A descision to make

[Lizard_king309]

I don't know what to do. I have a decision to make between two people. One of them Really likes me and I think I'm starting to liking her. The other I'm crazy about but she's just starting to liking me. I don't want to hurt either's feelings and I don't want to go out with both. Unless I could until one becomes exclusive. I don't know I need some feedback

 

[mrbenh]

decide man

hey man, I think you should decide quickly who you want to spend your time with. If you choose both, and do it secretly, you will end up losing them both. I think either of these others would be crushed to find out that you are seeing someone else at the same time.
Another option, but a tough one, would be to leave them both and see what happens. The "meant to be" stuff always comes back around!
Good luck

 

[NewEnglandBBW]

Lizard King,

I'm not sure how old you are, but I'm 35 and still haven't figured out a good way to see more than one person at the same time. I just find it confusing and I always end up feeling guilty. Decide, or perhaps just back off a bit from both, tell each you need a little time to yourself (but watch it, this can backfire too, losing both).

Good luck.

 

[White_Tigress_]

go with your heart

Why don't you choose the one who you are crazy about?? Why would you wan't to pick someone that you are just starting to like? Your not being true to yourself. Is it tough because you feel guilty if you don't choose the one who is crazy about you? Ego thing perhaps?

I'm not meaning anything bad by this...just wondering where your frame of mind is for deciding...thats all

I myself would go with my heart and chase after the one I am nuts over. Expecially since you said she is starting to like you.

Go with your gutt instinct...I always felt the 6th sense was the right choice. You'll be happer if you feel you made the right decission.
Don't play head games with them though..you really do need to decide.
They find out about each other, and you lost both (and hurt them like you said you don't want to do).

 

[curvacious]

Please don't string either one along---it's not fair to anyone in the equation, including yourself. If you string them both along you risk losing them both. I think that if you do some serious thinking you will know what to do and you'll do the right think. Things that are meant to be happen.