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JennyOmanHill
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LittleDevilWithAHalo said:
Doesn't sound weird to me, LD!!
Of course at 49 now, I'm still shy, underworked, but I am in love! Finally!!
Everyone has their own schedule! I felt I was in love before, but what I'm feeling NOW is something amazing and brand new. Let's hope we CAN "teach old dogs new tricks"!
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*sighs* thanx folks, it is just that everybody around me seems to fall in love or is in love. if i look at my situation i seem to fancy a guy for max. 1 month and then i lose every interest in him because he is not interesting and challanging anymore to me physicially and mentally.
sometimes i think i'm one of those people who will stay alone because it is their destiny. sorry, im just in a bit of a mood today.
sometimes i think i'm one of those people who will stay alone because it is their destiny. sorry, im just in a bit of a mood today.
LittleDevilWithAHalo said:*sighs* thanx folks, it is just that everybody around me seems to fall in love or is in love. if i look at my situation i seem to fancy a guy for max. 1 month and then i lose every interest in him because he is not interesting and challanging anymore to me physicially and mentally.
sometimes i think i'm one of those people who will stay alone because it is their destiny. sorry, im just in a bit of a mood today.
You are very young. Lots of time to find true love, toots.
At least you are honest in the fact that most men bore you. Hold out for the one that keeps your interest at least a year
No hurry.
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Awwwww......
Lets see....NO!
You're young, and the dating part is a sham. Dating is not all it's cracked up to be. Two people, spending an evening together, trying to convince the other person that they are free from fault and every night would be just like the present one. Not that big a deal, hon.
Undersexed and overworked, I could see as a hassle, but would never chalk it up to being "weird". Why don't you use some of that cash to get you a little love-slave for the weekend? If you can't find any taker's, I'm very affordable, and have great references.
And for the love? That'll just come blindside you one day, when you least expect it. Just make sure to grab on with both hands when it does....
Lets see....NO!
You're young, and the dating part is a sham. Dating is not all it's cracked up to be. Two people, spending an evening together, trying to convince the other person that they are free from fault and every night would be just like the present one. Not that big a deal, hon.
Undersexed and overworked, I could see as a hassle, but would never chalk it up to being "weird". Why don't you use some of that cash to get you a little love-slave for the weekend? If you can't find any taker's, I'm very affordable, and have great references.
And for the love? That'll just come blindside you one day, when you least expect it. Just make sure to grab on with both hands when it does....
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I'm 20, undersexed and over worked. I know I have never been in love and I am also shy shen it comes to dating. So if you are wierd so am I.
However in my book wierd is in the same book as interesting, sensual. Normal is in the same book as dull and boring.
However in my book wierd is in the same book as interesting, sensual. Normal is in the same book as dull and boring.
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I have gone through these feelings with room mates and friends. I am 38 yrs old now. Most of my room mates were under 25 yrs old. Friends also.
It seems today, that more and more younger people feel like something is lacking in their lives if they are not " in love " with someone. And I watch as they flit from person to person looking for the deep meaningful love. It is rather sad to watch their hearts break over and over because for a lot of people, there is just not enough " life " being lived because they are so busy searching for true love rather than waiting to find it unexpectedly.
I had one room mate who was a beautiful young man. 1/2 Japanese and 1/2 Spanish. Handsome, courteous, thoughtful, obsessively neat, well dressed... and he has told me several times he is jealous of me because I have someone in my life to love. But what he forgets is the 12 years I spent all alone. ( And yes he knew me for a lot of those 12 years )
I have spent probably 25 years waiting for my love. I broke my heart so many times over Mr-Right-Here-Right-Now who was not even close to comparing with my love.
In a way I think that all the relationships we have that do not work out, are lessons we learn in how " NOT " to love someone.
What happened to being young and free ? Don't rush your life. Enjoy what you have and live life to it's fullest while the love of your life is moving towards you. I am not saying don't look for love anymore. Just .... don't rush willy nilly through relationships looking for something that is not there yet.
It seems today, that more and more younger people feel like something is lacking in their lives if they are not " in love " with someone. And I watch as they flit from person to person looking for the deep meaningful love. It is rather sad to watch their hearts break over and over because for a lot of people, there is just not enough " life " being lived because they are so busy searching for true love rather than waiting to find it unexpectedly.
I had one room mate who was a beautiful young man. 1/2 Japanese and 1/2 Spanish. Handsome, courteous, thoughtful, obsessively neat, well dressed... and he has told me several times he is jealous of me because I have someone in my life to love. But what he forgets is the 12 years I spent all alone. ( And yes he knew me for a lot of those 12 years )
I have spent probably 25 years waiting for my love. I broke my heart so many times over Mr-Right-Here-Right-Now who was not even close to comparing with my love.
In a way I think that all the relationships we have that do not work out, are lessons we learn in how " NOT " to love someone.
What happened to being young and free ? Don't rush your life. Enjoy what you have and live life to it's fullest while the love of your life is moving towards you. I am not saying don't look for love anymore. Just .... don't rush willy nilly through relationships looking for something that is not there yet.
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Please do not get me wrong, I'm not forcing myself to be in love, as a matter of fact I have been single for much of my "grown-up" life.
It just temporarily pisses me off that like every Valentine's Day I will be the odd one out who will not get a card. And I admit it right here right now, I never got a Valentine's Card in my life. Yes, that makes me weird, doesn't it?
My parents even bring the topic up that I dont have a boyfriend when my cousins are getting married/engaged/moving in with their partners. Even my aunts start asking me questions.
sorry for ranting on and on - just going through a bit of an early midlife crisis.
It just temporarily pisses me off that like every Valentine's Day I will be the odd one out who will not get a card. And I admit it right here right now, I never got a Valentine's Card in my life. Yes, that makes me weird, doesn't it?
My parents even bring the topic up that I dont have a boyfriend when my cousins are getting married/engaged/moving in with their partners. Even my aunts start asking me questions.
sorry for ranting on and on - just going through a bit of an early midlife crisis.
riff
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LittleDevilWithAHalo said:*sighs* thanx folks, it is just that everybody around me seems to fall in love or is in love. if i look at my situation i seem to fancy a guy for max. 1 month and then i lose every interest in him because he is not interesting and challanging anymore to me physicially and mentally.
sometimes i think i'm one of those people who will stay alone because it is their destiny. sorry, im just in a bit of a mood today.
Poor baby. I know exactly how you feel. I am 38 and still single. Never married. I have on more than one occasion adopted the moniker, "Master of the One Month Relationship."
While this hardly encouraging news to you, please don't let it get to you. Refuse to die. I wrote a poem a couple of years ago that I would like to share with you:
One Day
Sometime from now
you will awaken to yourself alone
walking on foot a way
you may never have walked before.
Sleeping, you did not know you slept,
and now the air about you
slips coolly across your head.
Let the wind blow.
When life calls,
follow.
LDWH, I know how you feel. Don't feel bad, baby.
