A couple of techniques

[A Desert Rose]

Eastern medical traditions define arousal as an increased energetic state with corresponding physical changes. By stimulating strategic points you increase her overall energy and awaken every inch of her body, making her ready and eager for orgasm.

Helpful hint: try these techniques when you are both naked and relaxed.

***The Hot Spot: the frenulum (that little connective tissue inside your mouth between your upper lip and the gums).

What You Do: Gently suck her upper lip between your lips (no teeth, please), so that your lower lip lightly rubs her frenulum.

What It Does To Her: The frenulum is a direct channel to the clitoris.

***The Hot Spot: Starting between the first two toes, slide your fingers up a couple of inches from the web to where the bones join. If you're a foot lover, you could begin your encounter at this spot.

What You Do: Massage that area on both feet, 30 seconds each.


What It Does To Her: This is a point on the liver meridian, which encircles the external genitalia (in Eastern medicine, that means everything from the cervix out, including the vagina). It's also an important point for draining tension and helping her to achieve relaxation. The technique communicates caring.

Disclaimer: The above post and opinions in it are not neccessarily the opinions of Rose. It was posted to possibly provide an idea for discussion only. Rose may or may not post an opinion in regard to the topic provided.

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What do you think? Anything to all this? Ever tried these techniques? Do you have some that do work?

Crap, I need to get in the bathtub......

Rose :

 

[P. B. Walker]

mmmm... I think I need a volunteer so I can try these new techniques out.

PBW

 

[lovetoread]

I can say that they are true.

The foot thing drives me wild.

I dont know if you can find it in your research,but there is a way to rub your back that does this to you also.

 

[A Desert Rose]

ask and you shall recieve.....

***The Hot Spot: the sacrum

What You Do: Use varying types of touch, starting with light pressure and moving up to harder touch. Watch for increased breathing and physical movement in other parts of their body to see which she responds to best. You can also scrape your nails against the sacrum or grasp the soft flesh back there, gently tugging the skin away from the spine before releasing it.

What It Does For Her: Work in the sacrum increases the amount of energy which flows into the pelvis and directly enhances arousal. Stretching the skin away from the spine opens up and unblocks the energy channel.

***The Hot Spot: between the shoulder blades

What You Do facing her, reach your hands around her back and lightly rub the area to warm and stimulate it. Slowly move closer until your chest is pressed close against hers, continuing to massage her between the shoulder blades. Gradually massage more deeply while holding her in your arms

What It Does For Her: In addition to the energy you create between her shoulders, the contact of your chest in front and your hands in back causes energy to pass through her heart.

 

[lovetoread]

You are a doll.

 

[A Desert Rose]

hehehe

I am a doll BABY or BABY doll. lmao....... all I know is I am a BABY.

Rose

 

[Quint]

I'm liking these. I bet that the same areas (well maybe not the frenulum, haha) would be equally stimulated by use of certain sensation toys as well. Although most of the ones you named are directly on bones, which means no heavy toys, I bet some of the lighter, more playful toys would make a very nice addition to the massaging techniques you described above.

Erogenous zone heaven.

Damn, I was going to attach a link to this one lovely silky rope flogger I've been eyeing on fetishauctioneer.com, but the site just won't load at all on my computer. So fill in the "sensation toy" with your favorite.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I'm liking these
Erogenous zone heaven.

I found a few more. Will post them later, Quint.

Rose

 

[Cirrus]

I thought the frenulum was the line of connective tissue on a man's penis in the center of the glans going to the shaft...or is any type of thin connective tissue, regardless of where it is on the body, called a frenulum?

As for the original post, I don't like my lips sucked on, because then I'm left with a wet lip which feels gross to me. Foot play isn't a turn on or turn off for me. It's something I'll allow but isn't really arousing. The sacrum, now THAT one does it for me.

 

[NemoAlia]

There are lots of body parts that are called "frenulum," Cirrus. Umm... the thingy under your tongue that connects it to the bottom of your mouth, that thingy on his penis... and I'm pretty sure that some of your internal organs have frenulums too.

 

[Diablogrl]

from dictionary.com

frenulum means a "small frenum"

frenum means "A membranous fold of skin or mucous membrane that supports or restricts the movement of a part or organ, such as the small band of tissue that connects the underside of the tongue to the floor of the mouth."

PS - the foot thing is amazing!