertheless she had her baby in Sept. and is really happy.

So, ummm advice? haha don't know !
 
Really Chef? Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck!!! hehehehehehe
 
Dearest Ezzie....

You must have a very powerful personality to have TOLD someone as strong willed as Tiggs to do your bidding for you. Poor Tiggs, such a softie on the inside with a hard crust on the outside.

I applaud you for coming forward and posting here. You'll not need anyone to act for you,here, anymore AND Tiggs won't have to rationalize her behavior, any longer.
 
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