A Hypothetical

[lavender]

 

[Rubyfruit]

I have chatted with several male friends here where it has never turned sexual.

 

[kotori]

I love you only for your brain, Lavy. And it's "pea" (reference to size) not "pee" (reference to what-the-fuck?).

 

[lavender]

 

[Siren]

 

[Ice Cold]

I've talked to several women here and it does not always end in sexual banter... Sometimes just a discussion of whats new, books, or what ever we feel like talking about. I don't feel the need to push it to a sexual level.

 

[Azwed]

Err I dont know sometimes maybe.

Do you think our talks have sexual lavy?? I don't really remember any that have but we have not talked in a while.

 

[Smooth_Operator]

Do you really just want fake fucking and the conversation is only supposed to lead to that ultimate goal?

Guess I'm a newb, but that's eye opening. It didn't even occur to me that fake fucking would be a reason to join up here and start posting.

But now that you mention it, I'm pissed! 2 weeks and 150 some posts, and no one wants a Cyber-Smoothie!?! WaaaaahhhH!!!!

 

[PacificBlue]

I enjoy the friendships that aren't sexual.

 

[Siren]

 

[kotori]

But seriously folks,

There is a certain place where men and women can get together that is familiar, even slightly sexual, but not "get-in-your-pants" sexual. I've found that to be true.

 

[riff]

I am in the no sexual relationship zone right now. If only people would believe me.

I am not so sure I believe it myself, but their hasn't been any sex, I can tell you that.

 

[PacificBlue]

wanna fuck now?

Ok.

 

[Dillinger]

I think some of the women I've gotten to know here are "non-sexual" friends? Maybe. Uh... perhaps?

Seriously. Sex is often a topic of discussion because of the nature of the place we became friends, but not every friendship I've formed here is based on sex or eventually becomes sexualized.

 

[Rambling Rose]

Re: But seriously folks,

There is a certain place where men and women can get together that is familiar, even slightly sexual, but not "get-in-your-pants" sexual. I've found that to be true.

I'll drink to that!

 

[perks]

I'm a sexual person, I don't inhibit my sexuality in conversations with anyone.

That doesn't mean I fuck everyone either, it just means there is sexual context in my conversations. However, there are other facets to my conversations as well.

 

[riff]

I think some of the women I've gotten to know here are "non-sexual" friends? Maybe. Uh... perhaps?

Seriously. Sex is often a topic of discussion because of the nature of the place we became friends, but not every friendship I've formed here is based on sex or eventually becomes sexualized.

Oh come on. You have been after my ass for weeks now.

heheheh

 

[riff]

I'm a sexual person, I don't inhibit my sexuality in conversations with anyone.

That doesn't mean I fuck everyone either, it just means there is sexual context in my conversations. However, there are other facets to my conversations as well.

I can vouch for this.

 

[Oilpainter]

It has been my experience that the friendships run the gamut here at lit from sexual to non sexual. If a transition occurs I think it is usually mutual. The underlying sexual tension is usually there in the emails and PM's so it is natural for it to progress in a sexual direction, albeit it a virtual sexual direction.

 

[Dillinger]

Oh come on. You have been after my ass for weeks now.

heheheh

Well DUH! If you weren't so damn insistent about no sex before we get married I wouldn't be so fucking horny!

 

[Dougy]

This is a porn board? Really...? I am morally outraged!

I have talked to several women on these boards and none of the conversations have turned 'sexual'. Perhaps because I have made it clear that it is not really what I want, perhaps because there is just something about me that does not really invite the sexual aspect to come into play.

Don't get me wrong, we have talked a bit about sexual subjects, but it has never been something that was involving us, but more of a state of affairs sexually speaking. I find it a bit unbalancing when the conversation does turn that way. The moral of the story may be that if a man is not motivated by the quest for sexual contact, he becomes more open to emotional growth. Or, in the words of a man's man, 'Too much pussy in a man leaves a man without pussy' or something like that...That is all I could come up with on short notice...

 

[Siren]

 

[lavender]

 

[kotori]

Re: Re: But seriously folks,

I'll drink to that!

funny you should mention that. I'm drinking now.

And that's the AV that reminds me of the bar in Point Pleasant , NJ, which had a sign that said "Liquor up front, poker in the rear"

 

[Dougy]

Try harder next time, ok?

Well, you know...I was trying to get myself into the traditional male mentality, so my lack of success is really just the discomfort with said role making itself plainly evident in the paucity of humour.