A Hard Man is Good to Be, or The Case for Viagrea

[Samuari]

For those of us that are reaching middle age, we begin to see our performance levels taper off. Sometimes, we just can’t get it up regardless of how turned on we are, and if we do, our erections are not the “diamond cutter” hard that we expect them to be; and we can’t seem to keep them for as long as we used to, either. Probably the biggest casualty is our self-confidence. We aren’t performing up to the standard that we expect to, and we don’t know what is going to happen this time.

Along comes the miracle drug that predictably helps us return to our youthful vigor, (or at least do better than we have been) for relatively small price of having to think about an hour ahead. Halleluiah! Nirvana has arrived, every one wins: I’m feeling like my old, horny self, and giving my lady a much better time…I think.

“Well…I’d rather just have the ‘natural’ you.” She says.

What? I really don’t understand, and she wouldn’t explain, but she was adamant.

“I want just you.”

HELP.

 

[Samuari]

I really want some help here. Please? I don't understand.

 

[Phoenyx]

she Just wants your money. She dont want to sleep with you.

 

[#1tankcomander]

WHAT DO YOU CONSIDER MIDDLE AGED?

Lukily I don't need Viagra yet at 48!

Do you smoke or drink excessively!

Is your sex life the same or has it changed?

Do you use toys?

Do you role play?

 

[stargazer]

Sorry, Sam, I have no clue. If my guy needed anything "extra", I'd buy it for me,..... I mean him and I'd be damn happy there was something out there to help us.

 

[Worm]

Maybe she feels by taking the viagra you are trying too hard (no pun intended) and she loves ya just the way you are.

 

[teddybear4play]

Maybe she feels by taking the viagra you are trying too hard (no pun intended) and she loves ya just the way you are.

That, or she thinks you're making too big a deal about sexual matters, and is afraid that even if you get the blue pills and sport the rock-hard cock, a certain part of the intimacy and spontanaeity of lovemaking will be lost.

This is not her fault, really. Most women just inherently don't understand men's innate desire to be a good lay. We don't like just being average, or settling for okay. We want to be gangbusters in the sack, or we feel inadequate. (A note about this comment: I don't mean to say that women are stupid or anything, it's just one of those Mars-Venus things that the opposite sex has trouble wrapping themselves around.)

Perhaps if you talk things over and reach some sort of compromise, she will realize that just because you want to recover what nature has diminished, doesn't mean that you regard fucking as the be-all and end-all of your relationship.

Good luck.

TB4p

 

[Samuari]

That, or she thinks you're making too big a deal about sexual matters, and is afraid that even if you get the blue pills and sport the rock-hard cock, a certain part of the intimacy and spontanaeity of lovemaking will be lost.

This is not her fault, really. Most women just inherently don't understand men's innate desire to be a good lay. We don't like just being average, or settling for okay. We want to be gangbusters in the sack, or we feel inadequate. (A note about this comment: I don't mean to say that women are stupid or anything, it's just one of those Mars-Venus things that the opposite sex has trouble wrapping themselves around.)

Perhaps if you talk things over and reach some sort of compromise, she will realize that just because you want to recover what nature has diminished, doesn't mean that you regard fucking as the be-all and end-all of your relationship.

Good luck.

TB4p

ThaNKS ONE AND ALL. IT HAS BEEN A MIOST TRYING WEEK.

 

[Samuari]

A bounce for the morning folks.

 

[VeryBadGirl]

My husband is 42, and he can get a diamond cutter no prob. It's not a matter of need.

BUT. We occasionally use Viagra recreationally. Sometimes it's fun to have a 4-hour boner that is reaching for the ceiling and bigger and harder than "normal." I swear it's bigger and hard as a ROCK. It's almost scary. I like him to just walk around sporting it, and since it lasts so long, there's time for that.

This is when we can do ALL the things we want to do without worrying about him getting tired. I can ride that thing til I'm sore. My husband says it's fun for him, too.

Your wife may not LIKE the 4 hour boner. My sis-in-law doesn't. *I* do, at least occasionally. It's not an everyday thing (it's given to us by a doctor friend, so we actually have only used it like a dozen times), but a fun enhancement.

Maybe you could make a deal with your wife - so many times on to so many times off.

Good luck!