A lesbian told me

[JohnnyA]

That the nicest thing you can do for your woman is to , right before sex , inform her that you are going to clean your hands and fingernails so that they are totally sterile. Because you don't wan't their to be any chance at all that when we make love that I would infect you with any kind of bacteria .



she said if I say something along those lines and mean it that my partner love me forever.

Would a statement like that from a partner affect you?

 

[Stella_Omega]

"I'm just going to clean up for you, I'll be right back..."

 

[PressNightly]

I can definitely say that this is the honest truth when it comes to my wife, tho she tends to be a major germaphobe. I think in most cases doing this for a woman would get you bonus points, tho try not to be so clinical about your wording.

Then again I was once with a girl who was of the opinion that when it came to sex and intimacy the dirtier the better (both physically and mentally), so I would also definitely take it on a case to case basis.

Just my Y chromosome's 2 pennies.

 

[naughtyinsilk]

Cleanliness is next to horniness, well yes probably, but really a person should be making sure their hands and under their nails is clean before doing most things.

However you will never be sterile, unless you use products which are really formulated for a medical enviroment. Importantly whatever you clean with should be rinsed off thoroughly, as traces of many products that could left behind on your skin are not suitable for contact with the more sensitive areas of the body, and may cause more health issues than they solve.

Commonsense, especially round anal play is what it comes down to, good hygiene practices in sex as in the other areas of life will reduce significantly the chance of infections etc but not eradicate them.

Dont stress just enjoy a nice bath together

 

[bad_dave]

I get the sentiment behind this but if not worded correctly it could certainly be a passion killer.

 

[Licia]

Yes, it always has a profound effect on me. It means my partner cares about my health/sensibilities. Also, the "dirtier" aspects of sexual acts (rimming and such) become open possibilities. Eh, it's the hubby's signal that he hopes inhibitions will not interrupt playtime. He doesn't say it out loud, though.