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If you were on a camping trip, horny as hell, and you could have a blowjob by a cute gay guy, no need to return the favor, would you let him?
 
I'm married, so no, it would be cheating. But I probably would have done before, if I had been sure it would remain a secret.
 
If you were on a camping trip, horny as hell, and you could have a blowjob by a cute gay guy, no need to return the favor, would you let him?

Absolutely! Some of those cute gay guys do a better job then a lot of women I know! :eek:
 
If you were on a camping trip, horny as hell, and you could have a blowjob by a cute gay guy, no need to return the favor, would you let him?
Great question.

I've had this happen numerous times and so I know exactly what the answer is. It strictly depends on how the guy comes on. He can be a complete turn off or a turn on. So it's not the case that "he's so cute my dick gets sooo hard and I have no impulse control and he sucks me off."

Nope. In fact, looking at guys or talking with them doesn't get me hard. So it has to start with words and move to a hand working the cock, and after those rituals, I'm putty. And that's pretty much the style of seduction a gay guy would use on straights, because he knows most of them aren't going to get rock hard looking at him.

There's a split second of recognition where you know things have moved into a different zone, when your body, anxious and nervous, knows it's going to be brought to orgasm, and it calms down and goes with the flow.

And i'd think it totally unfair to not return the favor.

Now by contrast, take you. You'll get guys rock hard just looking at you, or just at the hint of a smile in their direction. It's actually possible that a sexy woman can easily evoke "she's so hot my cock gets so hard I fucked her and I don't even know her name." See? It's all your fault (LOL)...
 
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I believe that I would. I suppose how you define your own sexual orientation depends on the individual.
 
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No way. But I don't think I'd let a strange woman suck me off, either, if she didn't have some sort of appeal for me.

Personally, I believe you should get to know someone, care about them and yes, even love them, before you use and degrade them.
 
If you were on a camping trip, horny as hell, and you could have a blowjob by a cute gay guy, no need to return the favor, would you let him?

I would if u were there and told me that u'd really like to see him sucking my cock and promise to kiss me and bring your nipples to my lips while he'd be doing it...:)
 
Not homophobic at all.
I think most gay guys I've met are cooler than the straight guys I've met (per capita)

I would never have a guy suck my dick. I like girls. One of the main components to me enjoying sex is the constant thought that "My god, that's a girl doing that!"

I just love women.

Now, I think guys are beautiful, but I think plenty of paintings are beautiful too or a tree, or a sunset--I don't wanna fuck those either.

I like seeing cock in porn. But that's because I like looking at the faces of the girls as they handle the dick. Their arousal is everything to me.

I guess I've gone on more than I should...:eek:
 
If you find the gay guy to be "cute" you probably aren't straight. Which is fine.

If not Bi, you'd have to be fairly hetero-flexible to find this appealing. Some definitely do. Kinsey claims few are straight, but on the other hand he mostly interviewed convicted pederasts, so It's hard to know.

Late in life I had some epiphanies about earlier repression so I decided to assume nothing and re-test my boundaries...As it happens I am just straight.

Friends of mind that are bi or gay report that from earliest times they had at minimum "gay" dreams and often fantasies as well. I never have that sort of thing.

A friend that women and men find attractive put your scenario to the test, and as I explained to him gently, for me a blowjob isn't just warm mouth on cock...it is about the "Who" attached to it.

In my case, the messages I got growing up is boys in general and penii in particular are "dirty". So the kink of it for me is that some "sweet, innocent, undefile-able" girl is eagerly putting my cock in her pretty face...Its but the "oh-so-wrong" aspect competing with the "My that feels good" and an underlying sense of validation and a cleansing aspect to it.

Now days I am (arguably) healthier about the whole thing and can accept the oral ministrations on the face value of an eager little cock-sucker who enjoys fulfilling her oral gratification needs. And its fun to watch someone enjoy their work.

No way. But I don't think I'd let a strange woman suck me off, either, if she didn't have some sort of appeal for me.

Personally, I believe you should get to know someone, care about them and yes, even love them, before you use and degrade them.

Interesting stuff here...I think emotionally I totally get the association with "using and degrading" someone with "getting" a blowjob.

From a (hopefully) more enlightened (for me now) view, it is a beautiful way to share yourself...I of course am in no way degraded when a woman chooses to open herself literally and figuratively to me for me to "perform' cunnilingus. She is 'sharing' herself with me.

When I "Let' a woman take me in her mouth I AM giving of myself. (I actually resisted it a lot before my (now ex) fiance "talked me into it" years ago)

I've a great clip of a friend of mine I hadn't been able to connect with for a while...she takes a couple loving slurps, then looks at the camera and says "Well, if nothing els... it's nice to have your cock in my mouth again." -Doesn't get more validating than that.
 
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Any guys stating yes is not straight and invalidates the question. Straight guys do not engage in sex with other dudes.
 
If you were on a camping trip, horny as hell, and you could have a blowjob by a cute gay guy, no need to return the favor, would you let him?


Hell no, I'd hide behind a tree and whack off. No man lips touching my Johnson.
 
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