A Hypothetical

[Sillyman]

I have chatted with several male friends here where it has never turned sexual.

I can vouch for that.

 

[Ishmael]

Picture it: Sicily 1963. Nah, really.

Women of lit,

You find yourself talking to a male poster. You exchange thoughtful PMs back and forth. You develop a rapport. You engage in casual banter and grow interested in what they have to say. They are nice to talk to and you enjoy the occasional banter on the board and serious or playful conversations you have in PMs. Can you keep it at this level? Or, must you at least try to sexualize it?

I have noticed some things about lit. What is interesting is the fact that there aren't as many male/female friendships that are truly just that. At some point, one party feels the need to sexualize it. Is it because you can't handle a male/female friendship without that sexual element?

I know, I know, it's a porn board. You've all been trying to pound that into my pee brain for the last year and a half. But, I'm serious. It seems as if everytime a man and woman become friendly someone has to push that sexual button. Normally, it seems that it is the woman.* Is it being used as a tool? Is it a way to further a man's interest and try and get a more continual communication? Do you really just want fake fucking and the conversation is only supposed to lead to that ultimate goal?

Men, what do you tend to feel regarding this topic? Do you feel that sometimes women must sexualize things as you develop a rapport with them? Do you feel the need to sexualize things?

Is it kinda like the old saying about sex : when you run out of things to talk about you fuck?

*italics mine.

You are the hammer to the nail Lavy.

Ishmael

 

[kotori]

Ish

*italics mine.

You are the hammer to the nail Lavy.

Ishmael

Why do you feel compeled to always quote an entire long passage, only to add a single line? Fucking burns my arse.

 

[Smooth_Operator]

Looks like I may have to recant my earlier post. Now that he's showed up in this thread, I'm reminded of the time I tried to go down on Sillyman. I got tangled in the seaweed and blubber, tho, and never really made it, so I guess it doesn't really count.

 

[Ishmael]

Re: Ish

Why do you feel compeled to always quote an entire long passage, only to add a single line? Fucking burns my arse.

Is that a sexual reference?

Ishamel

 

[Problem Child]

Re: Ish

Why do you feel compeled to always quote an entire long passage, only to add a single line? Fucking burns my arse.

ditto.

 

[Azwed]

Re: Re: Ish

ditto.

 

[kotori]

Re: Re: Ish

ditto.

*bowing before the master*
we're not worthy...we're not worthy...

 

[Ishmael]

Re: Re: Ish

ditto.

Wow, another "Rush" fan.

(Don't read it. )

Ishmael

 

[kotori]

Re: Re: Ish

Is that a sexual reference?

Ishamel

you wish, big boy

 

[Problem Child]

Re: Re: Re: Ish

*bowing before the master*
we're not worthy...we're not worthy...

Kotori, believe it or not, I was being serious...I fucking hate it when people quote a long post and add two words underneath.

Even worse is when they quote and then forget to say anything. Fucking bubbleheads.

 

[Ishmael]

Re: Re: Re: Ish

you wish, big boy

Not at all.

Ishmael

 

[Problem Child]

Re: Re: Re: Ish

Wow, another "Rush" fan.

(Don't read it. )

Ishmael

hehe, I actually have a dittohead coffee mug a friend gave to me like 10 yrs ago.


Don't tell Laurel, or she won't ever talk to me again.

 

[kotori]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Ish

Kotori, believe it or not, I was being serious...I fucking hate it when people quote a long post and add two words underneath.

I believe it. I'm just in awe of PC answering one of my posts, man.

 

[Ishmael]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Ish

hehe, I actually have a dittohead coffee mug a friend gave to me like 10 yrs ago.


Don't tell Laurel, or she won't ever talk to me again.

She is funny that way. Did I quote too much of your post? Do I care? n1m

Ishmael

 

[Azwed]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Ish

She is funny that way. Did I quote too much of your post? Do I care? n1m

Ishmael

 

[Laurel]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Ish

hehe, I actually have a dittohead coffee mug a friend gave to me like 10 yrs ago.


Don't tell Laurel, or she won't ever talk to me again.

Who're you again?

 

[Ishmael]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Ish

Who're you again?

Told you she was funny that way PC. Start painting agian, blame it on the fumes.

Ishmael

 

[kotori]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Ish

Who're you again?

did you just call p c a whore? omg!

 

[Ishmael]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Ish

did you just call p c a whore? omg!

That WAS good.

Ishmael

 

[Laurel]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Ish

did you just call p c a whore? omg!

PC's a total WHORE.

 

[Ishmael]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Ish

PC's a total WHORE.

But I noticed you didn't use the word "cheap".

Ishmael

 

[Laurel]

No, he ain't cheap.

 

[Private Vasquez]

I try not to make a PM conversation with a dude sexual in any way. And I do quite well with it.

I'm freaky.

 

[kotori]

Indeed

No, he ain't cheap.

you can tell he's high maintainance.