One of the things that I've adored about my Dom is the amount of new things we've gotten to experience together.
While I had more actual envolvement and time in the life of BDSM than he did when we first got together, there have been many things that we tried for the first time with each other.
I wanted to start a thread for those kind of experiences. First experiences for things, whether it be for the Dom, or the submissive. Whether it went well, or not so well. What you learned .. etc.
This weekend we got the chance to actually have the house to ourself for a full day on Sunday. (Yay!) Thus allowing a lot of great play time. Also allowing two new things we got to try.
The first .. at the last Fetish Flea he bought a rattan<sp> cane. I feared it a bit, but I was also curious. He's tapped me and hit me fairly hard with it, but never enough that it's left a lasting and long mark as of yet. On Saturday it was my first experience of being swatted hard enough with it several times in a row that it not only raised massive welts that lasted well into the next day, it also raised small amounts of blood, and some deep bruises.
In short, I adored it. I learned that I can take more pain than I've ever been able to in the past. I learned that he's the only person that's ever been able to get me deep enough into a head space to be able to.
The second 'first'.. temporary "play" piercing. I can't even *tell* you how long I've wanted to try this. I've seen it done. I've had permanent piercings. I've wanted to do play piercing for years, but have never been with a partner that I trusted enough, or that was interested. Again, at the last Fetish Flea we bought the equipment and supplies needed.
He never ceases to surprise me. Turning around that Saturday night I discovered that he was getting out the things needed to try this. I was excited ... apprehensive ... a bit scared ... and oh so ready. He did amazing. The first he did in my upper thigh, a practice of sorts. He did it wonderfully. Slow .. shallow ... straight .. perfect. The endorphins started to rush and I put myself in his hands fully trusting that everything would be fine. He did a circle of needles in my breast also, all wonderfully amazing.
It was great .. and more exciting than I had imagined it would be.
First experiences are wonderful. I have others I can share, but will wait before posting any others.
While I had more actual envolvement and time in the life of BDSM than he did when we first got together, there have been many things that we tried for the first time with each other.
I wanted to start a thread for those kind of experiences. First experiences for things, whether it be for the Dom, or the submissive. Whether it went well, or not so well. What you learned .. etc.
This weekend we got the chance to actually have the house to ourself for a full day on Sunday. (Yay!) Thus allowing a lot of great play time. Also allowing two new things we got to try.
The first .. at the last Fetish Flea he bought a rattan<sp> cane. I feared it a bit, but I was also curious. He's tapped me and hit me fairly hard with it, but never enough that it's left a lasting and long mark as of yet. On Saturday it was my first experience of being swatted hard enough with it several times in a row that it not only raised massive welts that lasted well into the next day, it also raised small amounts of blood, and some deep bruises.
In short, I adored it. I learned that I can take more pain than I've ever been able to in the past. I learned that he's the only person that's ever been able to get me deep enough into a head space to be able to.
The second 'first'.. temporary "play" piercing. I can't even *tell* you how long I've wanted to try this. I've seen it done. I've had permanent piercings. I've wanted to do play piercing for years, but have never been with a partner that I trusted enough, or that was interested. Again, at the last Fetish Flea we bought the equipment and supplies needed.
He never ceases to surprise me. Turning around that Saturday night I discovered that he was getting out the things needed to try this. I was excited ... apprehensive ... a bit scared ... and oh so ready. He did amazing. The first he did in my upper thigh, a practice of sorts. He did it wonderfully. Slow .. shallow ... straight .. perfect. The endorphins started to rush and I put myself in his hands fully trusting that everything would be fine. He did a circle of needles in my breast also, all wonderfully amazing.
It was great .. and more exciting than I had imagined it would be.
First experiences are wonderful. I have others I can share, but will wait before posting any others.
I have learned to deep throat, though I still need more practice 
